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My dad passed away today


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My deepest condolences, brother. I know exactly how you feel. Though in my case, Dad's passing was sudden. What I can tell you is your life will never be the same. You may be the same person, more or less, but your heart will be much heavier.

 

 

My deepest condolences again, man. I'm so terribly sorry for your loss. :(

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wow i'm really sorry to hear that. give my condolences to your brother as well.

He was actually coming in to see him before he passed but did not make it sadly. I wasn't there myself either but probably for the best. We had planned to go tonight since my brother was coming in and would arrive about right around now but he took a turn for the worst.
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My condolences.  :(

 

There are some things that you can't prepare for. Even if you are expecting it, the news still ends up feels new and unreal.

 

Take time for yourself, hang out with real life friends, celebrate the life that was.

 

And give yourself permission to cry when the thaw happens.

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He was actually coming in to see him before he passed but did not make it sadly. I wasn't there myself either but probably for the best. We had planned to go tonight since my brother was coming in and would arrive about right around now but he took a turn for the worst.

that's even more sad. my sincere regards to your family and hopefully you can both be strong enough in this time for your mother as well.

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He was actually coming in to see him before he passed but did not make it sadly. I wasn't there myself either but probably for the best. We had planned to go tonight since my brother was coming in and would arrive about right around now but he took a turn for the worst.

 

Damn that sucks. I hope you have people to talk to if you do start feeling it more later.

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He was actually coming in to see him before he passed but did not make it sadly. I wasn't there myself either but probably for the best. We had planned to go tonight since my brother was coming in and would arrive about right around now but he took a turn for the worst.

That's brutal. And that sounds like what happened with me. I never got to see my dad take his last breath either. He was already gone when my wife and I got to the hospital. Some say it was probably better that I didn't get to see him expire. I don't know. I wanted to be able to hold his hand and say goodbye before he died.

 

 

If there's anything you need -- if you just want to vent about how you're feeling -- just PM me.

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I've known it was coming for a while now and it is strange. I feel numb to it currently. I don't know if it will hit me harder later or not but right now it just seems all so strange. Almost like it isn't real yet I know it is.

 

 

im so sorry honey....

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