UnDeRwOrlDpRiNcEsS Posted June 24, 2023 Share Posted June 24, 2023 Like why? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GuyBeardmane Posted June 24, 2023 Share Posted June 24, 2023 Capitalism, mostly. 5 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lynnrael Posted June 24, 2023 Share Posted June 24, 2023 i honestly don't even know where to begin but I was in one relationship for 9 years and both myself and dating have changed a lot in that time I'm hoping being pan helps but I'm pretty sure it'll just mean i can be attracted to more people who aren't attracted to me 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tsar4 Posted June 25, 2023 Share Posted June 25, 2023 Dating? Gave up on that over 20 years ago. Been happy ever since. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_annoying_one Posted June 25, 2023 Share Posted June 25, 2023 I wouldn’t know. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted June 25, 2023 Share Posted June 25, 2023 Just a few years ago everyone was in lockdown mode. Inflation is at an all time high, and theres a lot of civil unrest between american demographics? I mean it's always been something I have to put way too much effort in to do personally usually anyway so... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted June 25, 2023 Share Posted June 25, 2023 (edited) Weirdly now that I think about it though. I took dating apps a bit more serisously than usual through the pandemic and probably ended up dating more than usual lol. I still don't really like the whole dating app thing that much either.. Edited June 25, 2023 by PhilosipherStoned 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UnDeRwOrlDpRiNcEsS Posted June 25, 2023 Author Share Posted June 25, 2023 I’m using a dating app. Tried a couple different ones, all the guys were the same, just wanted to hook up and call it a day. Tonight I went on a date and he talked my ear off all about himself. Not sure how I feel about that. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rpgamer Posted June 25, 2023 Share Posted June 25, 2023 I mostly use dating apps as people watching. No real desire to socialize, and I'm finding I prefer my own isolation and solitude over wrecking my routines to include someone else.. 1 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stilgar Posted June 25, 2023 Share Posted June 25, 2023 57 minutes ago, UnDeRwOrlDpRiNcEsS said: I’m using a dating app. Well, there's your problem. 1 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Insipid Posted June 25, 2023 Share Posted June 25, 2023 Oh well, we'll soon have AI waifus and husbandos. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HoonBag Posted June 25, 2023 Share Posted June 25, 2023 everyone has unrealistic expectations 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Distortedreasoning Posted June 25, 2023 Share Posted June 25, 2023 i blame phones. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
André Toulon Posted June 25, 2023 Share Posted June 25, 2023 ......I don't seem to have this problem. I'm constantly making excuses not to commit to obligation i get myself into just casually talking. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doom Metal Alchemist Posted June 25, 2023 Share Posted June 25, 2023 4 hours ago, UnDeRwOrlDpRiNcEsS said: I’m using a dating app. Tried a couple different ones, all the guys were the same, just wanted to hook up and call it a day. Tonight I went on a date and he talked my ear off all about himself. Not sure how I feel about that. ....Be careful what you wish for? 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Kudasai- Posted June 25, 2023 Share Posted June 25, 2023 Because someone peed in the dating pool 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UnDeRwOrlDpRiNcEsS Posted June 25, 2023 Author Share Posted June 25, 2023 2 hours ago, -Kudasai- said: Because someone peed in the dating pool We must find the culprit! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Kudasai- Posted June 25, 2023 Share Posted June 25, 2023 21 minutes ago, UnDeRwOrlDpRiNcEsS said: We must find the culprit! This looks like a job for... Spoiler Someone else 1 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gemini Posted June 25, 2023 Share Posted June 25, 2023 Wanna know what else is hard? Uh, math...I think. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Kudasai- Posted June 25, 2023 Share Posted June 25, 2023 17 minutes ago, Gemini said: Wanna know what else is hard? Uh, math...I think. This guy 1 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lynnrael Posted June 25, 2023 Share Posted June 25, 2023 (edited) honestly my current dating plan is to just wait until I'm hot and hope my friend falls for me, which is a terrible plan and probably won't work yeah upon reflecting i see how it's also kinda not fair to him. i may need to actually do more work on myself as a person and figure out how to date and stuff Edited June 26, 2023 by Lynnrael 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tsar4 Posted June 25, 2023 Share Posted June 25, 2023 6 hours ago, -Kudasai- said: Because someone peed in the dating pool That's only because it wasn't "Adult Swim". 2 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vela Posted June 25, 2023 Share Posted June 25, 2023 8 minutes ago, tsar4 said: That's only because it wasn't "Adult Swim". 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted June 26, 2023 Share Posted June 26, 2023 (edited) My dating plans are not a damn thing right now I am so lonely and desperate it's a not funny things ,but I ain't but I'm not going for the first woman I see either Edited June 26, 2023 by ghostrek Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Insipid Posted June 26, 2023 Share Posted June 26, 2023 1 hour ago, ghostrek said: My dating plans are not a damn thing right now I am so lonely and desperate it's a not funny things ,but I ain't but I'm not going for the first woman I see either Shut up and buy a hooker already. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gemini Posted June 26, 2023 Share Posted June 26, 2023 1 hour ago, Insipid said: Shut up and buy a hooker already. That is so mean. (And yet, I agree with you.) 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
André Toulon Posted June 26, 2023 Share Posted June 26, 2023 (edited) On 6/25/2023 at 8:45 PM, ghostrek said: My dating plans are not a damn thing right now I am so lonely and desperate it's a not funny things ,but I ain't but I'm not going for the first woman I see either More of this. Congrats on the challenge win, first of all.... But what exactly do you hope to gain by constantly reminding us of your refusal to get your dick wet. Like are you hoping a girl here goes "omg ghostrek, I'll give you some pussy, don't be sad" because I'm just lost as to what we can do about it now.... We've tried advice, we've tried ghostwriting love letters for you, we even offered to find you a hooker and pay for it and you refused every single suggestion. Our hands are tied now man....is it just about sympathy atp Edited June 28, 2023 by André Toulon 1 3 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naraku360 Posted June 26, 2023 Share Posted June 26, 2023 Yeah, Tinder banned me for making a meme account. I didn't even get to use it. 😥 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vamped Posted June 27, 2023 Share Posted June 27, 2023 22 hours ago, ghostrek said: I am so desperate ... but I ain't but I'm not going for the first woman I see either Beggars cant be choosers bro 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vela Posted June 27, 2023 Share Posted June 27, 2023 On 6/26/2023 at 1:22 AM, André Toulon said: More of this. Congrats on the challenge win, first or all.... But what exactly do you hope to gain by constantly reminding us of your refusal to get your dick wet. Like are you hoping a girl here goes "omg ghostrek, I'll gove you some pussy, don't be sad" because I'm just lost as to what we can do about it now.... We've tried advice, we've tried ghostwriting love letters for you, we even offered to find you a hooker and pay for it and you refused every single suggestion. Our hands are tied now man....is it just about sympathy atp He's an old-fashioned romantic maybe? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gemini Posted June 27, 2023 Share Posted June 27, 2023 34 minutes ago, Vela said: He's an old-fashioned romantic maybe? That would make a lot of sense. I know I can be that way sometimes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naraku360 Posted June 27, 2023 Share Posted June 27, 2023 1 hour ago, Vela said: He's an old-fashioned romantic maybe? You can have an old fashion romance with a prostitute. She just has to have a heart of gold. Or be great at her job. Preferably both. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gemini Posted June 27, 2023 Share Posted June 27, 2023 (edited) 19 minutes ago, naraku360 said: You can have an old fashion romance with a prostitute. She just has to have a heart of gold. Or be great at her job. Preferably both. I'm sorry, and I mean this with all due respect toward the man, but ghostrek is not Richard Gere. lol Edited June 27, 2023 by Gemini I really don't mean it in a mean way, for what it's worth. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vela Posted June 27, 2023 Share Posted June 27, 2023 10 minutes ago, naraku360 said: You can have an old fashion romance with a prostitute. She just has to have a heart of gold. Or be great at her job. Preferably both. Actually you make a very good point. Prostitution is one of the oldest professions. Would certainly fall under "old-fashioned relations". That's a drink too right, an Old Fashioned? Don't think I've ever had one. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
André Toulon Posted June 27, 2023 Share Posted June 27, 2023 (edited) 3 hours ago, Vela said: He's an old-fashioned romantic maybe? We've tried that. "There's a girl I like" "Ok cool, just be yourself, just introduce yourself, try to pick up on any interest you share" "Okay" "Did you do it" "No thank" "What" "I'm so lonely " *Facepalm* Babbling has gotten virgins laid before, but it's impossible to help anyone who doesn't want help. Edited June 27, 2023 by André Toulon 1 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vela Posted June 27, 2023 Share Posted June 27, 2023 10 hours ago, André Toulon said: We've tried that. "There's a girl I like" "Ok cool, just be yourself, just introduce yourself, try to pick up on any interest you share" "Okay" "Did you do it" "No thank" "What" "I'm so lonely " *Facepalm* Babbling has gotten virgins laid before, but it's impossible to help anyone who doesn't want help. Aw. Sounds easy, until you remember you're in introvert. @ghostrek are you an introvert? 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vamped Posted June 27, 2023 Share Posted June 27, 2023 Nothing wrong with being an introvert but if you aren't actively going to take steps to remedy the situation, stop complaining .... to us atleast Why would you continue to complain here? Spoiler Unless you're trying to get some sympathy bussy from your bullies? 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted June 27, 2023 Share Posted June 27, 2023 (edited) 7 hours ago, Vela said: Aw. Sounds easy, until you remember you're in introvert. @ghostrek are you an introvert? in some ways yes but having learning disability The chances of me getting with a girl in high school are 0 to -10 if I was last only man alive @Vela i guse it carried on to adult hood i am became shyer Edited June 28, 2023 by ghostrek 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lynnrael Posted June 28, 2023 Share Posted June 28, 2023 (edited) 1 hour ago, ghostrek said: in some ways yes but having learning disability The chances of me getting with a girl a high school are 0 to -10 if I was last only man alive @Vela i guse it carried on to adult hood i am became shyer do you see having a learning disability as a bad thing? do you want to be with women who think having a learning disability makes you a lesser person? of course that coin has two sides, and you have to be willing to see that most of what people see as moral failings or undesirable traits are just as irrelevant, and then start looking for people to share your life with based on standards that actually matter, like how they treat others and how compatible you are. if you don't want to change, I'm not gonna tell you have to. I'm not gonna get mad if you keep being lonely, but I'm also probably not gonna care. i just don't think the idea that a learning disability makes us undesirable should go unchallenged. i have a learning disability and i don't think that makes me undesirable at all, i think it means there people who would see that as a failing and i think those are people i want to stay the fuck away from anyways. idk, i think you have some internalized ableism to work on. you should consider working on, not to get laid, but to become a happier and healthier person. but that's up to you edit: I'm gonna add, i don't it's bad if you stay lonely, honestly, if you ultimately feel that it suits your needs best. but i don't think you really have to Edited June 28, 2023 by Lynnrael 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted June 28, 2023 Share Posted June 28, 2023 (edited) 7 minutes ago, Lynnrael said: do you see having a learning disability as a bad thing? do you want to be with women who think having a learning disability makes you a lesser person? of course that coin has two sides, and you have to be willing to see that most of what people see as moral failings or undesirable traits are just as irrelevant, and then start looking for people to share your life with based on standards that actually matter, like how they treat others and how compatible you are. if you don't want to change, I'm not gonna tell you have to. I'm not gonna get mad if you keep being lonely, but I'm also probably not gonna care. i just don't think the idea that a learning disability makes us undesirable should go unchallenged. i have a learning disability and i don't think that makes me undesirable at all, i think it means there people who would see that as a failing and i think those are people i want to stay the fuck away from anyways. idk, i think you have some internalized ableism to work on. you should consider working on, not to get laid, but to become a happier and healthier person. but that's up to you @Lynnrael god dam great advice i will become happier person but people see my learning disabilty has a moral failling i do think yes they do but they dont realsion what it is @Lynnrael i dont but i cant let my natural ability shine yet Edited June 28, 2023 by ghostrek 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lynnrael Posted June 28, 2023 Share Posted June 28, 2023 3 minutes ago, ghostrek said: @Lynnrael god dam great advice i will become happier person but people see my learning disabilty has a moral failling i do think yes they do but they dont realsion what it is @Lynnrael i dont but i cant let my natural ability shine yet yes, people see mine as a moral falling too. and it hurts all the time. there is no way around that, but there are people out there that don't. finding them might seem daunting, but it's also not hopeless. but you really need to start by figuring out how to be kinder yourself, i think. just because people see you that way doesn't mean you have to see yourself that way. don't think about as trying to be happy, just think about it as being nicer to yourself, and it gets a little easier. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted June 28, 2023 Share Posted June 28, 2023 2 minutes ago, Lynnrael said: yes, people see mine as a moral falling too. and it hurts all the time. there is no way around that, but there are people out there that don't. finding them might seem daunting, but it's also not hopeless. but you really need to start by figuring out how to be kinder yourself, i think. just because people see you that way doesn't mean you have to see yourself that way. don't think about as trying to be happy, just think about it as being nicer to yourself, and it gets a little easier. great idea be nicer to my self Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Insipid Posted June 28, 2023 Share Posted June 28, 2023 2 hours ago, ghostrek said: in some ways yes but having learning disability The chances of me getting with a girl a high school are 0 to -10 if I was last only man alive @Vela i guse it carried on to adult hood i am became shyer Man, shut the hell up. I just gave a ride home from work to a janitor with a mental disability last night. His girlfriend is a registered nurse. The woman who will be with you will most likely be the one wearing the pants too, and I honestly believe there's nothing wrong with that. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted June 28, 2023 Share Posted June 28, 2023 4 minutes ago, Insipid said: Man, shut the hell up. I just gave a ride home from work to a janitor with a mental disability last night. His girlfriend is a registered nurse. The woman who will be with you will most likely be the one wearing the pants too, and I honestly believe there's nothing wrong with that. ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted June 28, 2023 Share Posted June 28, 2023 7 minutes ago, Insipid said: Man, shut the hell up. I just gave a ride home from work to a janitor with a mental disability last night. His girlfriend is a registered nurse. The woman who will be with you will most likely be the one wearing the pants too, and I honestly believe there's nothing wrong with that. That must have been one hell of ride. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Insipid Posted June 28, 2023 Share Posted June 28, 2023 4 minutes ago, scoobdog said: That must have been one hell of ride. Well, I want to remain topical, but it wasn't bad at all. A bit awkward is all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vamped Posted June 28, 2023 Share Posted June 28, 2023 3 hours ago, ghostrek said: in some ways yes but having learning disability The chances of me getting with a girl a high school are 0 to -10 if I was last only man alive @Vela i guse it carried on to adult hood i am became shyer Sir look .... I need you to clear this sentence up Getting with a girl and high school needs to be fixed ASAP 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted June 28, 2023 Share Posted June 28, 2023 2 minutes ago, Vamped said: Sir look .... I need you to clear this sentence up Getting with a girl and high school needs to be fixed ASAP thank Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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lupin_bebop Posted June 28, 2023 Share Posted June 28, 2023 I could answer this honestly.......but, do you really want me to? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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