Naraku4656 Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 waiting for it to come crashing down is getting annoying Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StarPanda Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 Dude shut up and just go with the flow 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrigunBebop Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 Shut up and kiss me 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naraku4656 Posted January 17, 2018 Author Share Posted January 17, 2018 NO. unless this ends up the way everything else ends up then i'll be fine. things have never historically gone well for me, something going THIS well is just absurd. i'm going to give it another few weeks. if it doesn't change by February or March i'm going to get nervous. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naraku4656 Posted January 17, 2018 Author Share Posted January 17, 2018 2 minutes ago, TrigunBebop said: Shut up and kiss me dude i have had the strangest few weeks in the last 5 or 6 years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrigunBebop Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 Just now, Naraku4656 said: dude i have had the strangest few weeks in the last 5 or 6 years. Strange in a good way? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naraku4656 Posted January 17, 2018 Author Share Posted January 17, 2018 Just now, TrigunBebop said: Strange in a good way? i think so but it doesn't seem right. she came out of fucking nowhere about 2 weeks ago and she's still around. i like her a lot and i know she likes me but i can't help but think either this isn't going to last or that she doesn't know me well enough yet Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StarPanda Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 5 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said: NO. unless this ends up the way everything else ends up then i'll be fine. things have never historically gone well for me, something going THIS well is just absurd. i'm going to give it another few weeks. if it doesn't change by February or March i'm going to get nervous. Well guess what if it does then it's time to venture into new territory Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naraku4656 Posted January 17, 2018 Author Share Posted January 17, 2018 2 minutes ago, StarPanda said: Well guess what if it does then it's time to venture into new territory i've been in this position once before but i was at least in control that time. this time i'm not, and i don't like unpredictability Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mewn Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 Time to marry her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrigunBebop Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 9 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said: i think so but it doesn't seem right. she came out of fucking nowhere about 2 weeks ago and she's still around. i like her a lot and i know she likes me but i can't help but think either this isn't going to last or that she doesn't know me well enough yet If things are going well right now, try to focus on enjoying them right now. And if things continue going well, just keep focusing on enjoying them. I know it can be hard, but try not to let anxiety sabotage the good things you got going on right now. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naraku4656 Posted January 17, 2018 Author Share Posted January 17, 2018 4 minutes ago, Mewn said: Time to marry her. after two weeks? who am I, Brittany Spears? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naraku4656 Posted January 17, 2018 Author Share Posted January 17, 2018 Just now, TrigunBebop said: If things are going well right now, try to focus on enjoying them right now. And if things continue going well, just keep focusing on enjoying them. I know it can be hard, but try not to let anxiety sabotage the good things you got going on right now. i highly doubt things are going to continue like this. just the fact that we've gotten this far is unprecedented Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mewn Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 3 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said: after two weeks? who am I, Brittany Spears? You're not???? Shet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drunkenwarrior Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 Wanna trade? it's fucking shit show over here Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrigunBebop Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 2 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said: i highly doubt things are going to continue like this. just the fact that we've gotten this far is unprecedented Don't psych yourself out. If things are going well, enjoy it. Resisting the anxiety might be what makes this time different. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drunkenwarrior Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 4 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said: i highly doubt things are going to continue like this. just the fact that we've gotten this far is unprecedented They wont...they'll come crashing down and everything is gonna suck for a while....then you'll get through that one and things will be cool again That's life...it's one hell of ride 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naraku4656 Posted January 17, 2018 Author Share Posted January 17, 2018 this whole thing will come crashing down soon, the not knowing when is what's bothering me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StarPanda Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 (edited) 1 minute ago, Naraku4656 said: this whole thing will come crashing down soon, the not knowing when is what's bothering me Let's make a poll and vote for the worst possible outcome Edited January 17, 2018 by StarPanda 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naraku4656 Posted January 17, 2018 Author Share Posted January 17, 2018 6 minutes ago, TrigunBebop said: Don't psych yourself out. If things are going well, enjoy it. Resisting the anxiety might be what makes this time different. i don't get this kind of stuff wrong, at least not with my own life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naraku4656 Posted January 17, 2018 Author Share Posted January 17, 2018 3 minutes ago, StarPanda said: Let's make a poll and vote for thwbowrst possible outcome i already know what's going to happen. it'll not work out for one reason or another probably within a few months. i'll get depressed for about 6-8 months or if this goes on for longer then closer to a year. and then i'll go back to my regular shitposting Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
little_girl_lost Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 don't worry, things always crash and burn, it'll happen in its own time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tricolor Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 Time to start the apocalypse yourself then! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naraku4656 Posted January 17, 2018 Author Share Posted January 17, 2018 Just now, little_girl_lost said: don't worry, things always crash and burn, it'll happen in its own time that makes me feel a bit better. i just want to know when so i can go back to my normal life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hornshire Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 37 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said: i can't help but think either this isn't going to last or that she doesn't know me well enough yet Nothing lasts forever. Relationships conclude in one of two ways: breakups or death. There are no happy endings. Also, there's a word for this phenomenon of awkwardly navigating through unknown circumstances as they happen. It's called "living". And despite being little more than pain after misery after woe... It's not such a bad thing. The trick to enjoying it is not to avoid the oncoming troubles, or to brace for them so as to mitigate damage; but rather, it is simply a matter of being capable enough to clean up after whatever mess you end up in. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 enjoy it while it lasts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rogue_Alphonse Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 First, you complain about not getting a girl on Tinder. Then, you complain about finding a girl on Tinder. MAKE UP YO MIND Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raptorpat Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 If you need the certainty of knowing when it will crash and burn, just invite her here to read sponges' fanfics. 4 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doom Metal Alchemist Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 2 hours ago, Naraku4656 said: i already know what's going to happen. it'll not work out for one reason or another probably within a few months. i'll get depressed for about 6-8 months or if this goes on for longer then closer to a year. and then i'll go back to my regular shitposting You're well on your way to making this a self-fulfilling prophecy. Which is probably what's been behind a lot of your cycle of misery your whole life. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vodkajellyshot Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 7 hours ago, Naraku4656 said: waiting for it to come crashing down is getting annoying stay positive Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Codename: Jackass Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 Whenever I would worry about what next calamity would befall me, my mom would always tell me "Don't borrow trouble from tomorrow." Just live day to day, man, there's no point getting upset over things that haven't happened yet. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NaBarney Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mix Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 I used to do this all the time...it's pretty funny looking back....got nervous if things went to well for too long.... you'll be alright... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naraku4656 Posted January 17, 2018 Author Share Posted January 17, 2018 (edited) 13 hours ago, Scrapple The Rogue: Lvl 1 said: First, you complain about not getting a girl on Tinder. Then, you complain about finding a girl on Tinder. MAKE UP YO MIND i didn't meet her on tinder THAT'S WHAT WEIRDS ME OUT. i've known her for a while but we never really spoke all that often before. that's part of what weirds me out. at least with Tinder i know what to expect since i've had a few okcupid/tinder dates i've had pure irl dates too but not for a long ass time, pure irl is incredibly rare. pure irl + it going as well as it is has not happened before Edited January 17, 2018 by Naraku4656 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naraku4656 Posted January 17, 2018 Author Share Posted January 17, 2018 12 hours ago, Adminderaptorpat said: If you need the certainty of knowing when it will crash and burn, just invite her here to read sponges' fanfics. great idea Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naraku4656 Posted January 17, 2018 Author Share Posted January 17, 2018 11 hours ago, Doom Metal Alchemist said: You're well on your way to making this a self-fulfilling prophecy. Which is probably what's been behind a lot of your cycle of misery your whole life. if this was going to be self fulfilling it would have stopped weeks ago when i predicted that we'd stop talking to each other after 3 or 4 days Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naraku4656 Posted January 17, 2018 Author Share Posted January 17, 2018 that being said i have a feeling that i'll still be right in the end. and if, by some magical happenstance, i'm not right then shit's going to get really weird for a while Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Still Me Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 17 hours ago, Naraku4656 said: NO. unless this ends up the way everything else ends up then i'll be fine. things have never historically gone well for me, something going THIS well is just absurd. i'm going to give it another few weeks. if it doesn't change by February or March i'm going to get nervous. You know what’s gonna cause things to go to shit? It’s you...fuckin relax you baby 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
garbagepailcat Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 I have these same thoughts. Try to just go with it. If it works out, great. If it doesn’t, it doesn’t. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ric Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 Maybe you should just go to your nearest gloryhole. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Juice McKenzie Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 Want me to throw a squirrel at you or something? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naraku4656 Posted January 17, 2018 Author Share Posted January 17, 2018 53 minutes ago, Still Me said: You know what’NEs gonna cause things to go to shit? It’s you...fuckin relax you baby NEVER Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naraku4656 Posted January 17, 2018 Author Share Posted January 17, 2018 49 minutes ago, garbagepailcat said: I have these same thoughts. Try to just go with it. If it works out, great. If it doesn’t, it doesn’t. i'm trying but it's hard man Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
garbagepailcat Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 I know how it is. My boyfriend bought me an engagement ring, but I still keep thinking he’s going to figure out how bad I suck at some point. I think I’ll be married for ten years and still wonder “does he really even like me?” Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naraku4656 Posted January 17, 2018 Author Share Posted January 17, 2018 31 minutes ago, garbagepailcat said: I know how it is. My boyfriend bought me an engagement ring, but I still keep thinking he’s going to figure out how bad I suck at some point. I think I’ll be married for ten years and still wonder “does he really even like me?” i'm nowhere near that point yet and frankly i don't think i'd ever get to that point. mostly because i don't really see myself wanting to be married. too much hastle Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swimmod_Luna Posted January 18, 2018 Share Posted January 18, 2018 Knock her up right now. Lock that shit down. Also stop doubting urself so much holy shit Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Satou Kazuma Posted January 18, 2018 Share Posted January 18, 2018 8sugNQx.mp4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CAC Posted January 18, 2018 Share Posted January 18, 2018 18 hours ago, Athena 92 said: Knock her up right now. Lock that shit down. Lolz, yeah do this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vamped Posted January 19, 2018 Share Posted January 19, 2018 If you want ... i could run over your foot with my car in the parkinglot Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naraku4656 Posted January 19, 2018 Author Share Posted January 19, 2018 On 1/17/2018 at 7:41 PM, Athena 92 said: Knock her up right now. Lock that shit down. Also stop doubting urself so much holy shit god i hope not. waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too early for that with anyone Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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