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I went on one date with this guy over 10 years ago, and to this day, he still messages me to ask me out again. I’ve nicely told him no, I’ve assertively told him no, I’ve tried ignoring his messages altogether...nothing works

I finally blocked his phone number, so I hadn’t heard from him for a while. But now he just messaged me through Facebook. Why won’t he give up??? 😣

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Now it's time to snitch, though I doubt you have records of all his correspondence....Block, report, slightly modify your name to something he wouldn't quite recognize (nothing dramatic, my sister in law is a cam girl that got stalked and she changed her name from Tanya to Tonya...also not her real name, but that's just an example) set profile to unsearchable and collect any other info you can on him or where he lives to compile a decent police report.

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5 minutes ago, cyberbully said:

Now it's time to snitch, though I doubt you have records of all his correspondence....Block, report, slightly modify your name to something he wouldn't quite recognize (nothing dramatic, my sister in law is a cam girl that got stalked and she changed her name from Tanya to Tonya...also not her real name, but that's just an example) set profile to unsearchable and collect any other info you can on him or where he lives to compile a decent police report.

Good thinking! I forgot you can make your profile so that people can’t find you!

I think I deleted his texts when I blocked him, but will for sure start keeping a record of any other communication from him. 

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2 minutes ago, bnmjy said:

Go on a casual date with some random guy at a shooting range, take a picture of you both holding guns, then send it to him.

Lol, I don’t even know if that would deter him at this point! He’s relentless

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2 minutes ago, Sawdamizer said:

Did you let him slam his pork steeple in to your gut locker?

Absolutely not. He was my date to my senior prom, and it was the worst date I’ve ever been on. In fact, he was so awful, I flat out told him to his face that he was the worst date I’ve ever had. 

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1 minute ago, renjifan said:

Lol, I don’t even know if that would deter him at this point! He’s relentless

Time to get that restraining order then.

God, when I hear stories like this, I just feel so fortunate to have been born male. No offense.

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1 minute ago, bnmjy said:

Time to get that restraining order then.

God, when I hear stories like this, I just feel so fortunate to have been born male. No offense.

Oh, none taken. I’ve had some incredibly unpleasant and uncomfortable experiences that I don’t think I would have had if I were a guy 😕

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3 minutes ago, renjifan said:

Absolutely not. He was my date to my senior prom, and it was the worst date I’ve ever been on. In fact, he was so awful, I flat out told him to his face that he was the worst date I’ve ever had. 

Worst date.... at the time.

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1 hour ago, InsaneFox said:

1. Catch gonorrhea.

2. Show him your infected genitalia.

3. ????

4. Profit.

You know, as great of a plan as this is, I think I may wait on the whole catching an std thing for now and try some other methods first... 😋

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3 hours ago, renjifan said:

I went on one date with this guy over 10 years ago, and to this day, he still messages me to ask me out again. I’ve nicely told him no, I’ve assertively told him no, I’ve tried ignoring his messages altogether...nothing works

I finally blocked his phone number, so I hadn’t heard from him for a while. But now he just messaged me through Facebook. Why won’t he give up??? 😣

he has to realize your dick is off limits.  tell him you are into other things now. shocking things

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7 minutes ago, cyberbully said:

So....Which moron is this...I'm getting so confused

Mumbojumbies maybe?

Renjifan: If he manages to contact you again pretend to be your own fiance.  "This is renjifan's fiance Kyle.  Who the fuck are you and why are you messaging my girl?" throw in some stuff about being pregnant with his son.  That drives off even the craziest ones usually.

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4 hours ago, CactusLove said:

he has to realize your dick is off limits.  tell him you are into other things now. shocking things

 

4 hours ago, CactusLove said:

what is renji a girl or a guy

Why does everyone always think I'm a dude? 😂

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On 6/10/2020 at 2:03 PM, renjifan said:

I went on one date with this guy over 10 years ago, and to this day, he still messages me to ask me out again. I’ve nicely told him no, I’ve assertively told him no, I’ve tried ignoring his messages altogether...nothing works

I finally blocked his phone number, so I hadn’t heard from him for a while. But now he just messaged me through Facebook. Why won’t he give up??? 😣

i had one as a teenager, and that's why i never use my real name on anything ever. i don't use social media either, and never really have

slap the creep with a cease and desist order, and be done with it. save all the harassment as evidence too, if you still have it. your privacy is your own, and if you can utilize the police, then do so. fuck him. 

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On 6/10/2020 at 3:03 PM, renjifan said:

I went on one date with this guy over 10 years ago, and to this day, he still messages me to ask me out again. I’ve nicely told him no, I’ve assertively told him no, I’ve tried ignoring his messages altogether...nothing works

I finally blocked his phone number, so I hadn’t heard from him for a while. But now he just messaged me through Facebook. Why won’t he give up??? 😣

Let me talk to him

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