ghostrek Posted February 17, 2020 Share Posted February 17, 2020 Well, in fact, it's the same problem the situation is that family of coworkers/loved ones of coworkers that are like family to them are like to defend each other honor and take their sides against other coworkers without looking objectively on the situation just take the side of family just because they are family And yet my family does not get involved and makes me feel that I'm under attack and they(my family) does not defend me or love me because they don't take my side what do I do about this Remember when I was posting stuff a few months ago about being harassed at work well the co-worker that was doing the harassing was trying to get his brother in at my job by getting me fired or to quit my job and another co-worker an older female that was kind of like a surrogate mother to him was taking his side but my family didn't do shit they told me to fight my own battles if I'm outnumbered how can I win without reinforcements And now I accidentally started something with a different family of coworkers by accidentally saying group speculation about the patriarch of the family not coming back from a medical leave at the same position due to his medical situation and that pissed them off what do I do to get my family on my side this so I can keep my job although my family doesn't work at the same place as I do mean if they can do what should they do and how did they do it this stuff in my family is seen as deceitful and backhanded an immoral but ever since I was a child I saw families do tactics like this to achieve goals of a member of their family just because out of loyalty I am second tired of shit like this I saw this on all levels of the social Spectrum I mean this is not a high-class or low-class thing this is a thing that I see all families do but mine I'm not saying my family has never sticked up for me they have but the times I am thinking of I was being physically bullied/beaten up on the bus ride home but it was the climax of months if not years of being bullied on the bus ride home So they have taken my sight before but it takes a lot to take my side and other families this do it automatically no matter what what can i do to get my Family involved in this ? or is even a good idea to do that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NaBarney Posted February 17, 2020 Share Posted February 17, 2020 9 minutes ago, ghostrek said: although my family doesn't work at the same place as I do Wtf do you want your family to do, come to your workplace and beat up your coworkers? You're like 35. Handle your shit. If your job sucks because your coworkers hate you and they aren't going away then find a better job or get used to working with them. Idk what else to say Ghostrek 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted February 17, 2020 Author Share Posted February 17, 2020 Just now, NaBrunswick said: Wtf do you want your family to do, come to your workplace and beat up your coworkers? You're like 35. Handle your shit. If your job sucks because your coworkers hate you and they aren't going away then find a better job or get used to working with them. Idk what else to say Ghostrek no not beat them but help them doing something Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted February 17, 2020 Author Share Posted February 17, 2020 6 minutes ago, NaBrunswick said: Wtf do you want your family to do, come to your workplace and beat up your coworkers? You're like 35. Handle your shit. If your job sucks because your coworkers hate you and they aren't going away then find a better job or get used to working with them. Idk what else to say Ghostrek thank you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sawdamizer Posted February 17, 2020 Share Posted February 17, 2020 I dont understand. Cant you just whip out your massive hog and fuck your way through anything? Slam that dong on the table and establish dominance. Nut up. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted February 17, 2020 Author Share Posted February 17, 2020 (edited) 6 minutes ago, Sawdamizer said: Nut up. what? Edited February 17, 2020 by ghostrek Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NaBarney Posted February 17, 2020 Share Posted February 17, 2020 29 minutes ago, ghostrek said: no not beat them but help them doing something At best you can confide in them about what's going on at work and maybe they can comfort you and offer advice, and that's if you're really lucky and have a demonstrably loving, reciprocating family that you're close to like that. They can't come to your workplace and solve your work problems, and you shouldn't expect them to. Figure it out. There's always companies hiring in your field, try working for one if your workplace is too stressful. You have to help yourself ghostrek 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sawdamizer Posted February 17, 2020 Share Posted February 17, 2020 2 minutes ago, ghostrek said: what? What did you edit in your post? I'm honestly asking how you fucked up a single word so badly you felt the need to edit it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NaBarney Posted February 17, 2020 Share Posted February 17, 2020 (edited) Just now, Sawdamizer said: What did you edit in your post? I'm honestly asking how you fucked up a single word so badly you felt the need to edit it. what? Edited February 17, 2020 by NaBrunswick Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted February 17, 2020 Author Share Posted February 17, 2020 Just now, NaBrunswick said: At best you can confide in them about what's going on at work and maybe they can comfort you and offer advice, and that's if you're really lucky and have a demonstrably loving, reciprocating family that you're close to like that. They can't come to your workplace and solve your work problems, and you shouldn't expect them to. Figure it out. There's always companies hiring in your field, try working for one if your workplace is too stressful. You have to help yourself ghostrek ok can you tell me why other people love ones was geting involved in on said situations if my loves can't do stuff next to me confiding to them why other people love ones takes sides that not fair who said life is fair becuse it is not i know that but come on Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NaBarney Posted February 17, 2020 Share Posted February 17, 2020 21 minutes ago, ghostrek said: ok can you tell me why other people love ones was geting involved in on said situations if my loves can't do stuff next to me confiding to them why other people love ones takes sides that not fair who said life is fair becuse it is not i know that but come on No, go get another job ghostrek. There's plenty more dirty shitters out there, and plenty more jobs beyond cleaning shitters, for you to let these people make you this miserable for this long now 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted February 17, 2020 Author Share Posted February 17, 2020 (edited) 1 minute ago, NaBrunswick said: No, go get another job ghostrek. There's plenty more dirty shitters out there, and plenty more jobs beyond cleaning shitters, for you to let these people make you this miserable for this long now ok i will Edited February 17, 2020 by ghostrek Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
André Toulon Posted February 17, 2020 Share Posted February 17, 2020 I enjoyed the part about you being "second tired". Everything else you typed is ridiculous. I was going to make an adoption joke but even if you weren't, what do you expect them to do. Come down there, start a fuss, ransack the place.....Then you get to clean it up 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seight Posted February 17, 2020 Share Posted February 17, 2020 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted February 17, 2020 Author Share Posted February 17, 2020 3 minutes ago, Seight said: what this post about Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DragonSinger Posted February 17, 2020 Share Posted February 17, 2020 5 hours ago, ghostrek said: Well, in fact, it's the same problem the situation is that family of coworkers/loved ones of coworkers that are like family to them are like to defend each other honor and take their sides against other coworkers without looking objectively on the situation just take the side of family just because they are family And yet my family does not get involved and makes me feel that I'm under attack and they(my family) does not defend me or love me because they don't take my side what do I do about this Remember when I was posting stuff a few months ago about being harassed at work well the co-worker that was doing the harassing was trying to get his brother in at my job by getting me fired or to quit my job and another co-worker an older female that was kind of like a surrogate mother to him was taking his side but my family didn't do shit they told me to fight my own battles if I'm outnumbered how can I win without reinforcements And now I accidentally started something with a different family of coworkers by accidentally saying group speculation about the patriarch of the family not coming back from a medical leave at the same position due to his medical situation and that pissed them off what do I do to get my family on my side this so I can keep my job although my family doesn't work at the same place as I do mean if they can do what should they do and how did they do it this stuff in my family is seen as deceitful and backhanded an immoral but ever since I was a child I saw families do tactics like this to achieve goals of a member of their family just because out of loyalty I am second tired of shit like this I saw this on all levels of the social Spectrum I mean this is not a high-class or low-class thing this is a thing that I see all families do but mine I'm not saying my family has never sticked up for me they have but the times I am thinking of I was being physically bullied/beaten up on the bus ride home but it was the climax of months if not years of being bullied on the bus ride home So they have taken my sight before but it takes a lot to take my side and other families this do it automatically no matter what what can i do to get my Family involved in this ? or is even a good idea to do that? Are you like the work gossip or something? Because shit like that is how you'll always get drama coming your way. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
André Toulon Posted February 17, 2020 Share Posted February 17, 2020 (edited) 1 hour ago, DragonSinger said: Are you like the work gossip or something? Because shit like that is how you'll always get drama coming your way. He's a snitch and proud of it....he works at a truck stop where the seediest of elements congregate to exchange drug connects, hookers, and black market merchandise.....the fool told on a co-worker for smoking weed. I'm surprised they haven't tuned his ass up when he was dumping mop water out back yet. Edited February 17, 2020 by André Toulon 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vamped Posted February 17, 2020 Share Posted February 17, 2020 I feel like I post this in all of your similarly natured threads: Go to work, do your job. Go home. Fuck everybody/ everything else >.> but I literally have no idea what all this family talk is about for real. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sawdamizer Posted February 17, 2020 Share Posted February 17, 2020 1 minute ago, Vamped said: I feel like I post this in all of your similarly natured threads: Fuck everybody Hell ya 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted February 17, 2020 Author Share Posted February 17, 2020 53 minutes ago, André Toulon said: He's a snitch and proud of it....he works at a truck stop where the seediest of elements congregate to exchange drug connects, hookers, and black market merchandise.....the fool told on a co-worker for smoking weed. I'm surprised they haven't tuned his ass up when he was dumping mop water out back yet. i never told on a coworker who somkepot Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cyberbully Posted February 17, 2020 Share Posted February 17, 2020 2 minutes ago, ghostrek said: i never told on a coworker who somkepot Then you lied because that's where me calling you a snitch all started. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted February 17, 2020 Author Share Posted February 17, 2020 Just now, cyberbully said: Then you lied because that's where me calling you a snitch all started. when did do that show me the post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doom Metal Alchemist Posted February 17, 2020 Share Posted February 17, 2020 Just now, cyberbully said: Then you lied because that's where me calling you a snitch all started. I thought it was when he (or was thinking about) telling his dead bully's parents about how he bullied him. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted February 17, 2020 Author Share Posted February 17, 2020 Just now, Doom Metal Alchemist said: I thought it was when he (or was thinking about) telling his dead bully's parents about how he bullied him. that i did think about but did not do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cyberbully Posted February 17, 2020 Share Posted February 17, 2020 2 minutes ago, ghostrek said: when did do that show me the post That was way on node. But let me be clear...He wasn't smoking weed at the time...You said he was high and asked if you should tell the supervisor. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cyberbully Posted February 17, 2020 Share Posted February 17, 2020 4 minutes ago, Doom Metal Alchemist said: I thought it was when he (or was thinking about) telling his dead bully's parents about how he bullied him. Nah that was recent...I've been calling him a rat for years. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bnmjy Posted February 17, 2020 Share Posted February 17, 2020 Fuck working at a service plaza. Miserable white trash galore. Leave or stoop down to their level. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sawdamizer Posted February 17, 2020 Share Posted February 17, 2020 15 minutes ago, ghostrek said: that i did think about but did not do I knew you were a shady mother fucker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
discolé monade Posted February 17, 2020 Share Posted February 17, 2020 just going to point out that entire op was actually quite....readable. also....how old are you? you need to fight your own battles, son. figure out your own shit. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted February 17, 2020 Author Share Posted February 17, 2020 1 hour ago, discolemonade said: just going to point out that entire op was actually quite....readable. also....how old are you? you need to fight your own battles, son. figure out your own shit. 34 but one other guys is in his 40s Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stilgar Posted February 17, 2020 Share Posted February 17, 2020 We already know your dick is huge ghostie. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
discolé monade Posted February 17, 2020 Share Posted February 17, 2020 2 hours ago, ghostrek said: 34 but one other guys is in his 40s you posted this on purpose. you are a grown ass man. you need your family to fight your battles at work? come on man. and you knew you were going to get razzed here too. so why? are you bored? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
helpme Posted February 17, 2020 Share Posted February 17, 2020 1 hour ago, stilgar said: We already know your dick is huge ghostie. But the real question is does it have weight Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted February 17, 2020 Author Share Posted February 17, 2020 51 minutes ago, discolemonade said: you posted this on purpose. you are a grown ass man. you need your family to fight your battles at work? come on man. and you knew you were going to get razzed here too. so why? are you bored? no i am not bored Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted February 17, 2020 Share Posted February 17, 2020 (edited) Damn bro I think you are looking into this too deeply maybe. Some people take their work life/ culture way too seriously. I mean YES. It's great to treat your coworkers, and company like a family, but some people really do take that shit way too far. Sounds like you might have that thing going on, but I'm never sure what the real deal is with your situation. Seems like you 'make a mountain out of a mole hill' a lot..If you can understand that phrase. Edited February 17, 2020 by PhilosipherStoned Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted February 18, 2020 Author Share Posted February 18, 2020 4 minutes ago, PhilosipherStoned said: Damn bro I think you are looking into this too deeply maybe. Some people take their work life/ culture way too seriously. I mean YES. It's great to treat your coworkers, and company like a family, but some people really do take that shit way too far. Sounds like you might have that thing going on, but I'm never sure what the real deal is with your situation. Seems like you 'make a mountain out of a mole hill' a lot..If you can understand that phrase. ok Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted February 18, 2020 Share Posted February 18, 2020 (edited) So what really concerns you with this situation? You think your coworkers are judging you too hard again? Edited February 18, 2020 by PhilosipherStoned Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted February 18, 2020 Share Posted February 18, 2020 (edited) You say they physically bullied you on the bus. I guess if I were you I'd tell my family that. You do know what the word 'physically' means right? Edited February 18, 2020 by PhilosipherStoned Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted February 18, 2020 Author Share Posted February 18, 2020 1 minute ago, PhilosipherStoned said: So what really concerns you with this situation? You think your coworkers are judging you too hard again? no i just feel under attack all time and my family dose not take my but i see other familes come togther crush some else just saying some thig Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted February 18, 2020 Author Share Posted February 18, 2020 4 minutes ago, PhilosipherStoned said: You say they physically bullied you on the bus. I guess if I were you I'd tell my family that. You do know what the word 'physically' means right? i was bruised black and blue all over my body when that happen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
André Toulon Posted February 18, 2020 Share Posted February 18, 2020 6 minutes ago, ghostrek said: no i just feel under attack all time and my family dose not take my but i see other familes come togther crush some else just saying some thig Lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted February 18, 2020 Share Posted February 18, 2020 24 minutes ago, ghostrek said: no i just feel under attack all time and my family dose not take my but i see other familes come togther crush some else just saying some thig lol crush someone else? That sounds heated man everything ok? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted February 18, 2020 Share Posted February 18, 2020 24 minutes ago, ghostrek said: i was bruised black and blue all over my body when that happen Damn. So they fucked you up.. Tell your fucking family. You should have someone that's supposed to be watching out for you. Don't you get SLI or some sort of shit from disability. If they see you black, and blue they should ask you anyway. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted February 18, 2020 Share Posted February 18, 2020 Holy shit. I'm guessing this thread didn't turn out quite like you imagined, did it @ghostrek? Anyway, the reason that family is "supporting" each other is because they're a family of bullies not because they love and support each other. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted February 18, 2020 Share Posted February 18, 2020 (edited) Pssh. That's a rapid generalization scoobdog, but ya it sounds reasonable as well. So someone has a lot of 'family' working in this shitter business as a grunt like you? If so they probably arent as sparkling as they want to believe.. @ghostrek I have a friend that's a lot like you seem that's been doing pretty much the same kind of thing.. He's came to me not really for help, but because he knows I'm a friend, and I have my own house. He's told me the same kind of shit. You could be fucked if you hit them back on specialized programs.. My friend packs a hell of a punch too.. Just tell people what happened. Don't lie, don't even try to make it seem better if it was an argument that turned into a fight. Just tell your people what's going on, and let them know you've been trying to figure out what to do the same way you did here. Also..Don't post shit like that to this god forsaken forum goblin hole if you want to be taken seriously. I'm just saying. These people are trash. Edited February 18, 2020 by PhilosipherStoned Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gyaos Posted February 18, 2020 Share Posted February 18, 2020 I would so as others suggested. Deal with them, ignore them, or get the fuck out. It wouldn't be the first time I've done it for a better job. 9 hours ago, ghostrek said: 34 but one other guys is in his 40s You're 34 years old? Holy shit, I need a drink. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted February 18, 2020 Share Posted February 18, 2020 22 minutes ago, Gyaos said: I would so as others suggested. Deal with them, ignore them, or get the fuck out. It wouldn't be the first time I've done it for a better job. You're 34 years old? Holy shit, I need a drink. You've seen his picture? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gyaos Posted February 18, 2020 Share Posted February 18, 2020 1 minute ago, scoobdog said: You've seen his picture? No, I haven't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted February 18, 2020 Share Posted February 18, 2020 (edited) 2 minutes ago, Gyaos said: No, I haven't. He .... looks every bit of 34 from like five years ago. Edited February 18, 2020 by scoobdog Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gyaos Posted February 18, 2020 Share Posted February 18, 2020 Just now, scoobdog said: He .... looks every bit of 34. I shouldn't be surprised, yet I am. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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