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16 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said:

Well today is the day. I knew this was going to happen since the beginning of the relationship. We're going to eat then I'm going to.drop her off and mope back home all day

Go with her

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Iol whenever someone says "I can't".... limitations exist in your mind.  It comes down to value... Right? If you have to buy clothing to be in public, that's a no brainier, you have to buy clothing... You see the value in it.... If you had the opportunity to leave and be with someone you care about... It's expensive and frustrating... And change is annoying, but you don't see the value in it, so you deem it as you can't.... Love it.

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Back from the airport at a grocery store now. We kissed our goodbyes and she told me that she loves me. I told her I love her too, gave her a kiss, and walked her to the checkpoint. Now I'm grocery shopping at Walmart so I don't feel like the most depressing person somewhere

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5 hours ago, Naraku4656 said:

Well today is the day. I knew this was going to happen since the beginning of the relationship. We're going to eat then I'm going to.drop her off and mope back home all day

Lmao, wait, you knew from the beginning of this relationship? >_> 

You really like to torture yourself, don't you?

Should've put a ring on it, totz, no more visa problem.

But, man, lmao, that should've been a clue of just a fuckboi if this was going to happen anyway.

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16 minutes ago, Mewn said:

Lmao, wait, you knew from the beginning of this relationship? >_> 

You really like to torture yourself, don't you?

Should've put a ring on it, totz, no more visa problem.

But, man, lmao, that should've been a clue of just a fuckboi if this was going to happen anyway.

Well she didn't have a choice. She tried very hard to stay in this area. We both spoke about this situation many times so she was on the same page the whole time. We both said we didn't want long distance and me being a pessimist I had no delusions that she would be able to stay in the area.

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12 minutes ago, StarPanda said:

Well shes going to cali so its gonna hurt but she will find someone else.

It sucks but dont give up theres someone out there for you 

yeah i know. and when she does i'll be happy for her. she deserves someone who will make her happy

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10 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said:

Ok now I'm confused myself. She just called me after she landed and wants to do a video call tonight. 

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Dont do it if youre not into her enough not to complete dismiss her simply because she moved.

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If she’s willing to move that quickly, then she wasn’t the one for you.

Good news is....you’ve got this nut out of the way. Time to smash on some other chicks, or find one that is worth your while. 

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56 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said:

Ok now I'm confused myself. She just called me after she landed and wants to do a video call tonight. 

Do what you think is best. Sometimes people don't know what they want from a situation they know will happen before it does. Maybe she changed her mind? Or just wants to remain friends if possible?

I'm too hopeless to say no to something like that, but really, do what you think is best. It's not like if something long distance does happen that it's the worst outcome possible given you're still on good terms, and if that were the case you're not obligated to keep it going if it's too much strain. I'd go for it, but if you don't want to you shouldn't force yourself one way or another.

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1 minute ago, naraku360 said:

Do what you think is best. Sometimes people don't know what they want from a situation they know will happen before it does. Maybe she changed her mind? Or just wants to remain friends if possible?

I'm too hopeless to say no to something like that, but really, do what you think is best. It's not like if something long distance does happen that it's the worst outcome possible given you're still on good terms, and if that were the case you're not obligated to keep it going if it's too much strain. I'd go for it, but if you don't want to you shouldn't force yourself one way or another.

That's a good point. I'll take the call and see if we can still work something out

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