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Looking back on this year I did a lot of things including venturing into the lifestyle to see if it was for me.

Anyone else interested/want to share about the lifestyle?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

So many dicks.

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Nevermind what I said earlier in this thread 

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Don't feel bad, I thought everyone could too....I would do research but don't wanna ask dudes which hand they wack it with.  I used to switch it up when I was younger so I didn't rub it raw on on side

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Past few years I've done some soul-searching.  I'm not much for swinging but also not for monogamy?  Like, I honestly just want a harem of sugar babies.  I need to be rich for this, but it's the easiest way to put it.  Other than just saying "My sexuality is Hugh Hefner."

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If I know my porn categories, and I do, those are different things.....

Are we just calling it the lifestyle now? Is that new? Should I pretend I've known all along to be kewl o.O

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I’ve been into the lifestyle since i was 17. I’ve been to a few play parties and wanted to go to a bdsm club i found. I have not been experimenting with it as of late, but i’m into a lot of things. 

Realized i classify as so many things. Bigender Daddy Dom. Switch. Little/Babygirl. Pup/Red Panda. Rope Bunny. Gore Whore. Sadist. Masochist. 

I’m into things like ddlg, asphyxiation, marking, teeth, primal play, blood, knife play, edging, shibari, anal play, degradation, humiliation, dehumanization, saliva, cum play, breathe play, etc.

I want to explore my submissive side more and have a proper Dom.

*I don’t think i could swing. I’m pretty mono and like the connection and bond of a successful DxS.

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  On 12/11/2019 at 12:36 AM, Mix said:

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If I know my porn categories, and I do, those are different things.....

Are we just calling it the lifestyle now? Is that new? Should I pretend I've known all along to be kewl o.O

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It's a peanut butter and chocolate thing.  They don't necessarily go together, but some people absolutely love it when they do.

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  On 12/11/2019 at 1:12 AM, Tempty_McHotstuff said:

I’ve been into the lifestyle since i was 17. I’ve been to a few play parties and wanted to go to a bdsm club i found. I have not been experimenting with it as of late, but i’m into a lot of things. 

Realized i classify as so many things. Bigender Daddy Dom. Switch. Little/Babygirl. Pup/Red Panda. Rope Bunny. Gore Whore. Sadist. Masochist. 

I’m into things like ddlg, asphyxiation, marking, teeth, primal play, blood, knife play, edging, shibari, anal play, degradation, humiliation, dehumanization, saliva, cum play, breathe play, etc.

I want to explore my submissive side more and have a proper Dom.

*I don’t think i could swing. I’m pretty mono and like the connection and bond of a successful DxS.

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Nevermind what I said earlier in this thread 

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  On 12/11/2019 at 1:12 AM, Tempty_McHotstuff said:

I’ve been into the lifestyle since i was 17. I’ve been to a few play parties and wanted to go to a bdsm club i found. I have not been experimenting with it as of late, but i’m into a lot of things. 

Realized i classify as so many things. Bigender Daddy Dom. Switch. Little/Babygirl. Pup/Red Panda. Rope Bunny. Gore Whore. Sadist. Masochist. 

I’m into things like ddlg, asphyxiation, marking, teeth, primal play, blood, knife play, edging, shibari, anal play, degradation, humiliation, dehumanization, saliva, cum play, breathe play, etc.

I want to explore my submissive side more and have a proper Dom.

*I don’t think i could swing. I’m pretty mono and like the connection and bond of a successful DxS.

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  On 12/11/2019 at 1:12 AM, Tempty_McHotstuff said:

I’ve been into the lifestyle since i was 17. I’ve been to a few play parties and wanted to go to a bdsm club i found. I have not been experimenting with it as of late, but i’m into a lot of things. 

Realized i classify as so many things. Bigender Daddy Dom. Switch. Little/Babygirl. Pup/Red Panda. Rope Bunny. Gore Whore. Sadist. Masochist. 

I’m into things like ddlg, asphyxiation, marking, teeth, primal play, blood, knife play, edging, shibari, anal play, degradation, humiliation, dehumanization, saliva, cum play, breathe play, etc.

I want to explore my submissive side more and have a proper Dom.

*I don’t think i could swing. I’m pretty mono and like the connection and bond of a successful DxS.

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I think I could do all that.....

  On 12/11/2019 at 1:40 AM, Tempty_McHotstuff said:

Oh, i forgot something major! Pet play

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Nope.  Can't hang.

Seriously though.... I'm ashamed of my incompetence now.

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Mix Monster Mutant

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  On 12/11/2019 at 1:19 AM, GuyBeardmane said:

It's a peanut butter and chocolate thing.  They don't necessarily go together, but some people absolutely love it when they do.

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I completely understand....

This was perfect, i'm going to need you to explain more things like this....why did mommy leave daddy? 

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  On 12/11/2019 at 1:52 AM, scoobdog said:

Yes it does.

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It helps when you have a good teacher.

if you know what is enjoyable to you experimenting with different avenues will lead you down the right path and you’ll learn your hard and soft limits.

like for me scat and puke is a hell no, but i am open to water sports and saliva just for the simple fact it falls under humiliation and degradation.

also, when i say marking i think of akamaru, but really it can be anywhere from biting, scratching, bruises:

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  On 12/11/2019 at 1:12 AM, Tempty_McHotstuff said:

I’ve been into the lifestyle since i was 17. I’ve been to a few play parties and wanted to go to a bdsm club i found. I have not been experimenting with it as of late, but i’m into a lot of things. 

Realized i classify as so many things. Bigender Daddy Dom. Switch. Little/Babygirl. Pup/Red Panda. Rope Bunny. Gore Whore. Sadist. Masochist. 

I’m into things like ddlg, asphyxiation, marking, teeth, primal play, blood, knife play, edging, shibari, anal play, degradation, humiliation, dehumanization, saliva, cum play, breathe play, etc.

I want to explore my submissive side more and have a proper Dom.

*I don’t think i could swing. I’m pretty mono and like the connection and bond of a successful DxS.

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I've got to google a lot of this....oh jeez, not the red pandas :o

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  On 12/11/2019 at 2:00 AM, Mix said:

I've got to google a lot of this....oh jeez, not the red pandas :o

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I do have a persona of a red panda. Even my mannerisms. I tend to paw and communicate in lil noises. I’m just not afraid of rocks, but i am jumpy.

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  On 12/11/2019 at 2:07 AM, Tempty_McHotstuff said:

I do have a persona of a red panda. Even my mannerisms. I tend to paw and communicate in lil noises. I’m just not afraid of rocks, but i am jumpy.

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ahh, see, look at that.....you can't make that thing dirty.....it's adorable....and it's the last thing we got after the news came out that Koala's are just riddled with STDs.....:( I grew up watching Noozles....I can't even imagine what Blinky was doing to Pinky :|

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  On 12/11/2019 at 2:21 AM, GreatBallsOfJizz said:

Is there a group for guys who like getting their dick sucked and being left alone? 

I'm pretty certain this is my fetish.

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hey that ticks the asphyxiation and dehumanization boxes, so you should be good to go....maybe throw in a rope just to be safe 

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  On 12/11/2019 at 2:38 AM, GreatBallsOfJizz said:

I think there's a sewing kit around, and plenty of tape.

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That'll work 9_9

 

You know what, thinking back, I had an opportunity to be an eagle scout and I laughed it off....all those fuckers did was learn different ways to tie shit up.....those god damn freaks....the things they did on those camping trips while I was getting high behind Papa Johns....:|

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Let see, I've been to a few munches, a local bdsm club that was run by a Jesus impersonator, gone to a kinky and geeky con a few times, and I have been in a polyamorous relationship for years now.

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  On 12/11/2019 at 12:17 AM, GuyBeardmane said:

Past few years I've done some soul-searching.  I'm not much for swinging but also not for monogamy?  Like, I honestly just want a harem of sugar babies.  I need to be rich for this, but it's the easiest way to put it.  Other than just saying "My sexuality is Hugh Hefner."

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I'm definitely feeling much more on the polyamory side also.  Haha, sugar babies - I haven't heard that term before!

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  On 12/11/2019 at 2:54 AM, GreatBallsOfJizz said:

It is when I'm playing video games by myself and my phone isn't ringing and no one is speaking to me.

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Me dropping subtle hints when gaming cuts into sex time: 

GODDAMMIT KEVIN! GET OFF THAT DUMBASS FORTNITE SHIT AND DROP OFF THAT DICK

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  On 12/11/2019 at 12:36 AM, Mix said:

:|

If I know my porn categories, and I do, those are different things.....

Are we just calling it the lifestyle now? Is that new? Should I pretend I've known all along to be kewl o.O

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At least that's what people call it on fet and when I talk to them - whether they swing/go to sex parties and/or are into BDSM. Tbh, I don't know much.  Dipped my toes in 😏

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  On 12/11/2019 at 1:10 AM, Vamped said:

Im not sure if I could swing but BDSM I could do 

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That was where I was leaning too.  Sex is one thing and is fine, but I found some interesting things out about myself via BDSM 🎶

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  On 12/11/2019 at 1:12 AM, Tempty_McHotstuff said:

I’ve been into the lifestyle since i was 17. I’ve been to a few play parties and wanted to go to a bdsm club i found. I have not been experimenting with it as of late, but i’m into a lot of things. 

Realized i classify as so many things. Bigender Daddy Dom. Switch. Little/Babygirl. Pup/Red Panda. Rope Bunny. Gore Whore. Sadist. Masochist. 

I’m into things like ddlg, asphyxiation, marking, teeth, primal play, blood, knife play, edging, shibari, anal play, degradation, humiliation, dehumanization, saliva, cum play, breathe play, etc.

I want to explore my submissive side more and have a proper Dom.

*I don’t think i could swing. I’m pretty mono and like the connection and bond of a successful DxS.

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Thank you for sharing all of this about what you've discovered! 

To take that step to find a proper mentor to Dom or Sub is a fear for me.  Like building enough trust.

I realized that I am REALLY into primal play and always thought it was weird when people weren't into wrestling and biting and shit.  Who knew? 😂

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  On 12/11/2019 at 2:54 AM, stilgar said:

Let see, I've been to a few munches, a local bdsm club that was run by a Jesus impersonator, gone to a kinky and geeky con a few times, and I have been in a polyamorous relationship for years now.

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The Jesus impersonator running a BDSM club is making my entire night. 😂

I'm exploring polyamory and wow, it is uh a lot but makes a lot of sense for both I and my partner need.

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  On 12/11/2019 at 3:17 AM, lesans_muse said:

Thank you for sharing all of this about what you've discovered! 

To take that step to find a proper mentor to Dom or Sub is a fear for me.  Like building enough trust.

I realized that I am REALLY into primal play and always thought it was weird when people weren't into wrestling and biting and shit.  Who knew? 😂

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Lol, i like the raw, carnal nature of primal play. Especially when you have proper prey. I can be aggressive. 

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I like pain so ive done some things but im not certain it could be considered bdsm. 

As far as swinging, ive told every woman ive been with since 2003 that you need a boyfriend. Sometimes i just like being alone and not for like a few hours... Like weeks

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  On 12/11/2019 at 4:17 AM, GreatBallsOfJizz said:

I can always be, I did get plenty of blowjobs when I was single. But why you gotta be that way about jokes? 

I didn't say I go out and get blown by women I don't talk to, it's just my fetish category.

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Trans hookers are very generous so you have told me.

Maybe that lifestyle is more compatible for you

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  On 12/11/2019 at 3:23 AM, lesans_muse said:

The Jesus impersonator running a BDSM club is making my entire night. 😂

I'm exploring polyamory and wow, it is uh a lot but makes a lot of sense for both I and my partner need.

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He'd go dressed as jesus too. 

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