avec Posted December 10, 2019 Share Posted December 10, 2019 Looking back on this year I did a lot of things including venturing into the lifestyle to see if it was for me. Anyone else interested/want to share about the lifestyle? So many dicks. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GuyBeardmane Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 Past few years I've done some soul-searching. I'm not much for swinging but also not for monogamy? Like, I honestly just want a harem of sugar babies. I need to be rich for this, but it's the easiest way to put it. Other than just saying "My sexuality is Hugh Hefner." 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mix Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 (edited) If I know my porn categories, and I do, those are different things..... Are we just calling it the lifestyle now? Is that new? Should I pretend I've known all along to be kewl Edited December 11, 2019 by Mix 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crackymckrackin Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 It's not something that ever got me excited. As long as I'm scoring at home every day I couldn't imagine getting it anywhere else. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vamped Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 Im not sure if I could swing but BDSM I could do 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baby_Yoda Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 (edited) I’ve been into the lifestyle since i was 17. I’ve been to a few play parties and wanted to go to a bdsm club i found. I have not been experimenting with it as of late, but i’m into a lot of things. Realized i classify as so many things. Bigender Daddy Dom. Switch. Little/Babygirl. Pup/Red Panda. Rope Bunny. Gore Whore. Sadist. Masochist. I’m into things like ddlg, asphyxiation, marking, teeth, primal play, blood, knife play, edging, shibari, anal play, degradation, humiliation, dehumanization, saliva, cum play, breathe play, etc. I want to explore my submissive side more and have a proper Dom. *I don’t think i could swing. I’m pretty mono and like the connection and bond of a successful DxS. Edited December 11, 2019 by Tempty_McHotstuff 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naraku4656 Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 uhhhhhhhhh i like cuddling if that counts 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GuyBeardmane Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 42 minutes ago, Mix said: If I know my porn categories, and I do, those are different things..... Are we just calling it the lifestyle now? Is that new? Should I pretend I've known all along to be kewl It's a peanut butter and chocolate thing. They don't necessarily go together, but some people absolutely love it when they do. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Vamped Posted December 11, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted December 11, 2019 10 minutes ago, Tempty_McHotstuff said: I’ve been into the lifestyle since i was 17. I’ve been to a few play parties and wanted to go to a bdsm club i found. I have not been experimenting with it as of late, but i’m into a lot of things. Realized i classify as so many things. Bigender Daddy Dom. Switch. Little/Babygirl. Pup/Red Panda. Rope Bunny. Gore Whore. Sadist. Masochist. I’m into things like ddlg, asphyxiation, marking, teeth, primal play, blood, knife play, edging, shibari, anal play, degradation, humiliation, dehumanization, saliva, cum play, breathe play, etc. I want to explore my submissive side more and have a proper Dom. *I don’t think i could swing. I’m pretty mono and like the connection and bond of a successful DxS. Nevermind what I said earlier in this thread 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kudasai Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 18 minutes ago, Tempty_McHotstuff said: I’ve been into the lifestyle since i was 17. I’ve been to a few play parties and wanted to go to a bdsm club i found. I have not been experimenting with it as of late, but i’m into a lot of things. Realized i classify as so many things. Bigender Daddy Dom. Switch. Little/Babygirl. Pup/Red Panda. Rope Bunny. Gore Whore. Sadist. Masochist. I’m into things like ddlg, asphyxiation, marking, teeth, primal play, blood, knife play, edging, shibari, anal play, degradation, humiliation, dehumanization, saliva, cum play, breathe play, etc. I want to explore my submissive side more and have a proper Dom. *I don’t think i could swing. I’m pretty mono and like the connection and bond of a successful DxS. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rogue_Alphonse Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 No BDSM but I have done sort of the swinger thing.. but it's mainly been with friends 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baby_Yoda Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 Oh, i forgot something major! Pet play 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 35 minutes ago, Tempty_McHotstuff said: I’ve been into the lifestyle since i was 17. I’ve been to a few play parties and wanted to go to a bdsm club i found. I have not been experimenting with it as of late, but i’m into a lot of things. Realized i classify as so many things. Bigender Daddy Dom. Switch. Little/Babygirl. Pup/Red Panda. Rope Bunny. Gore Whore. Sadist. Masochist. I’m into things like ddlg, asphyxiation, marking, teeth, primal play, blood, knife play, edging, shibari, anal play, degradation, humiliation, dehumanization, saliva, cum play, breathe play, etc. I want to explore my submissive side more and have a proper Dom. *I don’t think i could swing. I’m pretty mono and like the connection and bond of a successful DxS. I think I could do all that..... 8 minutes ago, Tempty_McHotstuff said: Oh, i forgot something major! Pet play Nope. Can't hang. Seriously though.... I'm ashamed of my incompetence now. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baby_Yoda Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 Just now, scoobdog said: I think I could do all that..... Nope. Can't hang. Seriously though.... I'm ashamed of my incompetence now. All it takes is research and application 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 Yes it does. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mix Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 36 minutes ago, GuyBeardmane said: It's a peanut butter and chocolate thing. They don't necessarily go together, but some people absolutely love it when they do. I completely understand.... This was perfect, i'm going to need you to explain more things like this....why did mommy leave daddy? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baby_Yoda Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 (edited) 8 minutes ago, scoobdog said: Yes it does. It helps when you have a good teacher. if you know what is enjoyable to you experimenting with different avenues will lead you down the right path and you’ll learn your hard and soft limits. like for me scat and puke is a hell no, but i am open to water sports and saliva just for the simple fact it falls under humiliation and degradation. also, when i say marking i think of akamaru, but really it can be anywhere from biting, scratching, bruises: Edited December 11, 2019 by Tempty_McHotstuff 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GuyBeardmane Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 1 minute ago, Mix said: I completely understand.... This was perfect, i'm going to need you to explain more things like this....why did mommy leave daddy? Probably because of something you did. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mix Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 45 minutes ago, Tempty_McHotstuff said: I’ve been into the lifestyle since i was 17. I’ve been to a few play parties and wanted to go to a bdsm club i found. I have not been experimenting with it as of late, but i’m into a lot of things. Realized i classify as so many things. Bigender Daddy Dom. Switch. Little/Babygirl. Pup/Red Panda. Rope Bunny. Gore Whore. Sadist. Masochist. I’m into things like ddlg, asphyxiation, marking, teeth, primal play, blood, knife play, edging, shibari, anal play, degradation, humiliation, dehumanization, saliva, cum play, breathe play, etc. I want to explore my submissive side more and have a proper Dom. *I don’t think i could swing. I’m pretty mono and like the connection and bond of a successful DxS. I've got to google a lot of this....oh jeez, not the red pandas 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mix Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 2 minutes ago, GuyBeardmane said: Probably because of something you did. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baby_Yoda Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 (edited) 7 minutes ago, Mix said: I've got to google a lot of this....oh jeez, not the red pandas I do have a persona of a red panda. Even my mannerisms. I tend to paw and communicate in lil noises. I’m just not afraid of rocks, but i am jumpy. Edited December 11, 2019 by Tempty_McHotstuff 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mix Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 3 minutes ago, Tempty_McHotstuff said: I do have a persona of a red panda. Even my mannerisms. I tend to paw and communicate in lil noises. I’m just not afraid of rocks, but i am jumpy. ahh, see, look at that.....you can't make that thing dirty.....it's adorable....and it's the last thing we got after the news came out that Koala's are just riddled with STDs..... I grew up watching Noozles....I can't even imagine what Blinky was doing to Pinky 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RainyDayJizz#35 Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 Is there a group for guys who like getting their dick sucked and being left alone? I'm pretty certain this is my fetish. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mix Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 6 minutes ago, GreatBallsOfJizz said: Is there a group for guys who like getting their dick sucked and being left alone? I'm pretty certain this is my fetish. hey that ticks the asphyxiation and dehumanization boxes, so you should be good to go....maybe throw in a rope just to be safe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RainyDayJizz#35 Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 7 minutes ago, Mix said: hey that ticks the asphyxiation and dehumanization boxes, so you should be good to go....maybe throw in a rope just to be safe I think there's a sewing kit around, and plenty of tape. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mix Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 2 minutes ago, GreatBallsOfJizz said: I think there's a sewing kit around, and plenty of tape. That'll work You know what, thinking back, I had an opportunity to be an eagle scout and I laughed it off....all those fuckers did was learn different ways to tie shit up.....those god damn freaks....the things they did on those camping trips while I was getting high behind Papa Johns.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 25 minutes ago, GreatBallsOfJizz said: Is there a group for guys who like getting their dick sucked and being left alone? I'm pretty certain this is my fetish. Well, that's no fun. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stilgar Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 Let see, I've been to a few munches, a local bdsm club that was run by a Jesus impersonator, gone to a kinky and geeky con a few times, and I have been in a polyamorous relationship for years now. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RainyDayJizz#35 Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 6 minutes ago, scoobdog said: Well, that's no fun. It is when I'm playing video games by myself and my phone isn't ringing and no one is speaking to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
avec Posted December 11, 2019 Author Share Posted December 11, 2019 2 hours ago, GuyBeardmane said: Past few years I've done some soul-searching. I'm not much for swinging but also not for monogamy? Like, I honestly just want a harem of sugar babies. I need to be rich for this, but it's the easiest way to put it. Other than just saying "My sexuality is Hugh Hefner." I'm definitely feeling much more on the polyamory side also. Haha, sugar babies - I haven't heard that term before! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vamped Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 5 minutes ago, GreatBallsOfJizz said: It is when I'm playing video games by myself and my phone isn't ringing and no one is speaking to me. Me dropping subtle hints when gaming cuts into sex time: GODDAMMIT KEVIN! GET OFF THAT DUMBASS FORTNITE SHIT AND DROP OFF THAT DICK 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
avec Posted December 11, 2019 Author Share Posted December 11, 2019 2 hours ago, Mix said: If I know my porn categories, and I do, those are different things..... Are we just calling it the lifestyle now? Is that new? Should I pretend I've known all along to be kewl At least that's what people call it on fet and when I talk to them - whether they swing/go to sex parties and/or are into BDSM. Tbh, I don't know much. Dipped my toes in 😏 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
avec Posted December 11, 2019 Author Share Posted December 11, 2019 2 hours ago, crackymckrackin said: It's not something that ever got me excited. As long as I'm scoring at home every day I couldn't imagine getting it anywhere else. I hear you. 💦 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
avec Posted December 11, 2019 Author Share Posted December 11, 2019 (edited) 2 hours ago, Vamped said: Im not sure if I could swing but BDSM I could do That was where I was leaning too. Sex is one thing and is fine, but I found some interesting things out about myself via BDSM 🎶 Edited December 11, 2019 by lesans_muse Grammar 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
avec Posted December 11, 2019 Author Share Posted December 11, 2019 2 hours ago, Tempty_McHotstuff said: I’ve been into the lifestyle since i was 17. I’ve been to a few play parties and wanted to go to a bdsm club i found. I have not been experimenting with it as of late, but i’m into a lot of things. Realized i classify as so many things. Bigender Daddy Dom. Switch. Little/Babygirl. Pup/Red Panda. Rope Bunny. Gore Whore. Sadist. Masochist. I’m into things like ddlg, asphyxiation, marking, teeth, primal play, blood, knife play, edging, shibari, anal play, degradation, humiliation, dehumanization, saliva, cum play, breathe play, etc. I want to explore my submissive side more and have a proper Dom. *I don’t think i could swing. I’m pretty mono and like the connection and bond of a successful DxS. Thank you for sharing all of this about what you've discovered! To take that step to find a proper mentor to Dom or Sub is a fear for me. Like building enough trust. I realized that I am REALLY into primal play and always thought it was weird when people weren't into wrestling and biting and shit. Who knew? 😂 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
avec Posted December 11, 2019 Author Share Posted December 11, 2019 1 hour ago, ǝsuoɥdl∀ ǝnɓoᴚ said: No BDSM but I have done sort of the swinger thing.. but it's mainly been with friends OooOoooOooo with friends huh? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naraku4656 Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 1 hour ago, ǝsuoɥdl∀ ǝnɓoᴚ said: No BDSM but I have done sort of the swinger thing.. but it's mainly been with friends 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
avec Posted December 11, 2019 Author Share Posted December 11, 2019 27 minutes ago, stilgar said: Let see, I've been to a few munches, a local bdsm club that was run by a Jesus impersonator, gone to a kinky and geeky con a few times, and I have been in a polyamorous relationship for years now. The Jesus impersonator running a BDSM club is making my entire night. 😂 I'm exploring polyamory and wow, it is uh a lot but makes a lot of sense for both I and my partner need. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rogue_Alphonse Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 (edited) 16 minutes ago, lesans_muse said: OooOoooOooo with friends huh? I prefer to know em before I fuck em Edited December 11, 2019 by ǝsuoɥdl∀ ǝnɓoᴚ fucking keyboard cut out :| 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
avec Posted December 11, 2019 Author Share Posted December 11, 2019 6 minutes ago, ǝsuoɥdl∀ ǝnɓoᴚ said: Iefer to know em before I fuck em You know, I want that courage 😂😂 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baby_Yoda Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 31 minutes ago, lesans_muse said: Thank you for sharing all of this about what you've discovered! To take that step to find a proper mentor to Dom or Sub is a fear for me. Like building enough trust. I realized that I am REALLY into primal play and always thought it was weird when people weren't into wrestling and biting and shit. Who knew? 😂 Lol, i like the raw, carnal nature of primal play. Especially when you have proper prey. I can be aggressive. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baby_Yoda Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 55 minutes ago, GreatBallsOfJizz said: It is when I'm playing video games by myself and my phone isn't ringing and no one is speaking to me. Hmm, i mean people do that when they are single. You can always be. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
André Toulon Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 I like pain so ive done some things but im not certain it could be considered bdsm. As far as swinging, ive told every woman ive been with since 2003 that you need a boyfriend. Sometimes i just like being alone and not for like a few hours... Like weeks 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RainyDayJizz#35 Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 20 minutes ago, Tempty_McHotstuff said: Hmm, i mean people do that when they are single. You can always be. I can always be, I did get plenty of blowjobs when I was single. But why you gotta be that way about jokes? I didn't say I go out and get blown by women I don't talk to, it's just my fetish category. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baby_Yoda Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 2 minutes ago, GreatBallsOfJizz said: I can always be, I did get plenty of blowjobs when I was single. But why you gotta be that way about jokes? I didn't say I go out and get blown by women I don't talk to, it's just my fetish category. Trans hookers are very generous so you have told me. Maybe that lifestyle is more compatible for you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NaBarney Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 1 minute ago, Tempty_McHotstuff said: Trans hookers are very generous so you have told me. Maybe that lifestyle is more compatible for you Are you getting off on this? 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
avec Posted December 11, 2019 Author Share Posted December 11, 2019 33 minutes ago, Tempty_McHotstuff said: Lol, i like the raw, carnal nature of primal play. Especially when you have proper prey. I can be aggressive. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baby_Yoda Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 10 minutes ago, NaBoomer said: Are you getting off on this? 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rogue_Alphonse Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 1 hour ago, lesans_muse said: You know, I want that courage 😂😂 Wanna be friends? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stilgar Posted December 11, 2019 Share Posted December 11, 2019 1 hour ago, lesans_muse said: The Jesus impersonator running a BDSM club is making my entire night. 😂 I'm exploring polyamory and wow, it is uh a lot but makes a lot of sense for both I and my partner need. He'd go dressed as jesus too. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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