Swingers & BDSM

[avec]

Looking back on this year I did a lot of things including venturing into the lifestyle to see if it was for me.

Anyone else interested/want to share about the lifestyle?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

So many dicks.

[GuyBeardmane]

Past few years I've done some soul-searching.  I'm not much for swinging but also not for monogamy?  Like, I honestly just want a harem of sugar babies.  I need to be rich for this, but it's the easiest way to put it.  Other than just saying "My sexuality is Hugh Hefner."

[Mix]

If I know my porn categories, and I do, those are different things.....

Are we just calling it the lifestyle now? Is that new? Should I pretend I've known all along to be kewl 

Edited December 11, 2019 by Mix

[crackymckrackin]

It's not something that ever got me excited. As long as I'm scoring at home every day I couldn't imagine getting it anywhere else. 

[Vamped]

Im not sure if I could swing but BDSM I could do 

[Baby_Yoda]

I’ve been into the lifestyle since i was 17. I’ve been to a few play parties and wanted to go to a bdsm club i found. I have not been experimenting with it as of late, but i’m into a lot of things. 

Realized i classify as so many things. Bigender Daddy Dom. Switch. Little/Babygirl. Pup/Red Panda. Rope Bunny. Gore Whore. Sadist. Masochist. 

I’m into things like ddlg, asphyxiation, marking, teeth, primal play, blood, knife play, edging, shibari, anal play, degradation, humiliation, dehumanization, saliva, cum play, breathe play, etc.

I want to explore my submissive side more and have a proper Dom.

*I don’t think i could swing. I’m pretty mono and like the connection and bond of a successful DxS.

Edited December 11, 2019 by Tempty_McHotstuff

[Naraku4656]

uhhhhhhhhh i like cuddling if that counts

[GuyBeardmane]

42 minutes ago, Mix said:

If I know my porn categories, and I do, those are different things.....

Are we just calling it the lifestyle now? Is that new? Should I pretend I've known all along to be kewl 

It's a peanut butter and chocolate thing.  They don't necessarily go together, but some people absolutely love it when they do.

[Vamped]

10 minutes ago, Tempty_McHotstuff said:

I’ve been into the lifestyle since i was 17. I’ve been to a few play parties and wanted to go to a bdsm club i found. I have not been experimenting with it as of late, but i’m into a lot of things. 

Realized i classify as so many things. Bigender Daddy Dom. Switch. Little/Babygirl. Pup/Red Panda. Rope Bunny. Gore Whore. Sadist. Masochist. 

I’m into things like ddlg, asphyxiation, marking, teeth, primal play, blood, knife play, edging, shibari, anal play, degradation, humiliation, dehumanization, saliva, cum play, breathe play, etc.

I want to explore my submissive side more and have a proper Dom.

*I don’t think i could swing. I’m pretty mono and like the connection and bond of a successful DxS.

Nevermind what I said earlier in this thread 

[Kudasai]

18 minutes ago, Tempty_McHotstuff said:

I’ve been into the lifestyle since i was 17. I’ve been to a few play parties and wanted to go to a bdsm club i found. I have not been experimenting with it as of late, but i’m into a lot of things. 

Realized i classify as so many things. Bigender Daddy Dom. Switch. Little/Babygirl. Pup/Red Panda. Rope Bunny. Gore Whore. Sadist. Masochist. 

I’m into things like ddlg, asphyxiation, marking, teeth, primal play, blood, knife play, edging, shibari, anal play, degradation, humiliation, dehumanization, saliva, cum play, breathe play, etc.

I want to explore my submissive side more and have a proper Dom.

*I don’t think i could swing. I’m pretty mono and like the connection and bond of a successful DxS.

[Rogue_Alphonse]

No BDSM but I have done sort of the swinger thing.. but it's mainly been with friends

[Baby_Yoda]

Oh, i forgot something major! Pet play

[scoobdog]

35 minutes ago, Tempty_McHotstuff said:

I’ve been into the lifestyle since i was 17. I’ve been to a few play parties and wanted to go to a bdsm club i found. I have not been experimenting with it as of late, but i’m into a lot of things. 

Realized i classify as so many things. Bigender Daddy Dom. Switch. Little/Babygirl. Pup/Red Panda. Rope Bunny. Gore Whore. Sadist. Masochist. 

I’m into things like ddlg, asphyxiation, marking, teeth, primal play, blood, knife play, edging, shibari, anal play, degradation, humiliation, dehumanization, saliva, cum play, breathe play, etc.

I want to explore my submissive side more and have a proper Dom.

*I don’t think i could swing. I’m pretty mono and like the connection and bond of a successful DxS.

I think I could do all that.....

8 minutes ago, Tempty_McHotstuff said:

Oh, i forgot something major! Pet play

Nope.  Can't hang.

Seriously though.... I'm ashamed of my incompetence now.

[Baby_Yoda]

Just now, scoobdog said:

I think I could do all that.....

Nope.  Can't hang.

Seriously though.... I'm ashamed of my incompetence now.

All it takes is research and application

[scoobdog]

Yes it does.

[Mix]

36 minutes ago, GuyBeardmane said:

It's a peanut butter and chocolate thing.  They don't necessarily go together, but some people absolutely love it when they do.

I completely understand....

This was perfect, i'm going to need you to explain more things like this....why did mommy leave daddy? 

[Baby_Yoda]

8 minutes ago, scoobdog said:

Yes it does.

It helps when you have a good teacher.

if you know what is enjoyable to you experimenting with different avenues will lead you down the right path and you’ll learn your hard and soft limits.

like for me scat and puke is a hell no, but i am open to water sports and saliva just for the simple fact it falls under humiliation and degradation.

also, when i say marking i think of akamaru, but really it can be anywhere from biting, scratching, bruises:

Edited December 11, 2019 by Tempty_McHotstuff

[GuyBeardmane]

1 minute ago, Mix said:

I completely understand....

This was perfect, i'm going to need you to explain more things like this....why did mommy leave daddy? 

Probably because of something you did.

[Mix]

45 minutes ago, Tempty_McHotstuff said:

I’ve been into the lifestyle since i was 17. I’ve been to a few play parties and wanted to go to a bdsm club i found. I have not been experimenting with it as of late, but i’m into a lot of things. 

Realized i classify as so many things. Bigender Daddy Dom. Switch. Little/Babygirl. Pup/Red Panda. Rope Bunny. Gore Whore. Sadist. Masochist. 

I’m into things like ddlg, asphyxiation, marking, teeth, primal play, blood, knife play, edging, shibari, anal play, degradation, humiliation, dehumanization, saliva, cum play, breathe play, etc.

I want to explore my submissive side more and have a proper Dom.

*I don’t think i could swing. I’m pretty mono and like the connection and bond of a successful DxS.

I've got to google a lot of this....oh jeez, not the red pandas 

[Mix]

2 minutes ago, GuyBeardmane said:

Probably because of something you did.

[Baby_Yoda]

7 minutes ago, Mix said:

I've got to google a lot of this....oh jeez, not the red pandas 

I do have a persona of a red panda. Even my mannerisms. I tend to paw and communicate in lil noises. I’m just not afraid of rocks, but i am jumpy.

Edited December 11, 2019 by Tempty_McHotstuff

[Mix]

3 minutes ago, Tempty_McHotstuff said:

I do have a persona of a red panda. Even my mannerisms. I tend to paw and communicate in lil noises. I’m just not afraid of rocks, but i am jumpy.

ahh, see, look at that.....you can't make that thing dirty.....it's adorable....and it's the last thing we got after the news came out that Koala's are just riddled with STDs..... I grew up watching Noozles....I can't even imagine what Blinky was doing to Pinky 

[RainyDayJizz#35]

Is there a group for guys who like getting their dick sucked and being left alone? 

I'm pretty certain this is my fetish.

[Mix]

6 minutes ago, GreatBallsOfJizz said:

Is there a group for guys who like getting their dick sucked and being left alone? 

I'm pretty certain this is my fetish.

hey that ticks the asphyxiation and dehumanization boxes, so you should be good to go....maybe throw in a rope just to be safe 

[RainyDayJizz#35]

7 minutes ago, Mix said:

hey that ticks the asphyxiation and dehumanization boxes, so you should be good to go....maybe throw in a rope just to be safe 

I think there's a sewing kit around, and plenty of tape.

[Mix]

2 minutes ago, GreatBallsOfJizz said:

I think there's a sewing kit around, and plenty of tape.

That'll work

 

You know what, thinking back, I had an opportunity to be an eagle scout and I laughed it off....all those fuckers did was learn different ways to tie shit up.....those god damn freaks....the things they did on those camping trips while I was getting high behind Papa Johns....

[scoobdog]

25 minutes ago, GreatBallsOfJizz said:

Is there a group for guys who like getting their dick sucked and being left alone? 

I'm pretty certain this is my fetish.

Well, that's no fun.

[stilgar]

Let see, I've been to a few munches, a local bdsm club that was run by a Jesus impersonator, gone to a kinky and geeky con a few times, and I have been in a polyamorous relationship for years now.

[RainyDayJizz#35]

6 minutes ago, scoobdog said:

Well, that's no fun.

It is when I'm playing video games by myself and my phone isn't ringing and no one is speaking to me.

[avec]

2 hours ago, GuyBeardmane said:

Past few years I've done some soul-searching.  I'm not much for swinging but also not for monogamy?  Like, I honestly just want a harem of sugar babies.  I need to be rich for this, but it's the easiest way to put it.  Other than just saying "My sexuality is Hugh Hefner."

I'm definitely feeling much more on the polyamory side also.  Haha, sugar babies - I haven't heard that term before!

[Vamped]

5 minutes ago, GreatBallsOfJizz said:

It is when I'm playing video games by myself and my phone isn't ringing and no one is speaking to me.

Me dropping subtle hints when gaming cuts into sex time: 

GODDAMMIT KEVIN! GET OFF THAT DUMBASS FORTNITE SHIT AND DROP OFF THAT DICK

[avec]

2 hours ago, Mix said:

If I know my porn categories, and I do, those are different things.....

Are we just calling it the lifestyle now? Is that new? Should I pretend I've known all along to be kewl 

At least that's what people call it on fet and when I talk to them - whether they swing/go to sex parties and/or are into BDSM. Tbh, I don't know much.  Dipped my toes in 😏

[avec]

2 hours ago, crackymckrackin said:

It's not something that ever got me excited. As long as I'm scoring at home every day I couldn't imagine getting it anywhere else. 

I hear you. 💦

[avec]

2 hours ago, Vamped said:

Im not sure if I could swing but BDSM I could do 

That was where I was leaning too.  Sex is one thing and is fine, but I found some interesting things out about myself via BDSM 🎶

Edited December 11, 2019 by lesans_muse
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[avec]

2 hours ago, Tempty_McHotstuff said:

I’ve been into the lifestyle since i was 17. I’ve been to a few play parties and wanted to go to a bdsm club i found. I have not been experimenting with it as of late, but i’m into a lot of things. 

Realized i classify as so many things. Bigender Daddy Dom. Switch. Little/Babygirl. Pup/Red Panda. Rope Bunny. Gore Whore. Sadist. Masochist. 

I’m into things like ddlg, asphyxiation, marking, teeth, primal play, blood, knife play, edging, shibari, anal play, degradation, humiliation, dehumanization, saliva, cum play, breathe play, etc.

I want to explore my submissive side more and have a proper Dom.

*I don’t think i could swing. I’m pretty mono and like the connection and bond of a successful DxS.

Thank you for sharing all of this about what you've discovered! 

To take that step to find a proper mentor to Dom or Sub is a fear for me.  Like building enough trust.

I realized that I am REALLY into primal play and always thought it was weird when people weren't into wrestling and biting and shit.  Who knew? 😂

[avec]

1 hour ago, ǝsuoɥdl∀ ǝnɓoᴚ said:

No BDSM but I have done sort of the swinger thing.. but it's mainly been with friends

OooOoooOooo with friends huh?

[Naraku4656]

1 hour ago, ǝsuoɥdl∀ ǝnɓoᴚ said:

No BDSM but I have done sort of the swinger thing.. but it's mainly been with friends

 

[avec]

27 minutes ago, stilgar said:

Let see, I've been to a few munches, a local bdsm club that was run by a Jesus impersonator, gone to a kinky and geeky con a few times, and I have been in a polyamorous relationship for years now.

The Jesus impersonator running a BDSM club is making my entire night. 😂

I'm exploring polyamory and wow, it is uh a lot but makes a lot of sense for both I and my partner need.

[Rogue_Alphonse]

16 minutes ago, lesans_muse said:

OooOoooOooo with friends huh?

I prefer to know em before I fuck em

Edited December 11, 2019 by ǝsuoɥdl∀ ǝnɓoᴚ
fucking keyboard cut out :|

[avec]

6 minutes ago, ǝsuoɥdl∀ ǝnɓoᴚ said:

Iefer to know em before I fuck em

You know, I want that courage 😂😂

[Baby_Yoda]

31 minutes ago, lesans_muse said:

Thank you for sharing all of this about what you've discovered! 

To take that step to find a proper mentor to Dom or Sub is a fear for me.  Like building enough trust.

I realized that I am REALLY into primal play and always thought it was weird when people weren't into wrestling and biting and shit.  Who knew? 😂

Lol, i like the raw, carnal nature of primal play. Especially when you have proper prey. I can be aggressive. 

[Baby_Yoda]

55 minutes ago, GreatBallsOfJizz said:

It is when I'm playing video games by myself and my phone isn't ringing and no one is speaking to me.

Hmm, i mean people do that when they are single. You can always be.

[André Toulon]

I like pain so ive done some things but im not certain it could be considered bdsm. 

As far as swinging, ive told every woman ive been with since 2003 that you need a boyfriend. Sometimes i just like being alone and not for like a few hours... Like weeks

[RainyDayJizz#35]

20 minutes ago, Tempty_McHotstuff said:

Hmm, i mean people do that when they are single. You can always be.

I can always be, I did get plenty of blowjobs when I was single. But why you gotta be that way about jokes? 

I didn't say I go out and get blown by women I don't talk to, it's just my fetish category.

[Baby_Yoda]

2 minutes ago, GreatBallsOfJizz said:

I can always be, I did get plenty of blowjobs when I was single. But why you gotta be that way about jokes? 

I didn't say I go out and get blown by women I don't talk to, it's just my fetish category.

Trans hookers are very generous so you have told me.

Maybe that lifestyle is more compatible for you

[NaBarney]

1 minute ago, Tempty_McHotstuff said:

Trans hookers are very generous so you have told me.

Maybe that lifestyle is more compatible for you

Are you getting off on this?

[avec]

33 minutes ago, Tempty_McHotstuff said:

Lol, i like the raw, carnal nature of primal play. Especially when you have proper prey. I can be aggressive. 

[Baby_Yoda]

10 minutes ago, NaBoomer said:

Are you getting off on this?

 

[Rogue_Alphonse]

1 hour ago, lesans_muse said:

You know, I want that courage 😂😂

Wanna be friends?

[stilgar]

1 hour ago, lesans_muse said:

The Jesus impersonator running a BDSM club is making my entire night. 😂

I'm exploring polyamory and wow, it is uh a lot but makes a lot of sense for both I and my partner need.

He'd go dressed as jesus too.