Greeny Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 Asking for my friend Treeny. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
midnight Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 It's not like it's 28 and 14. Like Zeni likes it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bnmjy Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 The rule is half your age plus 7, so yes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 depending on how mature the people are Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greeny Posted March 6, 2019 Author Share Posted March 6, 2019 3 minutes ago, bnmjy said: The rule is half your age plus 7, so yes. Rules shmules. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greeny Posted March 6, 2019 Author Share Posted March 6, 2019 11 minutes ago, midnight said: It's not like it's 28 and 14. Like Zeni likes it. That's true. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greeny Posted March 6, 2019 Author Share Posted March 6, 2019 2 minutes ago, ghostrek said: depending on how mature the people are She's definitely more mature than m....Treeny. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 1 minute ago, Greeny said: She's definitely more mature than m....Treeny. ok? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cyberbully Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 no...I personally wouldn't date a 21 year old but otherwise I don't see a problem 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greeny Posted March 6, 2019 Author Share Posted March 6, 2019 2 minutes ago, cyberbully said: no...I personally wouldn't date a 21 year old but otherwise I don't see a problem Every 21 year old I've ever known other than her was annoying as hell. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ginguy Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 Kinda. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greeny Posted March 6, 2019 Author Share Posted March 6, 2019 5 minutes ago, Ginguy said: Kinda. No one cares what you think! 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lupin_bebop Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 Yes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greeny Posted March 6, 2019 Author Share Posted March 6, 2019 13 minutes ago, lupin_bebop said: Yes. What do you know? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naraku4656 Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 yes and ew Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nameraka Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 People will talk and make assumptions. Do you care? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greeny Posted March 6, 2019 Author Share Posted March 6, 2019 2 minutes ago, nameraka said: People will talk and make assumptions. Do you care? Why would I care? We're talking about my friend. But no, I wouldn't care. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nameraka Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 Just now, Greeny said: Why would I care? We're talking about my friend. But no, I wouldn't care. Then there you go. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greeny Posted March 6, 2019 Author Share Posted March 6, 2019 3 minutes ago, nameraka said: Then there you go. Yoda? Is that you? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StarPanda Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 If she digs it its cool Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zenigundam Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 6 hours ago, bnmjy said: The rule is half your age plus 7, so yes. Awful rule, makes no sense actually Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PenguinBoss Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 Her daddy phase won't last very long either way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clu Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 Different life stages, and I wouldn't be able to hang Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zenigundam Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 1 hour ago, Clu said: Different life stages, and I wouldn't be able to hang I like it when we're at different stages in our lives. We can learn from each other... 👫 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clu Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 You're alpha though. I can't hang, I think I have a hangover from 2 years ago still. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueraven1999 Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 Yeah I'd say that's too much. Personally I think a ten year age difference is too much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greeny Posted March 6, 2019 Author Share Posted March 6, 2019 9 minutes ago, blueraven1999 said: Yeah I'd say that's too much. Personally I think a ten year age difference is too much. So an 80 year old and a 90 year old is too much? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cyberbully Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 1 hour ago, Greeny said: So an 80 year old and a 90 year old is too much? I don't think people are thinking in relative terms....Just the huge gap in age. Like I said, I wouldn't date one, but not because I think it's wrong....Both parties are full fledged adults. But I know I have NOTHING in common with a 21 year old chick. If I were 45 and she 31....Hmmmm, I might give it a go....I figure she's lived enough to have had enough experiences that she had a firmer grasp on reality......But if it were 25 and an 11 year old, well I think you know where the jury stands on that. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 13 hours ago, bnmjy said: The rule is half your age plus 7, so yes. sources plz/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bnmjy Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 5 minutes ago, PhilosipherStoned said: sources plz/ ok pm incoming Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 lol check your sources those are unacceptable. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greeny Posted March 6, 2019 Author Share Posted March 6, 2019 21 minutes ago, cyberbully said: I don't think people are thinking in relative terms....Just the huge gap in age. Like I said, I wouldn't date one, but not because I think it's wrong....Both parties are full fledged adults. But I know I have NOTHING in common with a 21 year old chick. If I were 45 and she 31....Hmmmm, I might give it a go....I figure she's lived enough to have had enough experiences that she had a firmer grasp on reality......But if it were 25 and an 11 year old, well I think you know where the jury stands on that. I was mostly just giving him shit with that question. She legitimately is more mature (and probably more responsible) than I am, which probably says more about me than it does her. Regardless, if she reminded me of the typical 21 year olds I've known I wouldn't even consider it. Not that I'm actually going to ask her out anyway. I'm just pretty sure she'd say yes if I did, and not gonna lie, it's nice to think about. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lupin_bebop Posted March 7, 2019 Share Posted March 7, 2019 On 3/5/2019 at 8:18 PM, Greeny said: What do you know? Quite a bit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naraku4656 Posted March 7, 2019 Share Posted March 7, 2019 (edited) i still think a 14 year age gap is too much in your 30s. i mean ok if you're 60 and she's 46, then maaaaaaaaaybe. but even thinking about dating a 21 year old if i was 35 would make my skin crawl Edited March 7, 2019 by Naraku4656 can't subtract appararently Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GunStarHero Posted March 7, 2019 Share Posted March 7, 2019 Well, according to Japan's age of consent, 21 is ancient so get in there, champ. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greeny Posted March 7, 2019 Author Share Posted March 7, 2019 1 hour ago, GunStarHero said: Well, according to Japan's age of consent, 21 is ancient so get in there, champ. I like the way you think. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cyberbully Posted March 7, 2019 Share Posted March 7, 2019 Speaking of Asia Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greeny Posted March 7, 2019 Author Share Posted March 7, 2019 50 minutes ago, cyberbully said: Speaking of Asia She's not bad looking. *googles durians* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doom Metal Alchemist Posted March 7, 2019 Share Posted March 7, 2019 Last year I attempted to ask out a girl (somewhere between 18 and 20) that I thought was hot. Normally I wouldn't go for anyone that young, but she's hot and I felt I had an "in" in that she saw my band play at a concert and proceeded to like our facebook page. She turned me down, and seeing a lot of her facebook posts over the course of almost a year later, I dodged a HUGE fucking bullet. I'll probably try to avoid that age range from now on, if I can help it. But someone as 5ever alone as me, it's hard to be picky with age, as long as she's legal, available, and good looking. Now don't take this as me being like Zeni, I have a coworker that's 5 years older than me I would want to ask out, but she's not available. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doom Metal Alchemist Posted March 7, 2019 Share Posted March 7, 2019 13 hours ago, Naraku4656 said: i still think a 14 year age gap is too much in your 30s. i mean ok if you're 60 and she's 46, then maaaaaaaaaybe. but even thinking about dating a 21 year old if i was 35 would make my skin crawl You don't even like dating women 1 year younger than you. You probably don't even like dating women your exact age. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greeny Posted March 7, 2019 Author Share Posted March 7, 2019 2 hours ago, Doom Metal Alchemist said: Last year I attempted to ask out a girl (somewhere between 18 and 20) that I thought was hot. Normally I wouldn't go for anyone that young, but she's hot and I felt I had an "in" in that she saw my band play at a concert and proceeded to like our facebook page. She turned me down, and seeing a lot of her facebook posts over the course of almost a year later, I dodged a HUGE fucking bullet. I'll probably try to avoid that age range from now on, if I can help it. But someone as 5ever alone as me, it's hard to be picky with age, as long as she's legal, available, and good looking. Now don't take this as me being like Zeni, I have a coworker that's 5 years older than me I would want to ask out, but she's not available. Like I said before, if this girl acted 21 at all I wouldn't be interested in the slightest. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zenigundam Posted March 7, 2019 Share Posted March 7, 2019 16 minutes ago, Greeny said: Like I said before, if this girl acted 21 at all I wouldn't be interested in the slightest. Stop dating teenagers, you're as old as their parents!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandstone Posted March 7, 2019 Share Posted March 7, 2019 It's not illegal. Morally speaking that depends upon what the relationship is for. If it's just for sex and both parties are aware that is all it is this tends to be the least morally entangling permutation of human romantic relationship. If this is something where one of these people want a long term emotional investment, well that is where things tend to become more complex. It also depends on the individual maturity level of said 21 year old. In my experience I tend to find people under 25 haven't had enough adult experience in life to be fully relatable. The other factor is what your friend is seeking from this person. Are they OK with being the more mature one in the relationship, if that is whereally it leads? Having unrealistic expectations and pressures putting upon someone who is not capable of that level of maturity is where I tend to think possible emotional harm can come into the picture. In short if it's legal age of consent and the above factors are not contraindications then yes there's no moral problem either. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naraku4656 Posted March 7, 2019 Share Posted March 7, 2019 (edited) 3 hours ago, Doom Metal Alchemist said: You don't even like dating women 1 year younger than you. You probably don't even like dating women your exact age. that's not entirely true. the youngest i've ever gone was 3 years younger, though that only lasted a month. the longest i ever had was a year younger than me and every other person, except for the one i'm with right now, has been younger than me. Edited March 7, 2019 by Naraku4656 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted March 7, 2019 Share Posted March 7, 2019 On 3/6/2019 at 6:13 AM, Greeny said: I was mostly just giving him shit with that question. She legitimately is more mature (and probably more responsible) than I am, which probably says more about me than it does her. Regardless, if she reminded me of the typical 21 year olds I've known I wouldn't even consider it. Not that I'm actually going to ask her out anyway. I'm just pretty sure she'd say yes if I did, and not gonna lie, it's nice to think about. So, if she'd say yes, why aren't you asking? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greeny Posted March 7, 2019 Author Share Posted March 7, 2019 3 minutes ago, scoobdog said: So, if she'd say yes, why aren't you asking? I'm asking the questions here! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tsar4 Posted March 8, 2019 Share Posted March 8, 2019 On 3/5/2019 at 6:10 PM, Greeny said: Asking for my friend Treeny. It's close to the age difference between my paternal grandparents. No biggie. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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