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How many of you have feelings of regret, guilt, or anxiety after orgasm?


Sandstone

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I think mine has probably alot to do with years of emotional abuse, stressful environment, and probably sexual abuse as a child. Though I have read that this happens to a lot of people for a variety of reasons. I have just always had this sensation, sometimes even triggers crying, after sex. Though many times it doesn't. I dunno may just be a chemical thing.

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8 minutes ago, CutieQuesadilla said:

After i orgasm, i feel nothing, but when i squirted i was embarassed. I felt like a fire hydrant. 

That part never embarrasses me, If anything I am proud of the sheer volume of my ejaculate.

It is that "naughty feeling". I know that we have a community where shit like moral oral is hilarious (and it really is), but a great deal of shame can actually be poured onto someone from a very young age regarding sex. The culprit is usually family and religious institutions, I dunno I feel like kind of an outlier a lot of times on here because I don't think there are many people in this community that grew up in strict fundamentalist households.

It is one of those things that is hard to explain without a background history, but I assure you the guilt feeling that I experience sometimes is very real, and it sucks because logically I know there is nothing wrong with what I am doing.

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1 minute ago, Poof said:

its no fucking mystery. you live in alabama and refuse to acknowledge that its a shit hole that has warped your mind into hating yourself

Can you do me a solid and quote the last post in my hitler thread in df? We were having an important conversation and he blocked me.

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5 minutes ago, Poof said:

its no fucking mystery. you live in alabama and refuse to acknowledge that its a shit hole that has warped your mind into hating yourself

While I disagree about it being the result of the specific state, I do fully acknowledge and understand that the cultural environment in this particular area is and has been a very big contributor to my sexual issues. I guess the mystery to me is less the cause and more the how, maybe I am rambling and not making much sense right now. It has been a bad day today and I'm feeling rather mentally exhausted after having to deal with shit I really shouldn't have to in a sane world. I am going to get offline for a while and deal with more shit I shouldn't have to, just needed to vent my frustration on this particular topic as it has been on my mind lately.

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6 minutes ago, Sandstone said:

While I disagree about it being the result of the specific state, I do fully acknowledge and understand that the cultural environment in this particular area is and has been a very big contributor to my sexual issues. I guess the mystery to me is less the cause and more the how, maybe I am rambling and not making much sense right now. It has been a bad day today and I'm feeling rather mentally exhausted after having to deal with shit I really shouldn't have to in a sane world. I am going to get offline for a while and deal with more shit I shouldn't have to, just needed to vent my frustration on this particular topic as it has been on my mind lately.

the how is ppl in that place being asshoooooooooooooles to you. they suck. cut the emotional and financial ties and live your own life

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I have literally never had this problem. 

 

My earlier days afterwards some guy asked me if I ever felt guilty for doing wrong by someone I loved. I said ive never fucking done anything like that and couldnt believe. I dont feel guilty for any of the shit I do. People do much much worse everyday and no one is perfect!

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Not usually. But if We're doing it just to kill time rather than being in the mood, it happens. 

It's kind of like that feeling when you're at a buffet, and you're not hungry after you've finished your plate, but you go back for more anyways.

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