ghostrek Posted July 17, 2019 Share Posted July 17, 2019 (edited) i dont know this is sexural herrhassment thing but I have a coworker in his 60s that keeps pointing out female customers to me and body parts of said female customers ie their breasts, nipples upset breasts, butts, and their legs and we work in the public eye so I told my boss about it This does make me feel uncomfortable when he's pointing out female customers to me it makes me worried because me being there and told this put me in jeopardy at work if a customer ever heard that did i do the rigth thing yes or no Edited July 17, 2019 by ghostrek Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted July 17, 2019 Author Share Posted July 17, 2019 any one elses wants to post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlackNoir Posted July 17, 2019 Share Posted July 17, 2019 5 minutes ago, ghostrek said: any one elses wants to post no 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted July 17, 2019 Author Share Posted July 17, 2019 1 minute ago, Radical Left said: no look i am not lgbtq but i thinking your offending board members that are Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlackNoir Posted July 17, 2019 Share Posted July 17, 2019 Just now, ghostrek said: look i am not lgbtq but i thinking your offending board members that are I'm not, most of them think you're gay too....We've had talks about this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fuggstop Posted July 17, 2019 Share Posted July 17, 2019 3 minutes ago, Radical Left said: no Ok this was funny Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted July 17, 2019 Author Share Posted July 17, 2019 Just now, Radical Left said: I'm not, most of them think you're gay too....We've had talks about this. look keep this up i am going to the admin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted July 17, 2019 Share Posted July 17, 2019 3 minutes ago, ghostrek said: look keep this up i am going to the admin What's wrong with being gay, Ghosty? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlackNoir Posted July 17, 2019 Share Posted July 17, 2019 (edited) 4 minutes ago, ghostrek said: look keep this up i am going to the admin You say these things like it matters.....And you're kinda putting a big hole in that whole not being a rat thing. But go ahead....The fact that you wish to report me for suggesting that a man who has no interest in women may be gay kinda points directly to your homophobia. There is nothing wrong with being gay....But I'm not the one struggling with my sexuality at "30" something, so I can't possibly know how hard this is for you. Edited July 17, 2019 by Radical Left Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted July 17, 2019 Author Share Posted July 17, 2019 Just now, scoobdog said: What's wrong with being gay, Ghosty? nothing wrong but i am not gay Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted July 17, 2019 Share Posted July 17, 2019 (edited) 2 minutes ago, ghostrek said: nothing wrong Then why are you reporting people? Edited July 17, 2019 by scoobdog Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1pooh4u Posted July 17, 2019 Share Posted July 17, 2019 Next time talk to the person first before you go telling on people, especially since you're saying he wasn't making you uncomfortable 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted July 17, 2019 Author Share Posted July 17, 2019 Just now, scoobdog said: Then why are you reporting people? i dont like being called gay for not but thre nothing wrong with being gay i have gay friends Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted July 17, 2019 Author Share Posted July 17, 2019 1 minute ago, 1pooh4u said: Next time talk to the person first before you go telling on people, especially since you're saying he wasn't making you uncomfortable he was making me uncomfortable Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlackNoir Posted July 17, 2019 Share Posted July 17, 2019 1 minute ago, ghostrek said: i dont like being called gay for not but thre nothing wrong with being gay i have gay friends That's mighty conservative of you. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted July 17, 2019 Share Posted July 17, 2019 Just now, ghostrek said: he was making me uncomfortable Why you such a crybaby? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1pooh4u Posted July 17, 2019 Share Posted July 17, 2019 Just now, ghostrek said: he was making me uncomfortable oops, my mistake, I can't read 😬 What I said still stands, you coulda been like, "Dude, please stop. I don't like conversations like this" 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted July 17, 2019 Author Share Posted July 17, 2019 Just now, 1pooh4u said: oops, my mistake, I can't read 😬 What I said still stands, you coulda been like, "Dude, please stop. I don't like conversations like this" well people did but it dose not work with this guy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlackNoir Posted July 17, 2019 Share Posted July 17, 2019 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlackNoir Posted July 17, 2019 Share Posted July 17, 2019 1 minute ago, ghostrek said: well people did but it dose not work with this guy Who are these "people" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted July 17, 2019 Share Posted July 17, 2019 3 minutes ago, ghostrek said: well people did but it dose not work with this guy Jesus. Just got the guy like a fish and be done with it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted July 17, 2019 Author Share Posted July 17, 2019 3 minutes ago, Radical Left said: Who are these "people" coworkers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted July 17, 2019 Author Share Posted July 17, 2019 1 minute ago, scoobdog said: Jesus. Just got the guy like a fish and be done with it. no Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Juice McKenzie Posted July 17, 2019 Share Posted July 17, 2019 sounds like he's trying to get you some ass Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted July 17, 2019 Share Posted July 17, 2019 Serious answer, Ghosty: Don't snitch on this dude. You're mature enough to ignore people that are bothering you, so act like it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlackNoir Posted July 17, 2019 Share Posted July 17, 2019 10 minutes ago, Juice McKenzie said: sounds like he's trying to get you some ass And this is why Ghostie hates him. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kudasai Posted July 17, 2019 Share Posted July 17, 2019 10 minutes ago, scoobdog said: Serious answer, Ghosty: Don't snitch on this dude. You're mature enough to ignore people that are bothering you, so act like it. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted July 17, 2019 Share Posted July 17, 2019 51 minutes ago, Juice McKenzie said: sounds like he's trying to get you some ass Ghosty gets the attention of a big boobed girl because of this guy, whips out the anaconda, and accidentally vaporizes her with 1% of his power. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vamped Posted July 17, 2019 Share Posted July 17, 2019 I mean ... the way our sexual harassment policy goes, you can report third party sexual harassment. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted July 17, 2019 Author Share Posted July 17, 2019 2 minutes ago, Vamped said: I mean ... the way our sexual harassment policy goes, you can report third party sexual harassment. that good Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StarPanda Posted July 18, 2019 Share Posted July 18, 2019 Snitches get stitches Seriously tho should have just told him to his face not to do that in front of you and be done with it. Or just walk away when he tells you, different ways of avoiding it. He will see you are not Interested in girls body parts and leave you alone 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katt_goddess Posted July 18, 2019 Share Posted July 18, 2019 If the guy is being this blatant about things, he's probably already been talked to about toning it down. If he does things like this especially because he knows it makes people uncomfortable, only someone who he thinks has seniority over him will get him to knock it off. He's old enough to know better but probably doesn't care so going to a supervisor was likely the best thing since telling him anything directly would have just made him more aggressive towards you. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted July 18, 2019 Author Share Posted July 18, 2019 4 minutes ago, katt_goddess said: If the guy is being this blatant about things, he's probably already been talked to about toning it down. If he does things like this especially because he knows it makes people uncomfortable, only someone who he thinks has seniority over him will get him to knock it off. He's old enough to know better but probably doesn't care so going to a supervisor was likely the best thing since telling him anything directly would have just made him more aggressive towards you. more aggressive you say Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tsar4 Posted July 18, 2019 Share Posted July 18, 2019 You did the right thing, ghostrek. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted July 18, 2019 Author Share Posted July 18, 2019 3 minutes ago, tsar4 said: You did the right thing, ghostrek. thank Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katt_goddess Posted July 18, 2019 Share Posted July 18, 2019 33 minutes ago, ghostrek said: more aggressive you say Meaning that if he's just being a jerk occasionally now whenever the mood hits him and there's a set of boobs nearby to point at, he might decide to be really rude about things all the time just to see you react. If he feels he has seniority over you either by years worked or just plain age, he might think he's allowed to be rude to you. So someone who is the boss of him is better for dealing with it than you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted July 18, 2019 Author Share Posted July 18, 2019 1 minute ago, katt_goddess said: Meaning that if he's just being a jerk occasionally now whenever the mood hits him and there's a set of boobs nearby to point at, he might decide to be really rude about things all the time just to see you react. If he feels he has seniority over you either by years worked or just plain age, he might think he's allowed to be rude to you. So someone who is the boss of him is better for dealing with it than you. ok Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cyberbully Posted July 18, 2019 Share Posted July 18, 2019 3 hours ago, katt_goddess said: If the guy is being this blatant about things, he's probably already been talked to about toning it down. If he does things like this especially because he knows it makes people uncomfortable, only someone who he thinks has seniority over him will get him to knock it off. He's old enough to know better but probably doesn't care so going to a supervisor was likely the best thing since telling him anything directly would have just made him more aggressive towards you. OR, he'll find out Ghost ratted on him and he makes things more difficult for him. I mean this is a truck stop in Curbstomp, Ohio.....Methinks HR is probably a large, toothless woman named Princess. Truck stops have a reputation for a seedy element.....Can't wait until he rats on Bruce and the boys sparking a j outside and they tune him up. Maybe he should start cleaning up at another venue. Keep on placating the giant man child....This is going to work wonders for him. At least he'll never procreate and multiply, and that's a good thing. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Distortedreasoning Posted July 18, 2019 Share Posted July 18, 2019 aww man why you gotta be snitchin! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lupin_bebop Posted July 18, 2019 Share Posted July 18, 2019 Why are you being a fucking snitch? [Nah....I would, too. It's supposed to be reported.] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stilgar Posted July 18, 2019 Share Posted July 18, 2019 Is someone else masturbating on your turf? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cyberbully Posted July 18, 2019 Share Posted July 18, 2019 (edited) 5 hours ago, lupin_bebop said: Why are you being a fucking snitch? [Nah....I would, too. It's supposed to be reported.] Report what....He's not actually harrassing any women (at least not that the OP indicated), this is a creepy old man trying to get Ghostie to look at them.....Now while I'm not condoning that behavior, how do you even go about this....Wander into the Manager's closet, poop rag and hand and say "Raymond keeps telling me to look at titties"....I mean, he's a grown man.....He can say "I'm not interested, leave me alone, eat a dick Raymond, catch these hands, I'm a flaming homosexual".....Any of these things. If the guy isn't actually doing anything to the patrons and just making Ghostie uncomfortable, Ghostie can move along....Shouldn't he be mopping or something anyway.....Sounds like a lot of standing around if you ask me. Edited July 18, 2019 by cyberbully Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doom Metal Alchemist Posted July 18, 2019 Share Posted July 18, 2019 4 hours ago, cyberbully said: Report what....He's not actually harrassing any women (at least not that the OP indicated), this is a creepy old man trying to get Ghostie to look at them.....Now while I'm not condoning that behavior, how do you even go about this....Wander into the Manager's closet, poop rag and hand and say "Raymond keeps telling me to look at titties"....I mean, he's a grown man.....He can say "I'm not interested, leave me alone, eat a dick Raymond, catch these hands, I'm a flaming homosexual".....Any of these things. If the guy isn't actually doing anything to the patrons and just making Ghostie uncomfortable, Ghostie can move along....Shouldn't he be mopping or something anyway.....Sounds like a lot of standing around if you ask me. I don't know how the sexual harassment laws work in Ohio, but in California, I'm pretty sure Ghostie's coworker could definitely be punished for sexual harassment in this scenario... And before that happens, Ghostie is trying to make it known he wants no part of it, to cover his ass. If I were him, I probably would have started with telling his co-worker something like, "I don't think this is appropriate talk for the workplace," if that didn't work, then remind the coworker about the reprocussions (mother fucker I can't spell) of sexual harrassment, and if THAT didn't work, then go to the boss about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
André Toulon Posted July 18, 2019 Share Posted July 18, 2019 1 hour ago, Doom Metal Alchemist said: I don't know how the sexual harassment laws work in Ohio, but in California, I'm pretty sure Ghostie's coworker could definitely be punished for sexual harassment in this scenario... And before that happens, Ghostie is trying to make it known he wants no part of it, to cover his ass. If I were him, I probably would have started with telling his co-worker something like, "I don't think this is appropriate talk for the workplace," if that didn't work, then remind the coworker about the reprocussions (mother fucker I can't spell) of sexual harrassment, and if THAT didn't work, then go to the boss about it. Dude is 60, working at a truck stop....I got good money that says sex offender is on his record and they don't give a shit because he works for whatever Ohio's min wage is without complaints. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lupin_bebop Posted July 19, 2019 Share Posted July 19, 2019 (edited) 14 hours ago, cyberbully said: Report what....He's not actually harrassing any women (at least not that the OP indicated), this is a creepy old man trying to get Ghostie to look at them.....Now while I'm not condoning that behavior, how do you even go about this....Wander into the Manager's closet, poop rag and hand and say "Raymond keeps telling me to look at titties"....I mean, he's a grown man.....He can say "I'm not interested, leave me alone, eat a dick Raymond, catch these hands, I'm a flaming homosexual".....Any of these things. If the guy isn't actually doing anything to the patrons and just making Ghostie uncomfortable, Ghostie can move along....Shouldn't he be mopping or something anyway.....Sounds like a lot of standing around if you ask me. Part of me does agree with this in that, yes, he’s not doing it to patrons. Still, it can lead to that. That SAME part of me also agrees with you in that Ghostdumbass can say something to make it stop. He’s got a mouth, body, brain (somewhat), hands, and feet. However, another part of me (the owner/managerial part) disagrees and thinks he SHOULD speak up. He works with this guy a lot of days. This is the kind of shit that leads to lawsuits and other shit, especially if not reported. The fact that he is making a MALE coworker uncomfortable tells me: 1. This is more than a “Ooooweee! Look at the nice rack on her” kind of talk. That implies more lasciviousness. What other horrible things are being said 2. This has been going on for some time, which means that this employee has gotten more and more toxic. Why didn’t this stop before? Why didn’t anyone speak up? 3. If he is saying things like this about women behind their back/out of earshot, what is he saying about other groups of people when they aren’t looking? Do I really need that element/liability in my establishment? Is he worth the investment? Edited July 19, 2019 by lupin_bebop Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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