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is it creepy to hit on someone 2 years younger than you


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What are you, Bizarro-Zeni?

it's not like me to want to try and go out with someone younger than i am. i did it once, but she was only 1 year younger than me. this one is 2, which i think might be getting into creepy territory. i like girls who are 27-29, so about 1-3 years older than me

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Age is just a number. It's fine as long as they're of legal age. I tend to like girls in the 17-19 age range, 16 is legal in NJ and I want to add it, but people around here will get the wrong idea since it might be illegal where they live. So 17-19's nice even though my girlfriend's older at 20. I'll get a new girlfriend when she hits 22, unless we get married and she bears my children, then I'm stuck I guess.

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That's not what I said at all. I already feel awkward that my soon to be girlfriend/wife is 20. I relate to the 17-19 year old ladies a lot better. She's gonna say stuff that I don't even get.

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Age is just a number. It's fine as long as they're of legal age. I tend to like girls in the 17-19 age range, 16 is legal in NJ and I want to add it, but people around here will get the wrong idea since it might be illegal where they live. So 17-19's nice even though my girlfriend's older at 20. I'll get a new girlfriend when she hits 22, unless we get married and she bears my children, then I'm stuck I guess.

 

Careful, Zeni. Some places will instantly arrest you even if she's 17.

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This guy gets it.  :it:

 

Yeah.

 

I generally prefer older women, though, specifically because she's both someone I can get turned on by and look up to, respect and admire due to her greater wisdom.

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Careful, Zeni. Some places will instantly arrest you even if she's 17.

 

Yeah and cops are jerks about those situations. In movies and TV shows, they always take the suspect to the ground violently as if the whole situation angers them.

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Yeah.

 

I generally prefer older women, though, specifically because she's both someone I can get turned on by and look up to, respect and admire due to her greater wisdom.

 

Don't underestimate the wisdom of a lady just out of high school, or on the verge. AP Bio and Shakespeare are fresh on her mind.

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Don't underestimate the wisdom of a lady just out of high school, or on the verge. AP Bio and Shakespeare are fresh on her mind.

 

When I'm with someone who just graduated High School, it seems like she's only on the verge of trying to get her shit together whereas if I'm with a girl who got out of High School before me, it seems more like I could pick up more tricks from her.

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Yeah and cops are jerks about those situations. In movies and TV shows, they always take the suspect to the ground violently as if the whole situation angers them.

 

TV and movie cops are stereotypically assholish for a number of reasons, with fucking little girls being one of those reasons.

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2 years is nothing unless you're 18 and they're 16.  Then stay away from that shit.

I had somebody at work hit on me who is 10 years younger than I am.  She was 10 when I was 20.

 

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When I'm with someone who just graduated High School, it seems like she's only on the verge of trying to get her shit together whereas if I'm with a girl who got out of High School before me, it seems more like I could pick up more tricks from her.

 

Ah I see what you mean. When I'm with somebody out of HS, I tell her, "I love how fresh and beautiful you are. You're just perfect. It's like when you go to the supermarket and find the juice hidden in the back with the latest expiration date while all the suckers are buying the juices that'll expire in a week or two."

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TV and movie cops are stereotypically assholish for a number of reasons, with fucking little girls being one of those reasons.

 

Cops don't understand what it was like to be a kid. Police academy training made them stoic and cold.

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I noped right out of it.

 

Good call, bro.

 

Now if you date her down the line when you're say 35 and she's 25, you can go back and tell her, "When we first met, you were 10 and I was 20. Pretty cool huh?  :it: "

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Um, no.  She was 19 when we met and I was 29.

This was just last year.

 

Ah I see. Well with the girl I'm planning to go on a date with soon (she gave me her number today), I'm going to joke around and say, "When I was a HS senior, you were in 6th grade. Isn't that something? :it: "

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The old consensus is (Your age)/2 + 7 as the lower boundary before it gets creepy.  Adjustments for legality if you're young, obviously.

 

Now if you're Zeni, it's always creepy.

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Ah I see. Well with the girl I'm planning to go on a date with soon (she gave me her number today), I'm going to joke around and say, "When I was a HS senior, you were in 6th grade. Isn't that something? :it: "

 

You should do that.  I'm sure it'll go over well.

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Is it creepy for someone in their mid twenties to hit on someone else in their mid twenties? Are you really asking this, or is the question just a ploy to blog about you creeping on your soon to be ex co-worker?

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Is it creepy for someone in their mid twenties to hit on someone else in their mid twenties? Are you really asking this, or is the question just a ploy to blog about you creeping on your soon to be ex co-worker?

 

I make it a point to never date anyone not exactly my age. Any other age besides my own is disgusting. No, I don't feel like I've limited myself to trying to find the one human being that I can intimately share my life with, is physically attractive, is good in bed, shares common interests, has the same viewpoints in the areas of politics, marriage, and having children as I do... by completely ruling out every single person not my exact age.

 

::spin::

 

 

@Naraku I know you're ok with older, but think about this.... what if the older women you go after have the same exact viewpoint you do about dating someone 2 years younger to be creepy? Then who are you going to date?

But I still have a feeling this thread is (at least partly) in jest.  :P

 

 

 

 

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i usually go for older women but one about 2 years younger than me is getting interesting

I can tell you about a local bar singer who is sixty five years old and never leaves the bar without a twenty something on each arm.  Everybody thinks he's the coolest.
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Is it creepy for someone in their mid twenties to hit on someone else in their mid twenties? Are you really asking this, or is the question just a ploy to blog about you creeping on your soon to be ex co-worker?

not a coworker, but i'm am used to hitting on slightly older women, not younger

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my mother is dating someone 10 years older than me.......thats....13 years her junior

 

what.............no way am I ten years older than you  S:

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