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I'm too much of a prude to be casual about dating


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I technically always have been unless I was in a relationship. But I just get really uncomfortable about people touching me if I really don't know who they are. So I was an this outdoor rave with friends were rolling and smoking and of course I see a guy with a naruto headband and immediately chat it up with him like the weeb that I am. We were talking about our favorite characters and as the music picked up he started dancing with me, but then he was like getting aggressive about wanting to rub his dick on my butt. And I was on a lot of drugs, but I didn't want to do that so I ran away and sat down for bit drinking water. >__>

Can I just talk to weebs about anime without someone wanting to grab me? Being social is so weird. <__<  How do I be a normal nerd ya'll?

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51 minutes ago, jackiemarie90 said:

Doubt but it's ok, I'll just be a lone with my anime. lol

Its true i promise. Make it extremely difficult for them to sleep with u..then they will propose...then just put out very little at the beginning have a couple of kids and completely refuse all sex and the man will stick around forever...decades...guarantee it.

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i never really cared for casual dating either. made it difficult on okcupid or tinder especially to find someone. i've liked women a few years older than me before, but never really dated any, so i tried my hand at that to find someone who wanted the same thing i did. boy that was a good decision.

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28 minutes ago, fuggstop said:

Its true i promise. Make it extremely difficult for them to sleep with u..then they will propose...then just put out very little at the beginning have a couple of kids and completely refuse all sex and the man will stick around forever...decades...guarantee it.

I don't know about that, but the best strategy is to probably focus on school. lol

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1 hour ago, jackiemarie90 said:

I technically always have been unless I was in a relationship. But I just get really uncomfortable about people touching me if I really don't know who they are. So I was an this outdoor rave with friends were rolling and smoking and of course I see a guy with a naruto headband and immediately chat it up with him like the weeb that I am. We were talking about our favorite characters and as the music picked up he started dancing with me, but then he was like getting aggressive about wanting to rub his dick on my butt. And I was on a lot of drugs, but I didn't want to do that so I ran away and sat down for bit drinking water. >__>

Can I just talk to weebs about anime without someone wanting to grab me? Being social is so weird. <__<  How do I be a normal nerd ya'll?

 your first mistake was talking to the weeb with a Naruto headband.....fuck everything that is Naruto....

 but I’m also one of those people that doesn’t like to be touched either... but I’m also not scared of a casual encounter... I mean I certainly won’t fuck a guy I just met but I’ll certainly get his number 

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24 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said:

i never really cared for casual dating either. made it difficult on okcupid or tinder especially to find someone. i've liked women a few years older than me before, but never really dated any, so i tried my hand at that to find someone who wanted the same thing i did. boy that was a good decision.

Life is weird getting out of a long relationship. I'm not really seeking anyone at all. But I just want to hang out with a bunch of people and hopefully meet someone who is already a friend. But idk, it shouldn't be important now.

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8 minutes ago, Vamped said:

=_=

I dont think you're a prude. I personally would not have expected to be protecting my ass from rogue dick while fangirling about Madara either 

Yaaass madara is OP. lol I was talking about Gaara and kakashi and then I was like oh, what is that bumping into my butt, run awaaaaay. 🤣

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4 minutes ago, Still Me said:

 your first mistake was talking to the weeb with a Naruto headband.....fuck everything that is Naruto....

 but I’m also one of those people that doesn’t like to be touched either... but I’m also not scared of a casual encounter... I mean I certainly won’t fuck a guy I just met but I’ll certainly get his number 

lol in hindsight, I really should think about who I talk to just because everyone is a fucking naruto fan and that also means you are going to get a group of not so cool people in the fandom. 

Yeah casual encounters don't bother me, I guess if I'm interested in the person too. But a lot of times, guys I just met like a half an hour ago wanna grab or whatever and I hate that. I also don't like misleading people either, so I feel like if I touch them then they are going to expect more from me. I try to shut that stuff down real quick.

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12 minutes ago, Vamped said:

You could run or knock their dick in the dirt. Either way 

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But then I feel bad cause I hate that guys feel like girls reject them all the time. At the same time, touching right off the bat is a no no, but idk maybe he was on a lot of stuff like me too. Honestly I'm too insecure for this shit. lol Next time just dancing with the girls and sitting and smoking during breaks. lol

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1 hour ago, jackiemarie90 said:

You see, I understand that, that's why I don't want to get on the other person's case, but I personally just like a lot more space at first. 

Understood.  I do like the heads over heels feel but I also like to observe the other person as well.

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6 hours ago, jackiemarie90 said:

lol in hindsight, I really should think about who I talk to just because everyone is a fucking naruto fan and that also means you are going to get a group of not so cool people in the fandom. 

Yeah casual encounters don't bother me, I guess if I'm interested in the person too. But a lot of times, guys I just met like a half an hour ago wanna grab or whatever and I hate that. I also don't like misleading people either, so I feel like if I touch them then they are going to expect more from me. I try to shut that stuff down real quick.

This is why I don't like going to bars, clubs or parties not run by my close friends. Instead of just dancing and having fun, I always have to be aware of where the other person's hands are because at least 70% of the time they try to grab my waist so they can grind on me. Dudes who pull that shit get elbowed with zero warning. Men could worry less about rejection if more of them acted like they had some goddamn common sense. 

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29 minutes ago, SorceressPol said:

This is why I don't like going to bars, clubs or parties not run by my close friends. Instead of just dancing and having fun, I always have to be aware of where the other person's hands are because at least 70% of the time they try to grab my waist so they can grind on me. Dudes who pull that shit get elbowed with zero warning. Men could worry less about rejection if more of them acted like they had some goddamn common sense. 

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ This. I guess it was easier to party when you already had someone else. As a single person now it's just way more work. lol

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6 hours ago, Doom Metal Alchemist said:

That doesn't sound like you being prudish, that sounds like you not liking being molested. I assumed you were going to say he put his hand on your shoulder or something and you freaked out.

No they were immediately on my waists, plus he was taller guy so I didn't want to be like squished into his crotch and ran to my girl friend over there who started dancing with me all night. lol

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3 hours ago, rpgamer said:

Think this sorta crosses from "casual dating" to just trying to hook up. Maybe a bit of a sliding scale involved. Maybe definitions vary from person to person.

Or maybe the dude's just gross.

I know it's a complicated landscape, and since I over think I like to consider what the other person is going through too.

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