BloodHawk1991 Posted July 26, 2019 Share Posted July 26, 2019 I found out Tuesday that I was adopted. Pretty much from birth. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cyberbully Posted July 26, 2019 Share Posted July 26, 2019 ......I'm....Sorry? Look, you are going to have to give me more context in order for me to fabricate feelings here. 1 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naraku4656 Posted July 26, 2019 Share Posted July 26, 2019 Aren't you in your late 20s? That's pretty late for your parents to tell you 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phillies Posted July 26, 2019 Share Posted July 26, 2019 We all have our issues son. I was born in a basement. I feel your pain. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
André Toulon Posted July 26, 2019 Share Posted July 26, 2019 1 hour ago, Naraku4656 said: Aren't you in your late 20s? That's pretty late for your parents to tell you Technically, he never said they told him....Many other possibilities here.....Like having sex with his blood sister, and she has the other half of a locket he's been carrying around since birth. 1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crackymckrackin Posted July 26, 2019 Share Posted July 26, 2019 54 minutes ago, Sho Minamimoto said: Technically, he never said they told him....Many other possibilities here.....Like having sex with his blood sister, and she has the other half of a locket he's been carrying around since birth. You ever thought about writing a manga? 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
André Toulon Posted July 26, 2019 Share Posted July 26, 2019 5 minutes ago, crackymckrackin said: You ever thought about writing a manga? Hentai....Hentai is what you're looking for in this jab. 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crackymckrackin Posted July 26, 2019 Share Posted July 26, 2019 5 minutes ago, Sho Minamimoto said: Hentai....Hentai is what you're looking for in this jab. It wasn't a jab really. It was an observation. I've seen anime that pretty closely mirrored this, without the incest. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
André Toulon Posted July 26, 2019 Share Posted July 26, 2019 1 minute ago, crackymckrackin said: It wasn't a jab really. It was an observation. I've seen anime that pretty closely mirrored this, without the incest. Then to answer the original question....Nope Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fuggstop Posted July 26, 2019 Share Posted July 26, 2019 such nasty people frequent here Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stilgar Posted July 26, 2019 Share Posted July 26, 2019 Yes, we are aware of your presence fuggs. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fuggstop Posted July 26, 2019 Share Posted July 26, 2019 (edited) i wouldnt honor them with a response either, blackhawk Edited July 26, 2019 by fuggstop Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bnmjy Posted July 26, 2019 Share Posted July 26, 2019 How does that make you feel? Does it really change anything? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Juice McKenzie Posted July 26, 2019 Share Posted July 26, 2019 1 hour ago, crackymckrackin said: It wasn't a jab really. It was an observation. I've seen anime that pretty closely mirrored this, without the incest. japan loves incest Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BloodHawk1991 Posted July 26, 2019 Author Share Posted July 26, 2019 9 hours ago, cyberbully said: ......I'm....Sorry? Look, you are going to have to give me more context in order for me to fabricate feelings here. It's fine, I finally just told my parents how I felt my entire life after not talking to them about anything really. That's when they finally decided to tell me. It's not a bad thing at all. I've just had it on my mind, because it's a big deal to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BloodHawk1991 Posted July 26, 2019 Author Share Posted July 26, 2019 4 hours ago, Naraku4656 said: Aren't you in your late 20s? That's pretty late for your parents to tell you Yeah, I wish they would have said something sooner. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BloodHawk1991 Posted July 26, 2019 Author Share Posted July 26, 2019 4 hours ago, Phillies said: We all have our issues son. I was born in a basement. I feel your pain. I mean mine isn't really pain, and I'm sorry? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BloodHawk1991 Posted July 26, 2019 Author Share Posted July 26, 2019 1 hour ago, bnmjy said: How does that make you feel? Does it really change anything? I still have a lot on my mind, but overall I'm fine with it. I know my biological mothers name, so if I want to I could try to meet her. It really doesn't change anything, it just gave me a lot to think about. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Age of S'jet Posted July 26, 2019 Share Posted July 26, 2019 17 minutes ago, BloodHawk1991 said: I still have a lot on my mind, but overall I'm fine with it. I know my biological mothers name, so if I want to I could try to meet her. It really doesn't change anything, it just gave me a lot to think about. Ive known I was since the moment I started speaking. I have no interest in meeting my birth parents. Don't let it consume you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katt_goddess Posted July 26, 2019 Share Posted July 26, 2019 That does seem like a lot to process. At least you had a feeling already so it's not like you stumbled on a family secret at a funeral. Your personal history just got bigger, that's all. It doesn't change who you really are because this is you now. Your history will continue to change all your life, you just ended up with an entire chapter in a single drop this time. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mix Posted July 26, 2019 Share Posted July 26, 2019 Parents are parents.....as long as they were good to you....it's doesn't matter 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Poof Posted July 26, 2019 Share Posted July 26, 2019 1 hour ago, BloodHawk1991 said: It's fine, I finally just told my parents how I felt my entire life after not talking to them about anything really. That's when they finally decided to tell me. It's not a bad thing at all. I've just had it on my mind, because it's a big deal to me. Why is it such a big deal? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
André Toulon Posted July 26, 2019 Share Posted July 26, 2019 3 hours ago, BloodHawk1991 said: It's fine, I finally just told my parents how I felt my entire life after not talking to them about anything really. That's when they finally decided to tell me. It's not a bad thing at all. I've just had it on my mind, because it's a big deal to me. Yay, emotional detachment for the win....Kind wish I could find out I was adopted so I could just associate with my kids and stop having to hear from my family every time a cousin farts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
André Toulon Posted July 26, 2019 Share Posted July 26, 2019 5 hours ago, stilgar said: Yes, we are aware of your presence fuggs. Who? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cidz Posted July 26, 2019 Share Posted July 26, 2019 Why did your parents never tell you? I was adopted since i was 2? anyways ive always known. it could be because i was adopted by a family memeber so i was still in contact with my birth mom and other relatives. anyways, guess it better late than never to find out... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stilgar Posted July 26, 2019 Share Posted July 26, 2019 20 minutes ago, Sho Minamimoto said: Who? Stilgar. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
André Toulon Posted July 26, 2019 Share Posted July 26, 2019 (edited) 26 minutes ago, stilgar said: Stilgar. Does he make a mean grilled cheese? I still have use for him if he can make a mean grilled cheese. Edited July 26, 2019 by Sho Minamimoto Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stilgar Posted July 26, 2019 Share Posted July 26, 2019 Yes, yes he can. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Juice McKenzie Posted July 26, 2019 Share Posted July 26, 2019 cool. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BloodHawk1991 Posted July 26, 2019 Author Share Posted July 26, 2019 5 hours ago, The_Hound said: Ive known I was since the moment I started speaking. I have no interest in meeting my birth parents. Don't let it consume you. I'm not, I do think it would be nice to see where I came from in the future at some point though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BloodHawk1991 Posted July 26, 2019 Author Share Posted July 26, 2019 4 hours ago, katt_goddess said: That does seem like a lot to process. At least you had a feeling already so it's not like you stumbled on a family secret at a funeral. Your personal history just got bigger, that's all. It doesn't change who you really are because this is you now. Your history will continue to change all your life, you just ended up with an entire chapter in a single drop this time. It doesn't change me, and it doesn't change who my family is, and like you said my person history got a lot bigger, and I'm currently more curious about where I came from more than anything else. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BloodHawk1991 Posted July 26, 2019 Author Share Posted July 26, 2019 4 hours ago, Mix said: Parents are parents.....as long as they were good to you....it's doesn't matter My family that I grew up with will always be my family no matter what happens. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BloodHawk1991 Posted July 26, 2019 Author Share Posted July 26, 2019 4 hours ago, Poof said: Why is it such a big deal? I have so much that I can learn about my biological family. I'm just a curious person in general. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BloodHawk1991 Posted July 26, 2019 Author Share Posted July 26, 2019 2 hours ago, Sho Minamimoto said: Yay, emotional detachment for the win....Kind wish I could find out I was adopted so I could just associate with my kids and stop having to hear from my family every time a cousin farts. Eh they're still my family, and I still love them, that won't really change for m. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BloodHawk1991 Posted July 26, 2019 Author Share Posted July 26, 2019 1 hour ago, Cidz said: Why did your parents never tell you? I was adopted since i was 2? anyways ive always known. it could be because i was adopted by a family memeber so i was still in contact with my birth mom and other relatives. anyways, guess it better late than never to find out... I'm not sure why they didn't tell me earlier, and I looked so much like my family, that when I told my girlfriend she was shocked, because of how much I look like everyone. Luck I guess there? I'm just glad to finally know honestly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Poof Posted July 26, 2019 Share Posted July 26, 2019 50 minutes ago, BloodHawk1991 said: I'm not sure why they didn't tell me earlier, and I looked so much like my family, that when I told my girlfriend she was shocked, because of how much I look like everyone. Luck I guess there? I'm just glad to finally know honestly. Then how did you suspect if you looked like them? What was it? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SwimModSponges Posted July 26, 2019 Share Posted July 26, 2019 You're an heir to the fortunes of an oil tycoon. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BloodHawk1991 Posted July 27, 2019 Author Share Posted July 27, 2019 1 hour ago, Poof said: Then how did you suspect if you looked like them? What was it? I didn't feel like I belonged in their family. It's still our family, but growing up I always felt like I was different in some way compared to the rest of my family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueraven1999 Posted July 27, 2019 Share Posted July 27, 2019 I remember you mentioning that on twitter. It's too bad they didn't tell you earlier. Hope you're doing okay. Have a nice weekend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StarPanda Posted July 27, 2019 Share Posted July 27, 2019 (edited) You are adopted which means you could be super hero man, dont matter how old you are. Edited July 27, 2019 by StarPanda Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BloodHawk1991 Posted July 27, 2019 Author Share Posted July 27, 2019 16 hours ago, blueraven1999 said: I remember you mentioning that on twitter. It's too bad they didn't tell you earlier. Hope you're doing okay. Have a nice weekend. Yeah, but hey I know now. I'm fine, and I hope you're having a nice weekend. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BloodHawk1991 Posted July 27, 2019 Author Share Posted July 27, 2019 15 hours ago, StarPanda said: You are adopted which means you could be super hero man, dont matter how old you are. I want this to be a thing please. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueraven1999 Posted July 27, 2019 Share Posted July 27, 2019 3 hours ago, BloodHawk1991 said: Yeah, but hey I know now. I'm fine, and I hope you're having a nice weekend. True. Thanks I'm having a nice weekend. Finally started on this season's anime and found a show I like a lot. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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