That_One_Guy Posted January 9, 2018 Share Posted January 9, 2018 I've been cheated on twice. Once during a long term relationship. Both times I had no problem telling her we were done. I've noticed some people will take a cheater back only to be cheated on again. I just can't understand it. If someone cheats on you I feel like there's no way to ever really get passed that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CAC Posted January 10, 2018 Share Posted January 10, 2018 I'd like to say i absolutely wouldn't, but I've yet to have my gf cheat on me that i know of. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
André Toulon Posted January 10, 2018 Share Posted January 10, 2018 1 hour ago, That_One_Guy said: I've been cheated on twice. Once during a long term relationship. Both times I had no problem telling her we were done. I've noticed some people will take a cheater back only to be cheated on again. I just can't understand it. If someone cheats on you I feel like there's no way to ever really get passed that. Only for revenge Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nameraka Posted January 10, 2018 Share Posted January 10, 2018 No. I broke up with a girl once because a guy gave her his number and she took it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katt_goddess Posted January 10, 2018 Share Posted January 10, 2018 Swamps can cure things like that. Just take them for a walk. And leave them there. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naraku4656 Posted January 10, 2018 Share Posted January 10, 2018 probably not, but i'm no saint either Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hornshire Posted January 10, 2018 Share Posted January 10, 2018 It depends. If said cheating was the end result of an underlying problem that could be addressed, reducing the likelihood cheating would happen again, there's a discussion to be had and We could be convinced. If it was simply just because they're a scummy person then We're finished. End of story. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zenigundam Posted January 10, 2018 Share Posted January 10, 2018 I dunno, depends on whether she gets a restraining order against me for chasing her around the living room 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Juice McKenzie Posted January 10, 2018 Share Posted January 10, 2018 Hard to say as I've never been in a relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EvilsergE Posted January 10, 2018 Share Posted January 10, 2018 Once a cheater, always a cheater. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GuyBeardmane Posted January 10, 2018 Share Posted January 10, 2018 Okay so here's what went through my mind. Long story short: caught my ex making dinner plans with dude via text while I was sitting right next to her, so ties were cut. I was hurt, betrayed, all that. So when ex got dumped by ol'boy I got a measure of revenge because she learned what it felt like. From then she and I had something in common. Because I felt empty and she fit perfectly into the spot she left in my life, I fell back with her and after that we were an on-again, off-again thing. Also she has AMAZING boobs, so I keep going back for that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tricolor Posted January 10, 2018 Share Posted January 10, 2018 It depends on how hot the person they cheated on me with is.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrigunBebop Posted January 10, 2018 Share Posted January 10, 2018 Nope. Unless I was in an open relationship, because it wouldn't be cheating then. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Poof Posted January 10, 2018 Share Posted January 10, 2018 Yea it never bothers me as long as they don’t bring any diseases back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DragonSinger Posted January 10, 2018 Share Posted January 10, 2018 Hard motherfucking no. It takes a lot for me to even get into a relationship and like with friends, I only get with people I trust. If someone breaks that trust they are gone, and at the beginning of going out, I let the other person know that if they feel the need to cheat, they should just be honest and break up with me. I was raised in the era of Lisa "Left Eye" Lopes, and I will not tolerate that shit. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Still Me Posted January 10, 2018 Share Posted January 10, 2018 17 hours ago, That_One_Guy said: I've been cheated on twice. Once during a long term relationship. Both times I had no problem telling her we were done. I've noticed some people will take a cheater back only to be cheated on again. I just can't understand it. If someone cheats on you I feel like there's no way to ever really get passed that. Nope Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wacky1980 Posted January 10, 2018 Share Posted January 10, 2018 there was one time in college where i was seeing a girl and i thought it was an exclusive thing, but she apparently did not. so that was that. also, i was in an on-again off-again thing several years ago. during one of our off-again stretches, we both slept with other people. it came out when we were back on-again, and it was enough to make things kinda fucked. so that was that. i've never cheated, and i won't knowingly accept someone who has. even if it wasn't against me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
death_by_motorboat Posted January 10, 2018 Share Posted January 10, 2018 20 hours ago, That_One_Guy said: I've been cheated on twice. Once during a long term relationship. Both times I had no problem telling her we were done. I've noticed some people will take a cheater back only to be cheated on again. I just can't understand it. If someone cheats on you I feel like there's no way to ever really get passed that. fuck no i kicked her dirty ass out for having a phone number i didnt recognize and she couldnt explain Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted January 10, 2018 Share Posted January 10, 2018 I've never been cheated on, so I couldn't say. Guys are more likely to contribute to having their partner cheat on them on account of the balance of power in the relationship, but even then it's usually impossible to regain the level of trust needed for a relationship to thrive after the trust is broken. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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