ghostrek Posted Saturday at 04:08 PM Posted Saturday at 04:08 PM ok there coffe shop where i workd this girl there keep on locking at me but 20 year gap and nices and nephews older her my oldst nephew is few younger than me ? Is it creepy? 1 Quote
mthor Posted Saturday at 04:55 PM Posted Saturday at 04:55 PM (edited) What? Edited Saturday at 04:58 PM by mthor I honestly can't understand what you're asking. Please rephrase and try again. 3 Quote
Raptorpat Posted Saturday at 04:59 PM Posted Saturday at 04:59 PM 50 minutes ago, ghostrek said: but 20 year gap yes 3 Quote
mthor Posted Saturday at 05:01 PM Posted Saturday at 05:01 PM 1 minute ago, Raptorpat said: yes The way it reads, I'm not sure where the 20 year age gap is. 1 Quote
Raptorpat Posted Saturday at 05:06 PM Posted Saturday at 05:06 PM that was the only string of words I understood 2 Quote
André Toulon Posted Saturday at 05:11 PM Posted Saturday at 05:11 PM I like the 0 accountability. *Dastardly young harlot....looking at ghostrek.* GT: Soooo. smash or pass😆 Look dude, based on the information I think you've given us...You say you're 40. a 20 year gap, I have to assume, means shes 20....Even if these numbers are exact, you are walking a really weird line for what I would have to believe is your pursuit of a sexual relationship. That said, I have no advice, I've given you plenty and you've given me excuses in return...just know I wait for the next arc with bated breath. 1 1 Quote
mthor Posted Saturday at 05:15 PM Posted Saturday at 05:15 PM 3 minutes ago, André Toulon said: I like the 0 accountability. *Dastardly young harlot....looking at ghostrek.* GT: Soooo. smash or pass😆 Look dude, based on the information I think you've given us...You say you're 40. a 20 year gap, I have to assume, means shes 20....Even if these numbers are exact, you are walking a really weird line for what I would have to believe is your pursuit of a sexual relationship. That said, I have no advice, I've given you plenty and you've given me excuses in return...just know I wait for the next arc with bated breath. Don't be ageist. She might be 60. 2 3 Quote
André Toulon Posted Saturday at 05:27 PM Posted Saturday at 05:27 PM 11 minutes ago, mthor said: Don't be ageist. She might be 60. I know none of us want to admit it, but I have become quite adept at reading his posts. 3 Quote
André Toulon Posted Saturday at 05:27 PM Posted Saturday at 05:27 PM (edited) 17 minutes ago, discolé monade said: lol jake paul you rang? Edited Saturday at 05:31 PM by André Toulon 4 Quote
André Toulon Posted Saturday at 05:28 PM Posted Saturday at 05:28 PM (edited) Edited Saturday at 05:32 PM by André Toulon 1 4 Quote
André Toulon Posted Saturday at 05:30 PM Posted Saturday at 05:30 PM Welp, Thats my critical board failure for today. All of my snark has turned to ash because I somehow no longer can do the thing I've been doing habitually for 2 decades 1 2 Quote
stilgar Posted Saturday at 07:25 PM Posted Saturday at 07:25 PM 3 hours ago, ghostrek said: ok there coffe shop where i workd this girl there keep on locking at me but 20 year gap and nices and nephews older her my oldst nephew is few younger than me ? Is it creepy? Is a coffee shop creepy? 6 Quote
Insipid Posted Saturday at 09:54 PM Posted Saturday at 09:54 PM What are you gonna talk about? "Wow, your calculus homework sounds very hard, just like my ding dong when I see you. 5 Quote
PenguinBoss Posted Saturday at 10:59 PM Posted Saturday at 10:59 PM 1 hour ago, Insipid said: What are you gonna talk about? "Wow, your calculus homework sounds very hard, just like my ding dong when I see you. My guess would be trains. 4 Quote
stilgar Posted Saturday at 11:38 PM Posted Saturday at 11:38 PM 38 minutes ago, PenguinBoss said: My guess would be trains. No, Godzila. 5 Quote
scoobdog Posted yesterday at 07:03 PM Posted yesterday at 07:03 PM On 12/20/2025 at 8:08 AM, ghostrek said: ok there coffe shop where i workd this girl there keep on locking at me but 20 year gap and nices and nephews older her my oldst nephew is few younger than me ? Is it creepy? Ima be serious. Yes, it is a real problem dating someone that’s half your age. You’re not going to have much in common. That being said, you’re interpreting those looks that way because you’re experiencing regret for not being someone who could be in a relationship with her. The fact you’re gauging her against nieces and nephews is less about you actually thinking about her in a romantic way and more about you looking at her as a reflection of what you think you could have been 20 years ago. You’re using a (probably) innocent glance to beat yourself up. Quote
ghostrek Posted 19 hours ago Author Posted 19 hours ago 7 hours ago, scoobdog said: Ima be serious. Yes, it is a real problem dating someone that’s half your age. You’re not going to have much in common. That being said, you’re interpreting those looks that way because you’re experiencing regret for not being someone who could be in a relationship with her. The fact you’re gauging her against nieces and nephews is less about you actually thinking about her in a romantic way and more about you looking at her as a reflection of what you think you could have been 20 years ago. You’re using a (probably) innocent glance to beat yourself up. ok Quote
André Toulon Posted 19 hours ago Posted 19 hours ago its not even in response to me, but how do you make 2 letters just seem so disrespectful 😆 3 2 Quote
1pooh4u Posted 19 hours ago Posted 19 hours ago Depends if you’re in your 30s and it’s a 20yr gap of her being younger, that’s weird. If you’re in your 40s somewhere and she in her 20s, still weird but you don’t strike me as a super mature guy. Ask her wtf she’s looking at? Ask her “do I got an eye booger or something. Why you looking at me?” trust me. Do it. 1 Quote
ghostrek Posted 19 hours ago Author Posted 19 hours ago 32 minutes ago, 1pooh4u said: Depends if you’re in your 30s and it’s a 20yr gap of her being younger, that’s weird. If you’re in your 40s somewhere and she in her 20s, still weird but you don’t strike me as a super mature guy. Ask her wtf she’s looking at? Ask her “do I got an eye booger or something. Why you looking at me?” trust me. Do it. ok 2 Quote
Raptorpat Posted 18 hours ago Posted 18 hours ago Are you looking for validation or are you looking for honest answers? 4 Quote
ghostrek Posted 18 hours ago Author Posted 18 hours ago 1 minute ago, Raptorpat said: Are you looking for validation or are you looking for honest answers? honest answers Quote
Raptorpat Posted 18 hours ago Posted 18 hours ago No cute 20-something is looking at anyone within our age range in that way. Whether we got to experience it or not, we are all old and far removed from the era of life that involves cute 20-somethings. If she is looking at you, it may be for one of a million reasons but that is not one of them. 1 4 1 Quote
1pooh4u Posted 18 hours ago Posted 18 hours ago 44 minutes ago, ghostrek said: ok You’re a real piece of 💩, you know that? 😆 7 Quote
1pooh4u Posted 18 hours ago Posted 18 hours ago 29 minutes ago, Raptorpat said: No cute 20-something is looking at anyone within our age range in that way. Whether we got to experience it or not, we are all old and far removed from the era of life that involves cute 20-somethings. If she is looking at you, it may be for one of a million reasons but that is not one of them. Ok 🙃 2 4 Quote
scoobdog Posted 13 hours ago Posted 13 hours ago 5 hours ago, Raptorpat said: No cute 20-something is looking at anyone within our age range in that way. Whether we got to experience it or not, we are all old and far removed from the era of life that involves cute 20-somethings. If she is looking at you, it may be for one of a million reasons but that is not one of them. O 1 3 Quote
scoobdog Posted 13 hours ago Posted 13 hours ago Sorry Pat, I was too lazy to be properly disrespectful. 1 1 2 Quote
discolé monade Posted 6 hours ago Posted 6 hours ago i love a rainy night, i love a rainy night, da da dadada da da.... something something something, i love a rainy night. 4 Quote
naraku360 Posted 5 hours ago Posted 5 hours ago On 12/20/2025 at 9:27 AM, André Toulon said: you rang? 3 Quote
Chappi Posted 3 hours ago Posted 3 hours ago You may have to ask yourself if it would be a huge problem if you find out her mom is closer to your age and equally hot. Would having a hot potential stepmom complicate things further? 3 Quote
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