PhilosipherStoned Posted April 28, 2020 Share Posted April 28, 2020 (edited) That girl I was talking about that hit me up on facebook just decided to tell me she's pregnant. She's still trying to get together with me. We actually just exchanged numbers but she kind of put that out a lil last minute saying "not sure if this changes anything with us "hanging out" but I'm two months expecting.. " I mean pregnancy is a REAL game changer, but I have dated women with kids, and ex husbands before it's not like it's out of the ordinary really. That's a pretty big bombshell to drop so I understand that she probably didn't want to say anything until she was sure we were going to date or something. She sent flirty messages to me last night hinting at us being together alone then pretty much immediately follows with "oh by the way not sure if this changes anything or not, but I'm two months expecting." I'd be lying if I wasn't having some second thoughts, but this explains why she's been going back in forth with us actually meeting. I think she might have just found out she was pregnant about the same time she reached out to me. Edited April 28, 2020 by PhilosipherStoned Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GuyBeardmane Posted April 28, 2020 Share Posted April 28, 2020 I would, but only because I'm typically only good for two dates before women decide I'm not what they're into. Otherwise I'd say no, because the whole thing about women with kids is just too much baggage for me. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ultima Posted April 28, 2020 Share Posted April 28, 2020 Only if I was the one who got her pregnant. Otherwise, no way. It'll only infuriate me every time I see her belly. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naraku4656 Posted April 28, 2020 Share Posted April 28, 2020 no Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted April 28, 2020 Author Share Posted April 28, 2020 I've never dated anybody that was actually pregnant. I've dated people that have kids...and baby daddies.. but this is whole diff story in a way. I'm not sure how to feel about it lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted April 28, 2020 Author Share Posted April 28, 2020 (edited) 35 minutes ago, GuyBeardmane said: I would, but only because I'm typically only good for two dates before women decide I'm not what they're into. Otherwise I'd say no, because the whole thing about women with kids is just too much baggage for me. I mean there's no harm in meeting her I think, but I do feel kind of the same way. Not my first rodeo with baby daddies, chicks with clingy ex-husbands and all that.. It is a lot of baggage. This may not go passed a few dates like you said anyway though. Edited April 28, 2020 by PhilosipherStoned Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bouvre Posted April 28, 2020 Share Posted April 28, 2020 (edited) I think I could date somebody who was pregnant. There's a lot of care and consideration to be had regarding their well-being (what you cook for them, what they drink, what's the plan for getting them to the hospital, stillbirths are common, postpartum depression, etc). I don't think it means I'm indebted to become the kid's parent if I'm still dating them by the time the child's born, though I'd imagine helping out with basic childcare, and if things got serious, then I'd be a parent. Edited April 28, 2020 by Bouvre 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bnmjy Posted April 28, 2020 Share Posted April 28, 2020 you need to date fuggs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vamped Posted April 28, 2020 Share Posted April 28, 2020 It really depends, but my perspective is unique. I know I wasnt trying to date anyone when I was pregnant because I felt like that was alot to put on someone especially someone you dont have history with. Plus I was working fulltime and going to school fulltime so I didnt have time. If I was a single man in my 20s I definitely wouldn't. Being the person I am now ... I wouldn't be opposed to trying and engaging in a serious relationship if things went well. Being pregnant and having a baby by yourself is not easy. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tsar4 Posted April 28, 2020 Share Posted April 28, 2020 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vamped Posted April 28, 2020 Share Posted April 28, 2020 >.> But I have heard the preggy sex is the bomb dot com 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted April 28, 2020 Author Share Posted April 28, 2020 6 minutes ago, Vamped said: It really depends, but my perspective is unique. I know I wasnt trying to date anyone when I was pregnant because I felt like that was alot to put on someone especially someone you dont have history with. Plus I was working fulltime and going to school fulltime so I didnt have time. If I was a single man in my 20s I definitely wouldn't. Being the person I am now ... I wouldn't be opposed to trying and engaging in a serious relationship if things went well. Being pregnant and having a baby by yourself is not easy. I'm still trying to get a sense of how smart or.. collected she is as a person. I actually dated someone that had like 2 kids one time, but she took care of her business, and I pretty much never saw her kids even when I was at her place. I had a lot of respect for her for that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sawdamizer Posted April 28, 2020 Share Posted April 28, 2020 Ew, smashing something that another penis was in? Miss me with that shit. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vamped Posted April 28, 2020 Share Posted April 28, 2020 2 minutes ago, PhilosipherStoned said: I'm still trying to get a sense of how smart or.. collected she is as a person. I actually dated someone that had like 2 kids one time, but she took care of her business, and I pretty much never saw her kids even when I was at her place. I had a lot of respect for her for that. Dating a childless pregnant woman and a single mother with 2 kids is different. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted April 28, 2020 Author Share Posted April 28, 2020 (edited) 3 minutes ago, Vamped said: Dating a childless pregnant woman and a single mother with 2 kids is different. You are right, but this chick wont be childless for long.. The one I dated with two kids I was in the army with though.. Not your typical single mother either. Edited April 28, 2020 by PhilosipherStoned Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vamped Posted April 28, 2020 Share Posted April 28, 2020 2 minutes ago, Sawdamizer said: Ew, smashing something that another penis was in? Miss me with that shit. You could deliver all the jizz and not worry about getting her pregnant though because ITS TOO LATE 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted April 28, 2020 Author Share Posted April 28, 2020 Just now, Vamped said: You could deliver all the jizz and not worry about getting her pregnant though because ITS TOO LATE Yes lets weigh the pros, and cons. 😝 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vamped Posted April 28, 2020 Share Posted April 28, 2020 2 minutes ago, PhilosipherStoned said: You are right, but this chick wont be childless for long.. Duh. What Im saying is that single mom with the 2 kids has adjusted. Its not the same for someone who hasnt been through pregnancy, birth, and then having a kid. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted April 28, 2020 Author Share Posted April 28, 2020 I know... Knowing that is the only reason I'm having second thoughts about trying for a relationship or whatever.. Not sure how mature this girl is. She's about 3 years younger than me, and we went to the same high school, but I don't even remember her from back then. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vamped Posted April 28, 2020 Share Posted April 28, 2020 1 minute ago, PhilosipherStoned said: I know... Knowing that is the only reason I'm having second thoughts about trying for a relationship or whatever.. Not sure how mature this girl is. She's about 3 years younger than me, and we went to the same high school, but I don't even remember her from back then. Then pass Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted April 28, 2020 Author Share Posted April 28, 2020 but I mean.. I feel like she deserves the benefit of the doubt until I get to know her a bit more personally of course anyway. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted April 28, 2020 Author Share Posted April 28, 2020 Just now, Vamped said: Then pass Nothing ventured nothing gained as they say.. I'm a straight forward kind of guy so I'll just friggin end it if I feel it's not worth it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sawdamizer Posted April 28, 2020 Share Posted April 28, 2020 Preggo girls are horny as fuck tho... so maybe smash, and pass.... skin on skin too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted April 28, 2020 Author Share Posted April 28, 2020 She's only two months in as of now if I understood that right. She does seem horny though.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StarPanda Posted April 28, 2020 Share Posted April 28, 2020 Runaway She might want the d but she might also want to get you caught up, but if she just wants the d just give it out Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
molarbear Posted April 28, 2020 Share Posted April 28, 2020 That's a lot of hormones to deal with -Molar's input Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted April 28, 2020 Author Share Posted April 28, 2020 23 minutes ago, molarbear said: That's a lot of hormones to deal with -Molar's input Meh. That's women in general if you ask me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted April 28, 2020 Author Share Posted April 28, 2020 26 minutes ago, StarPanda said: Runaway She might want the d but she might also want to get you caught up, but if she just wants the d just give it out It's hard to say she's been light flirting for the most part..A little sexual stuff, but just kind of in the moment stuff. I'm not trying to become a step daddy in a week or some shit.. or a father myself atm, but I've been around. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crackymckrackin Posted April 28, 2020 Share Posted April 28, 2020 This all screams hard pass. She could also be lying and trying to get pregnant to trap some poor bastard. Getting your dick wet just isn't worth either. Tell her to look you up after the kid is a year old. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Opium Posted April 28, 2020 Share Posted April 28, 2020 Depends on how relevant the guy who knocked her up is and if she’s really hot enough to sell your youth and soul for. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vamped Posted April 30, 2020 Share Posted April 30, 2020 On 4/28/2020 at 5:13 PM, PhilosipherStoned said: It's hard to say she's been light flirting for the most part..A little sexual stuff, but just kind of in the moment stuff. I'm not trying to become a step daddy in a week or some shit.. or a father myself atm, but I've been around. You've been around? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cyberbully Posted April 30, 2020 Share Posted April 30, 2020 I feel like people make problems out of gold mines. Ovbiously, at just 2 months, she's not trying to step daddy you.....In fact, your only question should be is how involved/crazy is the daddy. That would be my only concern. Other than that, you got a horny girl who's obviously putting, can't get pregnant out and if she passes the cleanliness test, I can't see anything other than green pastures. No of course she could be crazypants and be grooming you for step daddy, but you just tell her from jum that you're not filling that role. I woulf bust so many nuts in here and sleep well knowing nothing woulf come of it. Oh, also make sure she;s pregnant and not just making it seem like her uterus is seed country. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted April 30, 2020 Author Share Posted April 30, 2020 Just realized how short this chick is when she asked for a kiss before she left earlier.. I also found out she has two kids already oldest is 5. She came to my house at like the last minute today. She's thinking business will open back up friday so we can go out to eat somewhere, but I'm not too sure. Also she seems suspiciously in to me.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ric Posted April 30, 2020 Share Posted April 30, 2020 Nah once I impregnate em' I'm out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sawdamizer Posted April 30, 2020 Share Posted April 30, 2020 49 minutes ago, Ric said: Nah once I impregnate em' I'm out. That's deep man. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ric Posted April 30, 2020 Share Posted April 30, 2020 14 minutes ago, Sawdamizer said: That's deep man. Not that deep, I wish I was hung like @ghostrek Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sawdamizer Posted April 30, 2020 Share Posted April 30, 2020 14 minutes ago, Ric said: Not that deep, I wish I was hung like @ghostrek aY0fzKS.mp4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted April 30, 2020 Share Posted April 30, 2020 3 hours ago, Ric said: Not that deep, I wish I was hung like @ghostrek well I'm going to tell you the first priority is the kid no matter if they are born or not born 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UwP Posted April 30, 2020 Share Posted April 30, 2020 On 4/28/2020 at 3:15 PM, PhilosipherStoned said: That girl I was talking about that hit me up on facebook just decided to tell me she's pregnant. She's still trying to get together with me. We actually just exchanged numbers but she kind of put that out a lil last minute saying "not sure if this changes anything with us "hanging out" but I'm two months expecting.. " I mean pregnancy is a REAL game changer, but I have dated women with kids, and ex husbands before it's not like it's out of the ordinary really. That's a pretty big bombshell to drop so I understand that she probably didn't want to say anything until she was sure we were going to date or something. She sent flirty messages to me last night hinting at us being together alone then pretty much immediately follows with "oh by the way not sure if this changes anything or not, but I'm two months expecting." I'd be lying if I wasn't having some second thoughts, but this explains why she's been going back in forth with us actually meeting. I think she might have just found out she was pregnant about the same time she reached out to me. Nope. Just like I wouldn't date anyone that was like OH BTW I HAS BBY MOMMA. SHE'S GONNA POP SOON. Gtfo. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted April 30, 2020 Author Share Posted April 30, 2020 3 hours ago, UnDeRwOrlDpRiNcEsS said: Nope. Just like I wouldn't date anyone that was like OH BTW I HAS BBY MOMMA. SHE'S GONNA POP SOON. Gtfo. Yeah she's already trying to get in my pants honestly.. There's multiple red flags, but I'm a big boy. I'll get to know her a little bit at least before I "run" or whatever.. She seems cool honestly all things aside. At least she hasn't really lied to me at all. I've had a lot of women completely omit a lot of the facts she's told me until I found out myself in a relationship.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted April 30, 2020 Author Share Posted April 30, 2020 7 hours ago, ghostrek said: well I'm going to tell you the first priority is the kid no matter if they are born or not born It's a lot to think about.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vamped Posted April 30, 2020 Share Posted April 30, 2020 11 hours ago, Ric said: Not that deep, I wish I was hung like @ghostrek 7 hours ago, ghostrek said: well I'm going to tell you the first priority is the kid no matter if they are born or not born I HATE the way I initially interpreted this XD 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sawdamizer Posted April 30, 2020 Share Posted April 30, 2020 9 minutes ago, Vamped said: I HATE the way I initially interpreted this XD I read it as an abortion 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UwP Posted April 30, 2020 Share Posted April 30, 2020 47 minutes ago, PhilosipherStoned said: Yeah she's already trying to get in my pants honestly.. There's multiple red flags, but I'm a big boy. I'll get to know her a little bit at least before I "run" or whatever.. She seems cool honestly all things aside. At least she hasn't really lied to me at all. I've had a lot of women completely omit a lot of the facts she's told me until I found out myself in a relationship.. There's always friendship. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted April 30, 2020 Author Share Posted April 30, 2020 2 minutes ago, UnDeRwOrlDpRiNcEsS said: There's always friendship. Yeah. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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