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Like we were separated for awhile but today I got the last of my things from his place, I got off his phone plan and were both officially single. Thank god it was so amicable, cause I really do wish him the best, we just both grew into different people than we first met.

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3 minutes ago, jackiemarie90 said:

I can't sees meme, but I'm not really upset by it. Kinda relieved if anything. 

Who gets us in the divorce?

 

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1 minute ago, Mix said:

Who gets us in the divorce?

 

Both? He gets majority of my comicbooks, the ps4, the picture with Stan Lee, and a Stan Lee signed comicbook. Honestly, we are both fine with it, we used to fight a lot when we were together and we both are so much healthier being separated. We did learn a lot from each other, and we'll probably send each other memes on instagram still, just want to date other people now.

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4 minutes ago, jackiemarie90 said:

Both? He gets majority of my comicbooks, the ps4, the picture with Stan Lee, and a Stan Lee signed comicbook. Honestly, we are both fine with it, we used to fight a lot when we were together and we both are so much healthier being separated. We did learn a lot from each other, and we'll probably send each other memes on instagram still, just want to date other people now.

Look at you guys being adults and ish

'course that takes the fun out of it

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2 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said:

that's pretty sad but understandable. you two were together for like what 7 years or something?

8, but we really should have stopped at 5. We kept trying to push the relationship many times, I know I felt overwhelmed trying upkeep something that wasn't working. But I don't see it as sad, we are both heading into our 30s, and I think we learned a lot from each other.

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Tbh, kinda something I feel like I'm struggling with just trying to break into dating. Everyone's always seeming like they're looking for their "forever." "Someone to spend my life with." Etc. Life is a long time, yo. Ain't no telling who I'm going to be in a few years. I'm looking for right now. Maybe it'll last a while. Maybe it won't. Just enjoy what you get while you got it. Live life in shorter bursts. Live multiple lives in one lifetime.

Meh. Life sucks. It's unpredictable. I get wanting stability and comfort and routine and all that. But, we've all got room to grow into someone new.

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13 minutes ago, rpgamer said:

Tbh, kinda something I feel like I'm struggling with just trying to break into dating. Everyone's always seeming like they're looking for their "forever." "Someone to spend my life with." Etc. Life is a long time, yo. Ain't no telling who I'm going to be in a few years. I'm looking for right now. Maybe it'll last a while. Maybe it won't. Just enjoy what you get while you got it. Live life in shorter bursts. Live multiple lives in one lifetime.

Meh. Life sucks. It's unpredictable. I get wanting stability and comfort and routine and all that. But, we've all got room to grow into someone new.

Well that's everyone else's jam. I don't like causal dating here at school either, so it just depends on the person really.

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5 minutes ago, InsaneFox said:

Yeah. It’s nice when the split ends well. Makes it easier to move on, I hear.

Pretty much. I even told him if he needed advice he could ask and that he should upgrade and get himself a big tiddy gf.

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1 minute ago, jackiemarie90 said:

Pretty much. I even told him if he needed advice he could ask and that he should upgrade and get himself a big tiddy gf.

That’s presumptuous to assume that titty size = an upgrade. Small titty girls are just fine too.

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3 minutes ago, InsaneFox said:

That’s presumptuous to assume that titty size = an upgrade. Small titty girls are just fine too.

Well I think I'm just trying to find the brightside for both of us out of the situation. lol

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7 minutes ago, jackiemarie90 said:

Well that's everyone else's jam. I don't like causal dating here at school either, so it just depends on the person really.

Short term doesn't have to be "casual." I'm still looking for something with substance. But I also know I'll probably move again in a few years for career advancement, , and there's no telling if any potential relationship will be able to uproot the way I do.

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Well I think I'm just trying to find the brightside for both of us out of the situation. lol

Eh, only worry about the bright side of yourself, is what I would say if my opinion mattered.

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2 minutes ago, rpgamer said:

Short term doesn't have to be "casual." I'm still looking for something with substance. But I also know I'll probably move again in a few years for career advancement, , and there's no telling if any potential relationship will be able to uproot the way I do.

Well that's a lot of stipulations

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2 minutes ago, InsaneFox said:

Eh, only worry about the bright side of yourself, is what I would say if my opinion mattered.

Well now I'm single on campus with a bunch of other single people >__>

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22 minutes ago, That_One_Guy said:

Very sorry for your split

 

and the inevitable fact that mad thirsty ass dudes are about to blow up your inbox

talkin bout "uuuuh hey lol just uhh wanted to see how you doin lol. You uhh you too pretty to be sad lol"

"lol why you ignore? LOL"

"LOL"

"You make me sad :( please respond"

"BITCH"

"EAT SHIT DIE HORE"

*dick pic*

"I'm sorry. I have cancer"

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Just now, That_One_Guy said:

talkin bout "uuuuh hey lol just uhh wanted to see how you doin lol. You uhh you too pretty to be sad lol"

"lol why you ignore? LOL"

"LOL"

"You make me sad :( please respond"

"BITCH"

"EAT SHIT DIE HORE"

*dick pic*

"I'm sorry. I have cancer"

Those the 8 stages of Fuckboy?

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do people here really still make actual passes at each other? i'd figure regularly talking to each other for 15ish years would damper any sort of desire. "BABY I LOVE YOU" yeah but your post from 2006 CLEARLY STATES

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1 minute ago, Naraku4656 said:

do people here really still make actual passes at each other? i'd figure regularly talking to each other for 15ish years would damper any sort of desire. "BABY I LOVE YOU" yeah but your post from 2006 CLEARLY STATES

Apparently they do. I couldn’t handle a long distance relationship, so I don’t quite get it myself, but some people are more comfortable forming a deeper bond with people they feel they “know.”

I put that in quotes, because we’re all a touch or two off from our online personas.

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3 hours ago, jackiemarie90 said:

Like we were separated for awhile but today I got the last of my things from his place, I got off his phone plan and were both officially single. Thank god it was so amicable, cause I really do wish him the best, we just both grew into different people than we first met.

You just announced you were single to an online message board

There are people here that no Divine Being of any Holiness can protect your inbox from unsolicited Dicks

 

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3 minutes ago, molarbear said:

You just announced you were single to an online message board

There are people here that no Divine Being of any Holiness can protect your inbox from unsolicited Dicks

 

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13 hours ago, That_One_Guy said:

talkin bout "uuuuh hey lol just uhh wanted to see how you doin lol. You uhh you too pretty to be sad lol"

"lol why you ignore? LOL"

"LOL"

"You make me sad :( please respond"

"BITCH"

"EAT SHIT DIE HORE"

*dick pic*

"I'm sorry. I have cancer"

Lol! Makes me think of this 😂

 

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23 minutes ago, renjifan said:

Also, sorry to hear of your split, but sounds like it was for the best. If you’re both happier, I’m happy for you ☺️

Personally I'm still not ready to accept this....I mean they've been a thing since I remember so I'm hoping it's just an elaborate troll.

I mean it probably isn't, but I can have hope. 

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10 minutes ago, Sho Minamimoto said:

Personally I'm still not ready to accept this....I mean they've been a thing since I remember so I'm hoping it's just an elaborate troll.

I mean it probably isn't, but I can have hope. 

There is just so much people don't see because people are pressured to use social media to only show off the rose colored parts of life. People aren't allowed to complain because then we are treating this place like a blog or whatever. Or in my case, I really don't want to dump on Eldy, I never really have ever wanted to. He is a really nice guy, it's just we could never work. We both expected and wanted different things, and it doesn't help that my depression and anxiety make me a shit partner as well. Idk, I feel like I complain more than I troll. lol

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16 hours ago, jackiemarie90 said:

Like we were separated for awhile but today I got the last of my things from his place, I got off his phone plan and were both officially single. Thank god it was so amicable, cause I really do wish him the best, we just both grew into different people than we first met.

It's good that you guys handled this like adults. I was kinda wondering about this when you made that first post about how things were going at school and there wasn't any of that, "I really miss so-and-so and wish I could be with them right now," you see from folks who are in committed relationships going through trouble while long distance from each other. 

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Just now, SorceressPol said:

It's good that you guys handled this like adults. I was kinda wondering about this when you made that first post about how things were going at school and there wasn't any of that, "I really miss so-and-so and wish I could be with them right now," you see from folks who are in committed relationships going through trouble while long distance from each other. 

It just puts me in a more unstable position at school, part of my stress and depression here. Plus I've never fully been on my own paying rent like I do now. But I think it's better to try and work on myself than leech off of someone who deserves better. Plus we have different goals and wants. And this place does give a ton of resources to better myself, and I should be grateful for that.

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