i think people marry just to say they married

[fuggnificent]

and dont marry who they REALLY want to marry

[AnimationFan14]

Plus for those swingers parties 

[Cau]

  On 12/29/2017 at 1:37 AM, AnimationFan14 said:

Plus for those swingers parties 

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That's why my wedding gift is always a big bowl for keys

[AnimationFan14]

  On 12/29/2017 at 1:42 AM, Cau said:

That's why my wedding gift is always a big bowl for keys

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Thanks for the swinging party, and here are your keys Tammy, and don’t forget yours John 

[fuggnificent]

i dont think black people swing. they just cheat like normal.

[nameraka]

i think everyone does or doesn't do it for different reasons and you're projecting. 

[Doom Metal Alchemist]

A lot of people "settle." Probably less so for just being able to say they are married and more so they are desperate for a life-time companion.

[Sieg67]

I think there are a few reasons why people get married.

1. They actually want to be with somebody forever. 
Now I never understood why people need to get married for this.  They can be together regardless.  Divorce is always an option so you can't claim that it's commitment.

2. Being pressured. 
The pressure could come from peers, parents or even the significant other.   Getting married because somebody else wants you too is a really bad idea.

3. Just to check it off of their to do list.
Some people think you have to do certain things in life.  Things like always aiming for a higher job position, owning your own house, having kids and yes, getting married.  This has been ingrained in us since birth and is expected of us.  Some people don't consider that you don't have to follow this path to be content with your life.   

4. To get a Green Card. 
Nothing to add here.

5. Desperation.
Some people just can't handle being alone and are willing to settle with anyone.  They'll fool themselves into thinking they actually love somebody and are willing to go through hell just to keep them.  This will lead to a toxic relationship.

6.A project. 
This is more of a relationship thing but I'll include this anyway.  I noticed that women in particular will pick what you can call a bad boy and try to mold him into something she approves of.  After a while they'll realize that their partner will never change and will move onto the next guy.

Edited December 29, 2017 by Sieg67

[fuggnificent]

people who are never happy in life always chasing some unattainable dream hook up with someone their friends and family approve of who is just as fake and unhappy as them

[André Toulon]

  On 12/29/2017 at 2:42 AM, nameraka said:

i think everyone does or doesn't do it for different reasons and you're projecting. 

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Cognitive dissonance, the thread

[Poof]

  On 12/29/2017 at 1:56 AM, fuggnificent said:

i dont think black people swing. they just cheat like normal.

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They sure do swing fuggie. 

[AnimationFan14]

  On 12/29/2017 at 7:56 AM, Poof said:

They sure do swing fuggie. 

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Helicopter dick 

[Poof]

  On 12/29/2017 at 8:14 AM, AnimationFan14 said:

Helicopter dick 

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SILENCE! I WILL NOT TOLERATE YOUR INSOLENCE

[Vodkajellyshot]

  On 12/29/2017 at 1:33 AM, fuggnificent said:

and dont marry who they REALLY want to marry

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i do not think this..

[TrigunBebop]

Luckily I don't have to worry about the whole marriage thing.

Balloons can't get married.

[fuggnificent]

  On 12/29/2017 at 3:44 PM, TrigunBebop said:

Luckily I don't have to worry about the whole marriage thing.

Balloons can't get married.

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holy shit is it really you?

[TrigunBebop]

  On 12/29/2017 at 4:00 PM, fuggnificent said:

holy shit is it really you?

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MEBBEH >.> <.<

[fuggnificent]

  On 12/29/2017 at 4:13 PM, TrigunBebop said:

MEBBEH >.> <.<

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i dun believe it

lol

welcome back dood!

[Vamped]

some people probably 

[TrigunBebop]

  On 12/29/2017 at 6:13 PM, fuggnificent said:

i dun believe it

lol

welcome back dood!

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It's good to be back. :3

[Vamped]

  On 12/29/2017 at 1:56 AM, fuggnificent said:

i dont think black people swing. they just cheat like normal.

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I think I'd swing ... but then I dunno if I'd get married though 

[Bouvre]

I definitely married somebody I wanted to marry,
though "priority housing" was one of the main reasons why I asked him, very unceremoniously
to marry me while we sat half-naked watching Netflix.

[lupin_bebop]

Maybe in your world. That's how your daughter happened. You fuck just to say you fuck. Then, you get knocked up, and blame it on males. Too bad it's your bed. It takes two to tango.

So, no. People marry because they love each other, mostly. Something you'll never understand.

[fuggnificent]

i like that somone who has been shacking up for a decade is trying to tell me abt marriage

[lupin_bebop]

And what relationship do you have with your daughter and mom? Yeah.....that's what I thought.

At least we have more in common with each other than the fact we came from each other's vaginas. 

[PhilosipherStoned]

derrrrrpp. 

[bnmjy]

Perhaps. The feeling of consistency and family from marriage is something nice to have after the enthusiasm that springs from youthful naivete wears off.