I'm already in a band and have a D&D group. Lack of friends and things to do isn't the problem. I already have the goal in mind to make an album with my band, which we are slowly but surely progressing on regularly.
I really don't think the problem is lack of self-worth. Since last year continuing to the present I'm doing much better in my life than I have in the entirety of my adulthood prior, and I still feel this way. Life is good all things considering,