Lasty Posted April 24, 2018 Posted April 24, 2018 (edited) None of my "friends" stood up for me. Some of them out of fear of losing brownie points because the bully was well liked, a fake who corrupts people. Others because they're fake as well. A lot of them tried to convince me to be a coward and keep my mouth shut because I'm not a fighter. They try to act like they're anarchists and they have no hierarchy or power structure, but they do. #frustrated af Edited April 24, 2018 by Lasty 1
Doom Metal Alchemist Posted April 24, 2018 Posted April 24, 2018 Confucius say, "Don't get into physical fight if you're not willing to fight your opponent by yourself."
bnmjy Posted April 24, 2018 Posted April 24, 2018 4 minutes ago, Doom Metal Alchemist said: Confucius say, "Don't get into physical fight if you're not willing to fight your opponent by yourself." Wrong, Confucius say honga hong kong chinga chong hang hang. Peking duck ya. 2
Lasty Posted April 24, 2018 Author Posted April 24, 2018 4 minutes ago, Doom Metal Alchemist said: Confucius say, "Don't get into physical fight if you're not willing to fight your opponent by yourself." I totally did. Being willing to fight by myself doesn't mean backup isn't nice. 2
Doom Metal Alchemist Posted April 24, 2018 Posted April 24, 2018 1 minute ago, bnmjy said: Wrong, Confucius say honga hong kong chinga chong hang hang. Peking duck ya. I felt that if I didn't preface that with anything, it would sound like I was nagging him like I was his mom or something.
Doom Metal Alchemist Posted April 24, 2018 Posted April 24, 2018 (edited) 3 minutes ago, Lasty said: I totally did. Being willing to fight by myself doesn't mean backup isn't nice. Well by the OP it sounded like you no longer consider your friends as friends because they didn't back you up. Edited April 24, 2018 by Doom Metal Alchemist
Lasty Posted April 24, 2018 Author Posted April 24, 2018 Just now, Doom Metal Alchemist said: Well by the OP it sounded like you no longer consider your friends as friends because they didn't back you up. Some of them did it out of fear. I can't hold that against those individuals.
Mix Posted April 24, 2018 Posted April 24, 2018 woah....that's fucked up...I mean, from my perspective, your friend jumps in no matter what or that friendship is done...
Drunkenwarrior Posted April 24, 2018 Posted April 24, 2018 Apparently the other guy thought he was right too....
SlappyKincaid Posted April 24, 2018 Posted April 24, 2018 gonna need more context before judging, but i have a few opinions one way or the other. 1
DragonSinger Posted April 24, 2018 Posted April 24, 2018 34 minutes ago, SlappyKincaid said: gonna need more context before judging, but i have a few opinions one way or the other. This.
RainyDayJizz#35 Posted April 24, 2018 Posted April 24, 2018 This sounds like a teenager's sort of problem. Why would adults hang around a bully?
KreiaDidNothingWrong Posted April 24, 2018 Posted April 24, 2018 Maybe they're Anarcho-Pacifists? I think AnPacs are silly, but if you're going to run around fighting the fash you need to learn how to fight. Take up Kickboxing and Jiu Jitsu.
That_One_Guy Posted April 24, 2018 Posted April 24, 2018 4 hours ago, Lasty said: None of my "friends" stood up for me. Some of them out of fear of losing brownie points because the bully was well liked, a fake who corrupts people. Others because they're fake as well. A lot of them tried to convince me to be a coward and keep my mouth shut because I'm not a fighter. They try to act like they're anarchists and they have to hierarchy or power structure, but they do. #frustrated af Hey dude you stood up. That's more than can be said for most people. You might have lost this fight, but at least you had the balls to fight in the first place. Props 1
Ric Posted April 24, 2018 Posted April 24, 2018 And I beat somebody up today. Dude thought his friends were gonna jump in but they chickened out, it was hilarious.
Lasty Posted April 24, 2018 Author Posted April 24, 2018 14 hours ago, Mix said: woah....that's fucked up...I mean, from my perspective, your friend jumps in no matter what or that friendship is done... Not necessarily. Some of them kept their heads down out of fear. Can't blame them for that.
Lasty Posted April 24, 2018 Author Posted April 24, 2018 14 hours ago, Drunkenwarrior said: Apparently the other guy thought he was right too.... You know, I think he knew he wasn't. He was that fucked up of a guy.
Lasty Posted April 24, 2018 Author Posted April 24, 2018 13 hours ago, SlappyKincaid said: gonna need more context before judging, but i have a few opinions one way or the other. This is the kind of rationality the neighborhood the incident took place in is lacking. The dude lives in his van, was parked in a church parking lot close to a friend of mine. My buddy had a shopping cart full of art supplies, for badass street art. Dude decides he doesn't like it, it's blowing up "his" spot like he owns the ground he walks on where ever he goes. He challenges my friend to a fight, and I go to tell my buddy, you know, you don't have to go fight that guy. You don't have to play his game. Right? Well, that blew up in a physical confrontation and that was several months ago. Couple days ago, he rolls up in his van on the lot of the rest of us all hanging out and starts calling me a bitch. I tell him that's a projection his part, he turns to violence to easily, and what does he do? Instantaneously get out of his van to prove my point. Nobody chimed in, nobody stopped him. I spoke up for what was right in spite of the inherent risk. I was the only brave person surrounded by a bunch of cowards. Not my hang out spot anymore.
fuggnificent Posted April 24, 2018 Posted April 24, 2018 You remind me of my friend Lauren who ran her mouth and got jumped by 5 girls then was mad that our friend Sloan didnt jump in and fight the girls with her. 1
Lasty Posted April 24, 2018 Author Posted April 24, 2018 (edited) 27 minutes ago, fuggnificent said: You remind me of my friend Lauren who ran her mouth and got jumped by 5 girls then was mad that our friend Sloan didnt jump in and fight the girls with her. I wasn't "running my mouth" I was speaking my piece because this is motherfucking AMERICA. I didn't want anyone to fight the guy, I wanted them to chime in with me before he attacked me so it didn't have to happen at all. Seems like you're stuck in the whole violent monkey status ladder thing where might makes right. Edited April 24, 2018 by Lasty
bnmjy Posted April 24, 2018 Posted April 24, 2018 32 minutes ago, fuggnificent said: You remind me of my friend Lauren who ran her mouth and got jumped by 5 girls then was mad that our friend Sloan didnt jump in and fight the girls with her. Sloan? 1
RainyDayJizz#35 Posted April 24, 2018 Posted April 24, 2018 7 minutes ago, Lasty said: I wasn't "running my mouth" I was speaking my piece because this is motherfucking AMERICA. I didn't want anyone to fight the guy, I wanted them to chime in with me before he attacked me so it didn't have to happen at all. Seems like you're stuck in the whole violent monkey status ladder thing where might makes right. So you challenged his physical presence by belittling it and expected a violent bully to just say, "You know what, you're right. I'm in the wrong here." And then you all go play stickball and the credits roll. Is that about how you expected things to pan out? A bunch of violent apes in the middle of a fight or flight response were going to rally behind logic, yes? 1
fuggnificent Posted April 24, 2018 Posted April 24, 2018 13 minutes ago, bnmjy said: Sloan? Yes im friends with a Sloan. Bigger slut than me, too hehe
Drunkenwarrior Posted April 24, 2018 Posted April 24, 2018 1 hour ago, Lasty said: This is the kind of rationality the neighborhood the incident took place in is lacking. The dude lives in his van, was parked in a church parking lot close to a friend of mine. My buddy had a shopping cart full of art supplies, for badass street art. Dude decides he doesn't like it, it's blowing up "his" spot like he owns the ground he walks on where ever he goes. He challenges my friend to a fight, and I go to tell my buddy, you know, you don't have to go fight that guy. You don't have to play his game. Right? Well, that blew up in a physical confrontation and that was several months ago. Couple days ago, he rolls up in his van on the lot of the rest of us all hanging out and starts calling me a bitch. I tell him that's a projection his part, he turns to violence to easily, and what does he do? Instantaneously get out of his van to prove my point. Nobody chimed in, nobody stopped him. I spoke up for what was right in spite of the inherent risk. I was the only brave person surrounded by a bunch of cowards. Not my hang out spot anymore. You should have called the police the second he started getting verbally confrontational Maybe buy a tazer....the situation could also have been diffused with that *Click click* sound of you pressing the button
NaBarney Posted April 24, 2018 Posted April 24, 2018 He lives in his van and you know where he parks it? Wait until he's asleep and rain molotovs upon his windshield
Lasty Posted April 24, 2018 Author Posted April 24, 2018 1 hour ago, Drunkenwarrior said: You should have called the police the second he started getting verbally confrontational Maybe buy a tazer....the situation could also have been diffused with that *Click click* sound of you pressing the button I couldn't have turned to the police. I'm homeless. The tazer is a good idea, though. Probably some mace too.
Lasty Posted April 24, 2018 Author Posted April 24, 2018 1 hour ago, GreatBallsOfJizz said: So you challenged his physical presence by belittling it and expected a violent bully to just say, "You know what, you're right. I'm in the wrong here." And then you all go play stickball and the credits roll. Is that about how you expected things to pan out? A bunch of violent apes in the middle of a fight or flight response were going to rally behind logic, yes? Not everyone out there is like that. A lot of them kept their heads down out of fear, which I knew was possible. Sometimes you have to do the right thing even knowing you don't have leverage. They didn't listen to me then, but I made a statement. Now they have a better chance to change their minds in the future.
Lasty Posted April 24, 2018 Author Posted April 24, 2018 1 hour ago, Nabloom said: He lives in his van and you know where he parks it? Wait until he's asleep and rain molotovs upon his windshield I'm not like him
Poof Posted April 24, 2018 Posted April 24, 2018 22 minutes ago, Lasty said: I couldn't have turned to the police. I'm homeless. The tazer is a good idea, though. Probably some mace too. You can call the police if you're homeless. It's still their job to protect you. Idk the details maybe you had other reasons but that doesnt matter i dont need to know. I just want you to know you still count even when you're homeless.
Lasty Posted April 24, 2018 Author Posted April 24, 2018 1 minute ago, Poof said: You can call the police if you're homeless. It's still their job to protect you. Idk the details maybe you had other reasons but that doesnt matter i dont need to know. I just want you to know you still count even when you're homeless. I know I still count, but you don't know that neighborhood...
Poof Posted April 24, 2018 Posted April 24, 2018 1 minute ago, Lasty said: I know I still count, but you don't know that neighborhood... Of course I figured there was some details as to why. I just wanted to say
Lasty Posted April 24, 2018 Author Posted April 24, 2018 Just now, Poof said: Of course I figured there was some details as to why. I just wanted to say Thank you. <3
Juice McKenzie Posted April 24, 2018 Posted April 24, 2018 4 hours ago, Lasty said: This is the kind of rationality the neighborhood the incident took place in is lacking. The dude lives in his van, was parked in a church parking lot close to a friend of mine. My buddy had a shopping cart full of art supplies, for badass street art. Dude decides he doesn't like it, it's blowing up "his" spot like he owns the ground he walks on where ever he goes. He challenges my friend to a fight, and I go to tell my buddy, you know, you don't have to go fight that guy. You don't have to play his game. Right? Well, that blew up in a physical confrontation and that was several months ago. Couple days ago, he rolls up in his van on the lot of the rest of us all hanging out and starts calling me a bitch. I tell him that's a projection his part, he turns to violence to easily, and what does he do? Instantaneously get out of his van to prove my point. Nobody chimed in, nobody stopped him. I spoke up for what was right in spite of the inherent risk. I was the only brave person surrounded by a bunch of cowards. Not my hang out spot anymore. did you call the cops?
DragonSinger Posted April 24, 2018 Posted April 24, 2018 2 hours ago, Lasty said: Not everyone out there is like that. A lot of them kept their heads down out of fear, which I knew was possible. Sometimes you have to do the right thing even knowing you don't have leverage. They didn't listen to me then, but I made a statement. Now they have a better chance to change their minds in the future. Your friends sound unreliable as fuck, so just call the cops next time. Look, if you need backup when confronting a bully, then you are not one who can talk shit. You're just gonna get hurt. I would second Nab's idea to fuck up that dude's van, or at the very least steal his shit, but your bitch ass friends might snitch on you. 3
1pooh4u Posted April 24, 2018 Posted April 24, 2018 Back up woulda been nice but sometimes the beat down is worth it. I speak from experience. 2
Distortedreasoning Posted April 24, 2018 Posted April 24, 2018 sorry to hear dude. your friends should be backing you up no matter what. even if you where the one starting shit they should have your back. even more so that the guy was the one that got aggressive. to the people saying call the cops, it's not really an option where they hate homeless people and harass them regularly. cops most likely beat up lastly even more and send him to jail for some stupid bs. fucking hate cops.
Lasty Posted April 24, 2018 Author Posted April 24, 2018 24 minutes ago, SorceressPol said: Your friends sound unreliable as fuck, so just call the cops next time. Look, if you need backup when confronting a bully, then you are not one who can talk shit. You're just gonna get hurt. I would second Nab's idea to fuck up that dude's van, or at the very least steal his shit, but your bitch ass friends might snitch on you. There are too many people in the world who need backup to confront bullies. If only the people who didn't need backup stood up, shady assholes would have more control over the world than they do. Next time, I'll make sure I have backup first. I'm not going to resort to that kind of retaliation because I am not like him. That won't solve the problem.
Lasty Posted April 24, 2018 Author Posted April 24, 2018 (edited) 6 minutes ago, Distortedreasoning said: sorry to hear dude. your friends should be backing you up no matter what. even if you where the one starting shit they should have your back. even more so that the guy was the one that got aggressive. to the people saying call the cops, it's not really an option where they hate homeless people and harass them regularly. cops most likely beat up lastly even more and send him to jail for some stupid bs. fucking hate cops. Cops here are actually chill af compared to other places. It's the other homeless people I had to worry about. Also, I wish I could insert your response into the fb thread I made about it. lol Edited April 24, 2018 by Lasty
Distortedreasoning Posted April 24, 2018 Posted April 24, 2018 1 hour ago, Lasty said: Cops here are actually chill af compared to other places. It's the other homeless people I had to worry about. Also, I wish I could insert your response into the fb thread I made about it. lol you aint gonna change my mind on cops lasty. just cuz their not at the same level as the lapd or the nypd dont mean they aint shit lol.
Mix Posted April 25, 2018 Posted April 25, 2018 8 hours ago, Lasty said: Not necessarily. Some of them kept their heads down out of fear. Can't blame them for that. yes the fuck you can.....I've jumped into shit I had no business jumping into for my friends and vice versa... this is gonna come off douchey, but you gotta take certain situations by the balls and man the fuck up....shit's not always convenient.... i don't know, maybe this is why I don't have a lot of friends 1
DragonSinger Posted April 25, 2018 Posted April 25, 2018 1 hour ago, Mix said: yes the fuck you can.....I've jumped into shit I had no business jumping into for my friends and vice versa... this is gonna come off douchey, but you gotta take certain situations by the balls and man the fuck up....shit's not always convenient.... i don't know, maybe this is why I don't have a lot of friends Naw, you good. Real friends do not watch you get your ass beat like that. My girlfriends and I are mostly around 5'2''-5'3'', but if some dude puts his hands on one of us, it is fucking on.
DragonSinger Posted April 25, 2018 Posted April 25, 2018 3 hours ago, 1pooh4u said: Back up woulda been nice but sometimes the beat down is worth it. I speak from experience. You seem like someone who could get some good licks in and make the other person remember that fight. That can make a beat down worth it, but the way Lasty is getting whooped just seems kind of pointless.
Juice McKenzie Posted April 25, 2018 Posted April 25, 2018 4 hours ago, Lasty said: Cops here are actually chill af compared to other places. It's the other homeless people I had to worry about. Also, I wish I could insert your response into the fb thread I made about it. lol Then take a bat and go bear jew on his ass
naraku360 Posted April 25, 2018 Posted April 25, 2018 (edited) 9 hours ago, fuggnificent said: Yes im friends with a Sloan. Bigger slut than me, too hehe I highly doubt you have friends bigger than you. Edited April 25, 2018 by naraku360
naraku360 Posted April 25, 2018 Posted April 25, 2018 53 minutes ago, SorceressPol said: Naw, you good. Real friends do not watch you get your ass beat like that. My girlfriends and I are mostly around 5'2''-5'3'', but if some dude puts his hands on one of us, it is fucking on. Yeah, I've literally tried to kick a guy in the nuts for fucking with my friend. He was big enough to rip me in half without much effort. I say tried because I missed. When he pointed that out, I was all. 1
Mix Posted April 25, 2018 Posted April 25, 2018 (edited) 1 hour ago, SorceressPol said: Naw, you good. Real friends do not watch you get your ass beat like that. My girlfriends and I are mostly around 5'2''-5'3'', but if some dude puts his hands on one of us, it is fucking on. Edited April 25, 2018 by Mix
Doom Metal Alchemist Posted April 25, 2018 Posted April 25, 2018 Ok, I am not sure, but I may have misunderstood what your beef with your friends is. I at first thought it was because they didn't back you up in the physical fight. By more responses of yours that I've read since the last time I opened the thread, now I'm thinking you're angry because they didn't stand up verbally before it got to the point of physical violence. If that's the case, then I agree with you, they should've backed you up.
Lasty Posted April 25, 2018 Author Posted April 25, 2018 23 hours ago, Ric said: And I beat somebody up today. Dude thought his friends were gonna jump in but they chickened out, it was hilarious. Why did you beat him up?
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