fuggnificent Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 Can you remember any whoopings? Ok..or punishments from when u were little? When i was a kid, i was always bored. So i took things apart or broke them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phillies Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 my dad used to beat me with a pillow Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fuggnificent Posted March 9, 2018 Author Share Posted March 9, 2018 1 hour ago, Phillies said: my dad used to beat me with a pillow Well you probably enjoyed it! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IKMongo Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 I was beat with a leather belt and solid metal belt buckle. Also it was my dad not my mom. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fuggnificent Posted March 9, 2018 Author Share Posted March 9, 2018 7 minutes ago, IKMongo said: I was beat with a leather belt and solid metal belt buckle. Also it was my dad not my mom. My father never beat me. Not even once. And the quest ion is what did you do tobget in trouble Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Distortedreasoning Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 1 hour ago, Phillies said: my dad used to beat me with a pillow that might explain a lot of things. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katt_goddess Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 Unless it's a single parent household, most child beatings are done by the father-figure. I was beaten for existing. They didn't want a first-born girl and once my first brother was born, I was an 'extra' . Anytime my siblings did anything, I was the one that was beaten for it because they couldn't have done anything wrong. Somehow beating me would teach them to not do things. All it did was teach them that they could do whatever because they wouldn't get punished. There was a belt on the top of the fridge. There was a whole display of belts in the garage. And of course, if a belt wasn't handy, just outright beating on a small child with bare adult hands was acceptable too. As long as the bruises weren't anywhere noticeable. A 200+ lb. adult beating on a 30 lb. underfed kid was considered perfectly acceptable for any and every imagined insult. When a 5 year old knows how to take a punch before they even enter kindergarten, there's something wrong. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MEXobiologist Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 mom took to the spoon and spatula, dad took to the leather belt. i wasn't bad... necessarily. really its their fault. they always emphasized challenging authority when you knew they were wrong in doing something. so as a child, we all think we're right, sooooooo.... yeah >.> basically, i was stubborn and always challenged them on EVERYTHING. i knew that ass kickin was coming, but i still pushed it and held fast to my position. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
little_girl_lost Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 i remember a particularly bad beating when my brother used to sneak out of his room at night and eat all the little Debbie snack cakes Mum's husband would beat us with his belt, when he found the cakes missing, he called us both out to the living room and made us lean over a loveseat and beat our asses with it until he found out who actually took the cakes. My brother never admitted it, which made the beatings worse for both of us. Mum stood and watched, I haven't forgiven her for this. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stilgar Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 She didn't because my mom isn't a piece of shirt and neither were her kids. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phillies Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 1 hour ago, Distortedreasoning said: that might explain a lot of things. Why do you people have to make fun of me? I have been through enough struggle. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IKMongo Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 2 hours ago, fuggnificent said: My father never beat me. Not even once. And the quest ion is what did you do tobget in trouble Whoops preemptively posted apparently. Eh, pretty much for anything that set him off. Fights at school, back talk, disrespect, hole in the bar of soap, teacher complaints, not listening, breaking stuff, not doing chores. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SwimModSponges Posted March 10, 2018 Share Posted March 10, 2018 The only one who ever really beat me as a youth was me. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GunStarHero Posted March 10, 2018 Share Posted March 10, 2018 My stepdad beat the shit out of me, physically and mentally the entire time I was under his roof. A lot of it was completely unwarranted on my end. Something would go wrong for him and he'd vent his frustrations on me. His signature move was to give me a gift and then beat me for taking him for granted and then him snatching the gift back. Occasionally I would get smacked around because of something I did. I was once grounded and beaten for getting a 101 in Spanish I in high school after my stepdad discovered there was a total of 110 points possible and I had not tried to attain the remaining 9 points. My mother all but approved this behavior and sometimes joined in. I desperately tried to spend all my free time at friends houses lest I be beaten. My dad never hit me, though he was abusive in every other way. That being said, he beat my brother to pulp all the time. I had had my suspicions as such but my brother confirmed it last year. Funny thing is my dad's dad had a whiskey fist and my dad swore never to hit a child. So much for that. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fuggnificent Posted March 10, 2018 Author Share Posted March 10, 2018 sorry if this triggers folks. i cant hide it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Still Me Posted March 10, 2018 Share Posted March 10, 2018 6 hours ago, fuggnificent said: Can you remember any whoopings? Ok..or punishments from when u were little? When i was a kid, i was always bored. So i took things apart or broke them. My father was the punisher... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tsar4 Posted March 10, 2018 Share Posted March 10, 2018 Never was. Mom had very nice parents, so she didn't do it & Dad was beaten by his father with a flail and by priests & nuns at school. He promised himself he'd never do that to his kid(s). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lasty Posted March 10, 2018 Share Posted March 10, 2018 That was always my Dad. Mom never laid a hand on me, come to think of it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doom Metal Alchemist Posted March 10, 2018 Share Posted March 10, 2018 My dad spanked me once, for biting my brother. My mom never beat me. I know it seems like I was coddled, but I think that one spanking messed me up. To this day I have a VERY hard time going against his wishes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MEXobiologist Posted March 10, 2018 Share Posted March 10, 2018 1 hour ago, tsar4 said: Never was. Mom had very nice parents, so she didn't do it & Dad was beaten by his father with a flail and by priests & nuns at school. He promised himself he'd never do that to his kid(s). reverse happened with my dad. he was one of 17 kids, and one of the youngest at that. so he was raised by a number of people, not frequently his own parents. they whooped him, but not like his eldest sisters and his crazy grandma did a number on his head. if it was dark or close to it, she would take the kids way out into the orchard with blind folds on so they were lost. then they would have to pray and try to find their way back. if their prayers were answered, the "demons" wouldn't come to take them. or she made them kneel on rocks for hours confessing their sins and praying. truthfully, my dad got better with each kid and much didn't occur after my parents divorce... but he was brutal for quite a long while. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Distortedreasoning Posted March 10, 2018 Share Posted March 10, 2018 5 hours ago, Phillies said: Why do you people have to make fun of me? I have been through enough struggle. no hard feelings just poking some fun. but to answer the thread, yes i got beat. most of the time for just being a troublemaker. she used anything from a belt to throwing a chancla at me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mewn Posted March 10, 2018 Share Posted March 10, 2018 mom pulled my hair once 'cuz I was being a brat. And that was it. No beatings, gawd no. And dad died when I was 4, so, yeah, but don't think he'd be abusive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NSAID Posted March 10, 2018 Share Posted March 10, 2018 I resented the concept of someone having final, absolute authority over me, and I would act against it, ultimately resulting in graphic displays of said authority. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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