I’ve done the commuting thing for years. My commutes have ranged from 20 minutes all the way to 90 minutes. You just kinda have to do it. For a good job, you’re going to have to, man.
Unfortunately, they simply aren’t going to put up with some of your shit, so you have to put up with theirs.
Having said that: You don’t completely have to put up with their shit, because they needed/wanted you.