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discolé monade Monster Mutant

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i'm trying to rap my head around still liking someone that is always rude to me. 

i mean, if they suddenly started acting nice, cool. but, not opening up any friendship freedom trains. 

i mean, i'll TRY to be as cordial as possible the whole time. 

 

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KimopoBotar Luminary

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The only people i care about are my close friends and family. If they're not in those groups I just don't care. I don't even make friends anymore. I have enough of them. 

If it's at work I'll probably be happy if they're nicer. I might be more inclined to be nicer myself. But if i don't depend on them for my job, i just don't care, again. 

I used to care too much about what everyone thought and how they treated me. It was a waste of time. 

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Mini_ghost420 Freakin Mutant

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2 hours ago, discolemonade said:

i'm trying to rap my head around still liking someone that is always rude to me. 

i mean, if they suddenly started acting nice, cool. but, not opening up any friendship freedom trains. 

i mean, i'll TRY to be as cordial as possible the whole time. 

 

I could like someone becuase they are rude if they are cleaver about it

Mini_ghost420 Freakin Mutant

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42 minutes ago, KimopoBotar said:

The only people i care about are my close friends and family. If they're not in those groups I just don't care. I don't even make friends anymore. I have enough of them. 

If it's at work I'll probably be happy if they're nicer. I might be more inclined to be nicer myself. But if i don't depend on them for my job, i just don't care, again. 

I used to care too much about what everyone thought and how they treated me. It was a waste of time. 

oh yea you're right. it is a waste of your time to worry about such things

PurgatoryGirl Elder

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Yeah, maybe when I was younger or happen to be in a good or semi-decent and forgiving mood. Otherwise, NO.

Years ago, I turned down a free drink at a local bar during my 10-year-old high school reunion.

An asshole, who treated me like shit from 6 to 12th grade, expected me to accept a free drink from him. HA! He's lucky that I didn't accept his drink only to throw it into his eyes.

As an adult, I don't have the time, energy, and patience to deal with assholes, their betrayal, and their backstabbing, high school bullshit.

I try my hardest not to be fake; If I don't like somebody, I try my hardest not to be associated with them. In fact, I do keep a mental shit list.

Therefore, if someone DOES happen to see me be nice to someone I can't stand, I must be in a good or semi-decent mood at the moment.

While writing a story years ago, I thought of the shittiest classmates from my youth and made them meet their maker in that story. All those, who labeled me a Devil Worshiper, a Witch, and so on should be glad I don't keep my own handy stash of Voodoo Dolls somewhere.

Instead, I wait for them to receive their future comeuppance.

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Mini_ghost420 Freakin Mutant

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9 minutes ago, midnight said:

I think if someone was rude to me, it wouldn’t make it to “rude to me all the time.” They could get fuck’t, far as I’m concerned. 

unless the do something to really piss me off then I'm indifferent to them and their shenanigans. like I'll just shoot them a glare that says "are you done yet?" and that's how I win in the end

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Still Me Monster Mutant

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10 minutes ago, Mini_Ghost said:

I had this happen both here and irl

Hmm...here....when I deal with people I deal with them on a thread by thread basis...I don’t drag the same bullshit going on in one thread to another...that being said....dealing with typical users where they handle me with disregard...doesn’t bother me either...if someone has a history of being awful then switched to being nice, would be off putting...if not feel like a trap...but for the most part I would act as I normally would.

as for the real world...I tend to be a “take no shit” kind of person...so if someone were mean to me they wouldn’t walk away with the last word unscathed.... but now that I’m thinking about it...there was a girl in school I liked...she was nice to me...sorta for at least a small amount of time...as long as a specific friend wasn’t around...but eventually she just became a monster...so I ignored her for the most part...then after I moved away and our 10year came up she sent me a PM on FB...basically apologizing...and saying that she wished that I had stayed in touch with everyone....but I kinda ignored her then too...so...I think it’s just my reaction by default...insult me? I insult back...be a general dick? Imma go about my bidness

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scoobdog Monster Mutant

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Whole lot of grudges going on in here.  If someone was suddenly nice, I'd treat them the same way I treat anyone that isn't close but is being nice.

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