It's not really a political thing as much as a social thing. The thing about it is that there is a certain amount of EQ (if you want to subscribe to that) involved in changing one role within a family unit and, by extension, the community, and the reality is that young men even now aren't fully developed emotionally. Incels are particularly odious individuals who have other sociopathic tendencies or traits, but the underlying issue they exploit is a very real one. A lot of modern men don't know how they fit into a family unit, and that, in turn, makes it more difficult for then to connect with women who are expanding beyond their traditionally restricted role in a relationship.