And we're back to the immaturity thing. Maybe don't mess with sketchy chicks if you're that worried "'mutual respect' can very easily go out the window" and she's going to back stab you. Chicks that would blow you up for no reason are sociopaths, and the vast majority of women you encounter are not sociopathic.
I don't really have an opinion other than to say that Worst Naraku is the last person you should be getting relationship advice from... or work advice.... or home buy advice...
The last time I was at the Meadowlands, I believe I was in the old stadium. The whole area is just kinda in the middle of nowhere without actually being nowhere.