I remember one night years ago at mine and my ex's apartment
he had teenage children from a first marriage that their mother kept away from him
the eldest one met him first then brought the others with her for a big family gathering in the apartment
I sat it out, I sat in the bedroom doing puzzle books to keep me entertained (I had no internet or tv in there). They were in the kitchen and didn't know I was there and in earshot.
There were pictures on the fridge, a couple of my ex and one of me.
The eldest daughter had met me and pointed out the pic on the fridge.
She said "She looks ok in that picture, but she's really ugly in real life" and they all had a good laugh, my ex included.
I bring it up the next day to my ex, and he forces his kid to try to make nice with me, the first thing the girl said was "I didn't mean it"
Fucking Bullshit. She went out of her way to say it when she thought I want around.
And, no, she wasn't drinking at the time, she's just a bitch.