Online Dating

[UwPp]

Have you tried dating apps?

I have tried multiple. All free ones cuz a bitch is poor. 

But like it's usually the same people to swipe on. Has been for like the past 3 years. 🤣

I'm only on them for a short time but to see the same dudes on like every app. It's wild to me. 

 

And they all practically say the same thing. 🙄😒 

And that's pretty much like "lol let's sex". 

 

ANYWAYS!

 

Have you tried dating apps? Do you have luck? Horror stories? 

[[classic swim]]

I’d have to move somewhere less of a shithole for it to be compatible just in concept. And even then, not really.

Don’t want to be one of those guys that puts in the effort to go somewhere just to get stood up by a ‘match’ that never intended on going. Much more humility in taking a prostitute to Ramada Inn.

[André Toulon]

Yeah, its the same lonely people in your area on every app...every once in a while, you run into someone who moved to the area recently.

Nothing of value was gained from any of them....but i wasn't looking for anything of value so it worked out fine for me.

But if people can get married from meeting on ASMB, then anything is possible, so dont let me discourage you 

Edited yesterday at 01:20 AM by André Toulon

[The_annoying_one]

I’ve dabbled out of pure curiosity on some of the free sites, but never put any kind of effort into it. Most of the single women in my area are just not my type, and I have virtually no interest in the dating scene these days.

[UwPp]

6 minutes ago, André Toulon said:

Yeah, its the same lonely people in your area on every app...every once in a while, you run into someone who moved to the area recently.

Nothing of value was gained from any of them....but i wasn't looking for anything of value so it worked out fine for me.

But if people can get married from meeting on ASMB, then anything is possible, so dont let me discourage you 

I was engaged to someone from the ASMB. Lol so like I get it. 

 

I just don't leave the house that much because someone's either getting stabbed or shot. Soooo 🤷‍♀️ idk what else to do. 

Dildos get boring my friend. 

Time for hookers I suppose. 

[André Toulon]

1 minute ago, UwPp said:

I was engaged to someone from the ASMB. Lol so like I get it. 

 🤷‍♀️

Fill me in...I was always behind on the asmb soap operas

[-Kudasai-]

Nah I have no desire to try I prefer the old fashioned way of meeting women.

[UwPp]

1 hour ago, André Toulon said:

Fill me in...I was always behind on the asmb soap operas

He was an IBer. We met in IB during high-school. He was my best friend. Then he knocked some girl up in college and she hated me and made him pretty much block me. Covid came and I looked for him on social media. We instantly connected again. I drove to Philly every weekend. 

Yadda yadda - he told my entire family we were getting engaged blahblahblah. 

Then we broke up.  

[discolé monade]

was literally just talking about how 'we' met on....

myspace. 

lol

[discolé monade]

14 hours ago, UwPp said:

He was an IBer. We met in IB during high-school. He was my best friend. Then he knocked some girl up in college and she hated me and made him pretty much block me. Covid came and I looked for him on social media. We instantly connected again. I drove to Philly every weekend. 

Yadda yadda - he told my entire family we were getting engaged blahblahblah. 

Then we broke up.  

good. he wasn't worth your time. 

best friends tell the partner - this is my best friend. i won't be blocking. 

bitches are st00pid. 

but i digress.

are you saying that there are, in fact, NOT any singles in your area that want to meet up?

try christian mingle.  >  they like the really REALLY good stuff. 

[lupin_bebop]

Yep. Not worth it. Same bots. It’s a nightmare.
I gave up dating a long time ago.

Some bad relationships and a failed engagement will do that to ya.
Now, it’s just enjoying the peace and quiet. 

I do hope things go better for you. Chances are pretty good for you. Good luck. 

Edited 12 hours ago by lupin_bebop

[Chappi]

I think I had an OkCupid account when I was in freshman year of college, but there weren’t a lot of people on there. I was going to make a Grindr account a year later, but got scared off when they asked for ID cause I was commuting.

[rpgamer]

Seemed like they'd gone way way downhill in recent years. Crypto scams and AI scams and low effort bots..

I'd imagine (but can only guess) you might have better odds on the other side of the gender fence. But better-than-shit odds might still be shit odds.

I mostly used them as form of people watching, "socializing" without having to, y'know, interact with anyone. But was getting increasingly boring with shallow profiles that provided no info. But, like many, I just kinda stopped when I realized I had no interest or desire to add that disruption to life. I'm comfortable in isolation and routine, and accepted the fact that I ain't likely to meet anyone in an appropriate age range on the same wavelength.

[molarbear]

1 hour ago, rpgamer said:

Seemed like they'd gone way way downhill in recent years. Crypto scams and AI scams and low effort bots..

I'd imagine (but can only guess) you might have better odds on the other side of the gender fence. But better-than-shit odds might still be shit odds.

I mostly used them as form of people watching, "socializing" without having to, y'know, interact with anyone. But was getting increasingly boring with shallow profiles that provided no info. But, like many, I just kinda stopped when I realized I had no interest or desire to add that disruption to life. I'm comfortable in isolation and routine, and accepted the fact that I ain't likely to meet anyone in an appropriate age range on the same wavelength.

Kind of the vibe I get 

when people do message their replies are often single letters or a sentence that leaves nothing to build on, and then you see that account on there for years 

 

[scoobdog]

I haven’t been on a dating app in like 20 years, and even then I did nothing on it because it never felt right.

[Insipid]

Some people have great success on Tinder.