naraku360 Posted July 22, 2018 Posted July 22, 2018 Just now, Naraku4656 said: without prompting, she just texted me her new address. i'm not complaining but now i'm even more confused. Drive on over, pick her up, and take her to Poundtown. 1
Naraku4656 Posted July 22, 2018 Author Posted July 22, 2018 1 minute ago, naraku360 said: Drive on over, pick her up, and take her to Poundtown. well it's only a 41 hour drive. might as well get a move on i suppose
naraku360 Posted July 22, 2018 Posted July 22, 2018 Just now, Naraku4656 said: well it's only a 41 hour drive. might as well get a move on i suppose That's the spirit.
fuggstop Posted July 23, 2018 Posted July 23, 2018 22 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said: without prompting, she just texted me her new address. i'm not complaining but now i'm even more confused. Wait. So did yall breakup or not?
Naraku4656 Posted July 23, 2018 Author Posted July 23, 2018 16 minutes ago, fuggstop said: Wait. So did yall breakup or not? i don't know. she wanted to video chat earlier but we haven't yet
Ginguy Posted July 23, 2018 Posted July 23, 2018 You work in IT, go move out to Cali with her already. Â Â Â 2
scoobdog Posted July 23, 2018 Posted July 23, 2018 32 minutes ago, Ginguy said: You work in IT, go move out to Cali with her already. Â Â Â Jingai is fucking right. Â Come to California. 1
lupin_bebop Posted July 23, 2018 Posted July 23, 2018 6 hours ago, Naraku4656 said: Ok now I'm confused myself. She just called me after she landed and wants to do a video call tonight. Okay, Naraku.......I like you......but you have to be careful with this minefield. My thoughts here: Take the call, but don’t have high expectations. Talk to her, get the input, tell her how felt about the move. Listen to her input. Be honest. Don’t get caught on The Hook, man. Sleep on it. If you honestly, truly want to go out the be with her, do it. There’s nothing stopping you. If there’s ANY inkling of not wanting to from you or her, then stop everything. If this sounds like a really binary way of looking at it, that is due to me being an engineer, a man, and logically inclined. Also, it’s the best way to keep from wasting time. It may not seem like it, but you have a lot of people who are willing to help and talk to you. Good luck to ya.
Ginguy Posted July 23, 2018 Posted July 23, 2018 Damn it now I have to agree with Scoob. Move out there with her. You enjoy being with her right? So what are you waiting for? What is holding you back? You got what, a mortgage and a job that has you chugging Tums over stupid shit? Â Get your place ready for sale, or find a renter, and go be with the girl you want to be with. Â Â 1
Naraku4656 Posted July 23, 2018 Author Posted July 23, 2018 ok so here's what happened. the call just ended. she says that she wants to come here and see me in August to which I agreed to. i'm going to play this by ear to @lupin_bebop's point and see how it goes and being careful not to make any promises about going there. mid-August is a ways away and it might not even happen. and no i'm not moving
Swimmod_Luna Posted July 23, 2018 Posted July 23, 2018 Idk man it sounds like she at least wants to try to make it work.
Naraku4656 Posted July 23, 2018 Author Posted July 23, 2018 (edited) 4 minutes ago, Athena 92 said: Idk man it sounds like she at least wants to try to make it work. i would love it to but i don't see how it could. we haven't been together long enough to make something like that work. if she's willing to try for it then i will too but we're going to need to talk about this more to understand what the expectation is. it's not even a low confidence thing it's more of a "well ok so we changed our minds, now what?" thing Edited July 23, 2018 by Naraku4656
NaBarney Posted July 23, 2018 Posted July 23, 2018 Wisely chaining yourself to house payments at 25 to prevent yourself from doing anything cool like moving with your girlfriend to California before she gets deported for being an immigration criminalÂ
André Toulon Posted July 23, 2018 Posted July 23, 2018 I just hate I missed the opportunity to ask if Boo was his girlfriend and then say that visa bullshit was a lie.
Clu Posted July 23, 2018 Posted July 23, 2018 This blossomed in to a nice turkey..... Not great, but nice.
CutieQuesadilla Posted July 23, 2018 Posted July 23, 2018 4 hours ago, Buddyroe360 said: I just hate I missed the opportunity to ask if Boo was his girlfriend and then say that visa bullshit was a lie. Lol!
1pooh4u Posted July 23, 2018 Posted July 23, 2018 This sounds like something someone with an imaginary gf would say. You sure she was real? 1 1
Naraku4656 Posted July 24, 2018 Author Posted July 24, 2018 (edited) UPDATE: we've been video chatting both the day she left and yesterday. she actually texted me first and asked for today too. so i'm still confused myself on what our status is. i been trying to be coy about asking but i think i should just point blank ask her tonight Edited July 24, 2018 by Naraku4656
Naraku4656 Posted July 24, 2018 Author Posted July 24, 2018 2 minutes ago, CAC said: I'm pretty sure she thinks your still together. if that's true then i'll play it that way. i didn't really want to break up but we both talked about it and i thought that was the plan
CAC Posted July 24, 2018 Posted July 24, 2018 14 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said: if that's true then i'll play it that way. i didn't really want to break up but we both talked about it and i thought that was the plan Well then it's hard to say. It could be just good friends, have to see if anything leads to vid-sex to be sure >_>
scoobdog Posted July 24, 2018 Posted July 24, 2018 41 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said: UPDATE: we've been video chatting both the day she left and yesterday. she actually texted me first and asked for today too. so i'm still confused myself on what our status is. i been trying to be coy about asking but i think i should just point blank ask her tonight Only you would be confused by this.
Naraku4656 Posted July 25, 2018 Author Posted July 25, 2018 3 minutes ago, Quackers said: she's probably just being nice quack
cyberbully Posted July 25, 2018 Posted July 25, 2018 13 hours ago, Naraku4656 said: UPDATE: we've been video chatting both the day she left and yesterday. she actually texted me first and asked for today too. so i'm still confused myself on what our status is. i been trying to be coy about asking but i think i should just point blank ask her tonight I don't think any of this for the last few months was real now. You knew the ramen noodle this was dead and this is your new troll.
Naraku4656 Posted July 25, 2018 Author Posted July 25, 2018 45 minutes ago, cyberbully said: I don't think any of this for the last few months was real now. You knew the ramen noodle this was dead and this is your new troll. As sad as it is I'm actually not. I'm terrible at reading people unless they tell me exactly how they're feeling. Or if it's super obvious
cyberbully Posted July 25, 2018 Posted July 25, 2018 (edited) 7 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said: As sad as it is I'm actually not. I'm terrible at reading people unless they tell me exactly how they're feeling. Or if it's super obvious The girl you were boning mere days ago wants your attention....It doesn't get more obvious than that. Edited July 25, 2018 by cyberbully 1
Naraku4656 Posted July 25, 2018 Author Posted July 25, 2018 6 minutes ago, cyberbully said: The girl you were boning mere days ago wants your attention....It doesn't get more obvious than that. I get that but we both agreed that if she moved then we were done. That didn't change when she left. If she's changed her mind that's fine but we need to talk about it
cyberbully Posted July 25, 2018 Posted July 25, 2018 Just now, Naraku4656 said: I get that but we both agreed that if she moved then we were done. That didn't change when she left. If she's changed her mind that's fine but we need to talk about it C'mon man, that had to be a stressful situation....She probably thought it easier to agree to be done because women are nuturing (mostl of them anyway) by nature and didn't want to complicate your life....The way to be a man is show her you're down to weather the storm.
Naraku4656 Posted July 25, 2018 Author Posted July 25, 2018 3 minutes ago, cyberbully said: C'mon man, that had to be a stressful situation....She probably thought it easier to agree to be done because women are nuturing (mostl of them anyway) by nature and didn't want to complicate your life....The way to be a man is show her you're down to weather the storm. Fine. I'll play ball. We're probably going to talk again tonight so I'll ask when we're going to meet up again 1
cyberbully Posted July 25, 2018 Posted July 25, 2018 Just now, Naraku4656 said: Fine. I'll play ball. We're probably going to talk again tonight so I'll ask when we're going to meet up again There you go, be assertive, but not a jerk. Being a jerk and still getting the girl is an advanced technique and you aren't ready. 1 1
Naraku4656 Posted July 26, 2018 Author Posted July 26, 2018 so today we've been together for two months. she texts me as i get in the garage and tells me to open the front door. she sent me a whole BUNCH of stuff. flowers, candy, some other things. i'm very flattered but i can't help but be a bit concerned.
fuggstop Posted July 26, 2018 Posted July 26, 2018 1 minute ago, Naraku4656 said: so today we've been together for two months. she texts me as i get in the garage and tells me to open the front door. she sent me a whole BUNCH of stuff. flowers, candy, some other things. i'm very flattered but i can't help but be a bit concerned. You did NOT break up with her. You are in a long distance relationship.Â
scoobdog Posted July 26, 2018 Posted July 26, 2018 3 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said: so today we've been together for two months. she texts me as i get in the garage and tells me to open the front door. she sent me a whole BUNCH of stuff. flowers, candy, some other things. i'm very flattered but i can't help but be a bit concerned. Just meet her in Vegas and get married or something.
Naraku4656 Posted July 26, 2018 Author Posted July 26, 2018 3 minutes ago, fuggstop said: You did NOT break up with her. You are in a long distance relationship. i guess i got my answer without asking
Naraku4656 Posted July 26, 2018 Author Posted July 26, 2018 3 minutes ago, scoobdog said: Just meet her in Vegas and get married or something. but then i'd have to go to the west coast. bleeeeeeeeeeh
fuggstop Posted July 26, 2018 Posted July 26, 2018 2 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said: i guess i got my answer without asking Poor you. Poor girl. Â
scoobdog Posted July 26, 2018 Posted July 26, 2018 Just now, Naraku4656 said: but then i'd have to go to the west coast. bleeeeeeeeeeh For the weekend, bro. Â Do it for love.
Naraku4656 Posted July 26, 2018 Author Posted July 26, 2018 Just now, scoobdog said: For the weekend, bro. Â Do it for love. god no
Doom Metal Alchemist Posted July 26, 2018 Posted July 26, 2018 (edited) 3 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said: but then i'd have to go to the west coast. bleeeeeeeeeeh Are you ultra conservative? Otherwise I don't know why you'd have such a problem with California. Are you afraid of earthquakes? Droughts? High living expenses? Like Ginguy pointed out, since you're in IT, there should be plenty of jobs for you here, at least in the bay area. Edited July 26, 2018 by Doom Metal Alchemist
Naraku4656 Posted July 26, 2018 Author Posted July 26, 2018 1 minute ago, fuggstop said: Poor you. Poor girl. Â well to be fair she had her chance to get rid of me by moving
Misaka Posted July 26, 2018 Posted July 26, 2018 1 minute ago, Naraku4656 said: god no You don't want to visit scoob? 1
Naraku4656 Posted July 26, 2018 Author Posted July 26, 2018 Just now, Doom Metal Alchemist said: Are you ultra conservative? Otherwise I don't know why you'd have such a problem with California. Are you afraid of earthquakes? Droughts? High living expenses? worse than that, Californians. EAST COST BEAST COAST 2
Naraku4656 Posted July 26, 2018 Author Posted July 26, 2018 Just now, Misaka said: You don't want to visit scoob? i feel like i'd be down with having a few drinks with scoob though i feel like he'd ditch me for getting a blowie from a shady looking hooker in the back of an El Camino,
Doom Metal Alchemist Posted July 26, 2018 Posted July 26, 2018 Just now, Naraku4656 said: worse than that, Californians. EAST COST BEAST COAST Yeah, it's usually ultra conservatives that have problems with Californians.Â
scoobdog Posted July 26, 2018 Posted July 26, 2018 1 minute ago, Naraku4656 said: i feel like i'd be down with having a few drinks with scoob though i feel like he'd ditch me for getting a blowie from a shady looking hooker in the back of an El Camino, Hey, I'll get a two for one. Â It'll be great. Â I'm really loads of fun.
Naraku4656 Posted July 26, 2018 Author Posted July 26, 2018 Just now, Doom Metal Alchemist said: Yeah, it's usually ultra conservatives that have problems with Californians. you can be liberal and dislike them too. what can i say except Â
scoobdog Posted July 26, 2018 Posted July 26, 2018 1 minute ago, Naraku4656 said: you can be liberal and dislike them too. what can i say except So... marry her in Vegas, then she can move back to east coast with you. Â I don't see the problem here.
Naraku4656 Posted July 26, 2018 Author Posted July 26, 2018 Just now, scoobdog said: So... marry her in Vegas, then she can move back to east coast with you. Â I don't see the problem here. nah not interested
scoobdog Posted July 26, 2018 Posted July 26, 2018 4 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said: nah not interested Oh c'mon. Â It's like three years. Â How many chicks you going to scare off in three years anyway?
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