Naraku4656 Posted May 21, 2018 Author Posted May 21, 2018 i might not be able to save this job but i can try to not let my career die in my 20's
Doom Metal Alchemist Posted May 21, 2018 Posted May 21, 2018 1 minute ago, Naraku4656 said: i might not be able to save this job but i can try to not let my career die in my 20's It could be worse. Im in my 30s and I've never had a career.
NaBarney Posted May 21, 2018 Posted May 21, 2018 2 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said: i might not be able to save this job but i can try to not let my career die in my 20's This is an extremely warped view, you know you don't have like a permanent record or anything right
Naraku4656 Posted May 21, 2018 Author Posted May 21, 2018 6 minutes ago, Nabloom said: This is an extremely warped view, you know you don't have like a permanent record or anything right actually in my industry we kind of do
PhilosipherStoned Posted May 21, 2018 Posted May 21, 2018 lol. I mean that sucks I hope it blows overĀ as well as it can for ya man.
Naraku4656 Posted May 21, 2018 Author Posted May 21, 2018 11 minutes ago, Doom Metal Alchemist said: It could be worse. Im in my 30s and I've never had a career. its never too late. find your passion and try to make bank off of it 1
NaBarney Posted May 21, 2018 Posted May 21, 2018 20 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said: actually in my industry we kind of do Why are you like this. Did your family do this to you 1
Naraku4656 Posted May 21, 2018 Author Posted May 21, 2018 9 minutes ago, Nabloom said: Why are you like this. Did your family do this to you i'm just trying to do my time man, get out in 50-60.
Naraku4656 Posted May 21, 2018 Author Posted May 21, 2018 speaking of my time, time to go to sleep and see if shit's going to hit the fan this week or if it's going to hit next week when my manager is back
bnmjy Posted May 21, 2018 Posted May 21, 2018 16 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said: speaking of my time, time to go to sleep and see if shit's going to hit the fan this week or if it's going to hit next week when my manager is back Have fun stressing over nothing. 1
enad Posted May 21, 2018 Posted May 21, 2018 On 5/18/2018 at 11:05 PM, Naraku4656 said: i'm honestly not sure if i can survive losing this job. it's been a while since i've been legitimately concerned Did you get fired yet?Ā I personally think you are likely to get fired and everyone else is just trying to make you feel better.
NaBarney Posted May 21, 2018 Posted May 21, 2018 46 minutes ago, bnmjy said: Have fun stressing over nothing. "nothing" the principal is putting a black mark on his permanent record, that's a career killer in his industry. There's no coming back from this.Ā
Opium Posted May 21, 2018 Posted May 21, 2018 Breathe, motherfucker. Every day is a new day and shit. A new beginning is the best ending, so fuck it, fucker. Go outside and read a book. Listen to a song that isnāt on the radio. Go volunteer. Smile at the homeless. Keep all your suits for the funerals.
Naraku4656 Posted May 22, 2018 Author Posted May 22, 2018 i was told to consider looking at other positions. I TOLD YOU ASSHOLES AND NO ONE FUCKING LISTENS TO ME
death_by_motorboat Posted May 22, 2018 Posted May 22, 2018 5 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said: i was told to consider looking at other positions. I TOLD YOU ASSHOLES AND NO ONE FUCKING LISTENS TO ME why is it such a career killer?Ā are you a career criminal or something?
Swimmod_Luna Posted May 22, 2018 Posted May 22, 2018 9 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said: i was told to consider looking at other positions. I TOLD YOU ASSHOLES AND NO ONE FUCKING LISTENS TO ME Who told you that?Ā 1
NaBarney Posted May 22, 2018 Posted May 22, 2018 (edited) 15 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said: i was told to consider looking at other positions. I TOLD YOU ASSHOLES AND NO ONE FUCKING LISTENS TO ME Weren't you saying not long ago that your current job was going to start requiring 24/7 availability anyway? Staying there for that sounds like a fate worse than unemployment.Ā Put your career on hold, there's nothing wrong with that, get a stress free job that won't drive you crazy and will give you avenues to meet new people your own age, and just have fun for awhile. Get a qt gf with tats or whatever you feel like has been missing from your life. Embrace this opportunity to take a break and get your mind right and remind yourself that you can do w/e you want, you will always be able to return to IT at any time.Ā Edited May 22, 2018 by Nabloom
Naraku4656 Posted May 22, 2018 Author Posted May 22, 2018 48 minutes ago, Athena 92 said: Who told you that?Ā someone i know fairly high up gave me a heads up
Naraku4656 Posted May 22, 2018 Author Posted May 22, 2018 46 minutes ago, Nabloom said: Weren't you saying not long ago that your current job was going to start requiring 24/7 availability anyway? Staying there for that sounds like a fate worse than unemployment.Ā Put your career on hold, there's nothing wrong with that, get a stress free job that won't drive you crazy and will give you avenues to meet new people your own age, and just have fun for awhile. Get a qt gf with tats or whatever you feel like has been missing from your life. Embrace this opportunity to take a break and get your mind right and remind yourself that you can do w/e you want, you will always be able to return to IT at any time.Ā dude i'm not putting my career on hold to fuck around
Naraku4656 Posted May 22, 2018 Author Posted May 22, 2018 53 minutes ago, mumbo13 said: why is it such a career killer?Ā are you a career criminal or something? in my industry there's a license that you need in order to work. you HAVE to be truthful when you get interviewed for it because it is a felony if they find out that you're lying. one of the questions asked is whether you've ever been fired or written up. if you answer that question yes, and don't have a really really reaaaaaaally good reason then you're fucked
Codename: Jackass Posted May 22, 2018 Posted May 22, 2018 Your co-worker is a piece of shit for including you in his personal grievance with the higher-ups. Ā You should beat his ass.
mochi Posted May 22, 2018 Posted May 22, 2018 On 5/18/2018 at 5:15 PM, Naraku4656 said: Coworker made a complete ass of both him and me. Sent a nasty email to upper management. Included my name in it. Companies don't like complainers. Fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuckĀ would a picture of a really wrinkly cat make you feel any better?
Swimmod_Luna Posted May 22, 2018 Posted May 22, 2018 Is this industry run by a bunch of teenageĀ girls because that's the only way I can think of that they could be so petty about dumb shit like this. 1
naraku360 Posted May 22, 2018 Posted May 22, 2018 53 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said: in my industry there's a license that you need in order to work. you HAVE to be truthful when you get interviewed for it because it is a felony if they find out that you're lying. one of the questions asked is whether you've ever been fired or written up. if you answer that question yes, and don't have a really really reaaaaaaally good reason then you're fucked Get another job then quit before they fire you. Boom.
NaBarney Posted May 22, 2018 Posted May 22, 2018 1 hour ago, Naraku4656 said: dude i'm not putting my career on hold to fuck around Help me help you destroy your life and rebuild it into something worseĀ 1
RainyDayJizz#35 Posted May 22, 2018 Posted May 22, 2018 3 hours ago, Naraku4656 said: in my industry there's a license that you need in order to work. you HAVE to be truthful when you get interviewed for it because it is a felony if they find out that you're lying. one of the questions asked is whether you've ever been fired or written up. if you answer that question yes, and don't have a really really reaaaaaaally good reason then you're fucked You have a very identifiable reason? If you can explain the truth of the situation adequately it seems fine. Unless the truth makes you come across as a piece of shit, then you're fucked.
Naraku4656 Posted May 22, 2018 Author Posted May 22, 2018 6 hours ago, naraku360 said: Get another job then quit before they fire you. Boom. Working on it
Naraku4656 Posted May 22, 2018 Author Posted May 22, 2018 5 hours ago, Nabloom said: Help me help you destroy your life and rebuild it into something worseĀ I like money too much
Codename: Jackass Posted May 22, 2018 Posted May 22, 2018 32 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said: I like money too much Money is just a thing. We don't need things.
DragonSinger Posted May 22, 2018 Posted May 22, 2018 10 hours ago, Naraku4656 said: someone i know fairly high up gave me a heads up Whether you get fired or not, you need to change your attitude about playing the nice guy when someone is fucking you over. Especially since this is a career that's very important to you.Ā 2
Misaka Posted May 22, 2018 Posted May 22, 2018 11 hours ago, Naraku4656 said: i was told to consider looking at other positions. I TOLD YOU ASSHOLES AND NO ONE FUCKING LISTENS TO ME https://employment.findlaw.com/losing-a-job/do-i-need-a-wrongful-termination-lawyer.html Might want to consider it as a backup
SlappyKincaid Posted May 22, 2018 Posted May 22, 2018 Obviously the only way out is to set the building on fire 1
Swimmod_Luna Posted May 22, 2018 Posted May 22, 2018 I still really don't understand this whole situation. Like what's the big deal with sending a "nasty e-mail". In a normal industry I can't imagine they'd even fire the sender (unless you're talking "death threats" level of nasty,Ā this is a repeat behavior, or they were looking for an excuse to fire them), and I can't imagine they'd do anything toĀ some person that didn't even have anything to do with it.Ā I can imagine they'd reprimand the sender somehow but I don't see why they'd ever do anything to the person that had nothing to do with it. I'm genuinely asking help me understand why this is such a big deal beyond "Hurr durr industry permanent record." Like seriously is Regina George your boss or something? Is there a Burn Book in this "industry" of yours? If so why the fuck would you want to be a part of that shit. 1
Doom Metal Alchemist Posted May 22, 2018 Posted May 22, 2018 I just came across this on facebook, thought maybe it could help you: https://www.careerbuilder.com/advice/explaining-unemployment-in-the-job-interview?siteid=dis_cb_native_keywee&utm_source=keywee&utm_medium=display&utm_campaign=facebook&utm_content=explaining-unemployment-in-the-job-interview&kwp_0=775681&kwp_4=2709204&kwp_1=1149380
Naraku4656 Posted May 22, 2018 Author Posted May 22, 2018 today was even more interesting. i think i'm going to wait for my manager to get back to see how this is actually going to play out
Swimmod_Luna Posted May 22, 2018 Posted May 22, 2018 58 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said: today was even more interesting. i think i'm going to wait for my manager to get back to see how this is actually going to play out In b4 nothing happensĀ 1
naraku360 Posted May 22, 2018 Posted May 22, 2018 1 hour ago, Naraku4656 said: today was even more interesting. i think i'm going to wait for my manager to get back to see how this is actually going to play out At this point, I wouldn't worry about the co-worker. I'd just say you didn't know about the email until after it had been sent and you never wanted anything to do with it. If the co-worker is actually a good friend he should understand that what he did unnecessarily got you into trouble. Then again, I don't think he would have included you in the first place if he were.
Recommended Posts