Actually, I am. We're even cordial these days. However, we haven't lived within 100 miles of each other since 2001.
It's just that we're both too lazy and cheap to get a divorce.
@midnight nice to meet you, disco's hubby!😀
I don't know - you ought to maybe speak to his supervisor, especially if it upset you that much. I think that @Athena 92 may be right, and if it's not a HIPAA violation, it's teetering right on the brink of being one.
Oh, I'm so sorry - that really sucks. And I know - sometimes the family was worse than the patient.
Does his ins cover respite care? Just something to think about when you get to the point where it's him or you.
Put a stool in the shower and have him take a seat under the water. At least he'll get rinsed, and if he uses soap, it'll be a bonus.
(seriously, a lot of old people are scared of falling in the shower or tub.)