ghostrek Posted September 17, 2019 Share Posted September 17, 2019 (edited) some of you know about the rumor that got started years ago it was of a sexural natural that been going for years it start up again i know people are told this are not welling to tell me that they was told this so i can go to my boss about this what can i do Edited September 17, 2019 by ghostrek Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vamped Posted September 17, 2019 Share Posted September 17, 2019 What. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted September 17, 2019 Author Share Posted September 17, 2019 2 minutes ago, Vamped said: What. it is a long story Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Satou Kazuma Posted September 17, 2019 Share Posted September 17, 2019 So, you raped a ghost. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katt_goddess Posted September 17, 2019 Share Posted September 17, 2019 Just go to your boss anyway and let him know about your concerns that a disturbing rumor is being circulated about you and what it is all about. And that you don't know who is starting / encouraging it but lack of any response on the part of the employer once given notice could be seen as being part of the harassment. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted September 17, 2019 Share Posted September 17, 2019 So basically you have been charged or at least have rumors going around regarding possible sexual misconduct// Yikes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted September 17, 2019 Author Share Posted September 17, 2019 Just now, katt_goddess said: Just go to your boss anyway and let him know about your concerns that a disturbing rumor is being circulated about you and what it is all about. And that you don't know who is starting / encouraging it but lack of any response on the part of the employer once given notice could be seen as being part of the harassment. i did go to my management now 2 times once years ago and just few days ago but i trying to get Witnesses to back up my story one did tell me but the other did not add ment to him being told Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted September 17, 2019 Author Share Posted September 17, 2019 4 minutes ago, PhilosipherStoned said: So basically you have been charged or at least have rumors going around regarding possible sexual misconduct// Yikes. yes it sucks no chargese or any thing let Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted September 17, 2019 Share Posted September 17, 2019 I'm not sure what your boss or even the police can do about a rumor that isn't part of a concerted effort to get your fired or an actual police report. The boss can certainly tell the employees to stop spreading the rumor, but it's not going to do much. The best thing you can do is to take steps to corroborate your activities while you're at work in the event an accusation is actually made. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sir Teddybar Gut Fullung Posted September 17, 2019 Share Posted September 17, 2019 1 minute ago, scoobdog said: I'm not sure what your boss or even the police can do about a rumor that isn't part of a concerted effort to get your fired or an actual police report. The boss can certainly tell the employees to stop spreading the rumor, but it's not going to do much. The best thing you can do is to take steps to corroborate your activities while you're at work in the event an accusation is actually made. This. Because scoob is smart. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted September 17, 2019 Share Posted September 17, 2019 I would try to get the details from you, but that might be to much to ask.. of you. idk Talk to your supervisor if it's a work thing, and if the other person involved actually feels that way you do have things to worry about.. If not and the other person involved knows the rumors are bullshit get with them to help you squash these rumors before it screws up your reputation beyond repair. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted September 17, 2019 Author Share Posted September 17, 2019 2 minutes ago, scoobdog said: I'm not sure what your boss or even the police can do about a rumor that isn't part of a concerted effort to get your fired or an actual police report. The boss can certainly tell the employees to stop spreading the rumor, but it's not going to do much. The best thing you can do is to take steps to corroborate your activities while you're at work in the event an accusation is actually made. this rumor was made years ago but just got started up again so there to get to back up Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted September 17, 2019 Author Share Posted September 17, 2019 3 minutes ago, PhilosipherStoned said: I would try to get the details from you, but that might be to much to ask.. of you. idk Talk to your supervisor if it's a work thing, and if the other person involved actually feels that way you do have things to worry about.. If not and the other person involved knows the rumors are bullshit get with them to help you squash these rumors before it screws up your reputation beyond repair. i all ready had details i am not going to tell them rigth now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted September 17, 2019 Share Posted September 17, 2019 (edited) The details don't really matter at this point. What matters is if there is actually another person that feels you've sexually harassed them. If it's just bullshit rumors, and theres no actual people that feel you have sexually harassed them that's great. Make that known. Edited September 17, 2019 by PhilosipherStoned Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted September 17, 2019 Share Posted September 17, 2019 2 minutes ago, ghostrek said: this rumor was made years ago but just got started up again so there to get to back up OK. So, how did an old rumor get started up again? Don't just say "I don't know;" try to think of any specific events or circumstances that are concurrent to the rumor's reemergence. Did you get into a fight with someone? Are you working with someone that has shown disdain or otherwise has expressed dislike for you? Was there a recent change in management and/or policy? It's important that you identify the impetus for this vicious behavior. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted September 17, 2019 Author Share Posted September 17, 2019 2 minutes ago, scoobdog said: OK. So, how did an old rumor get started up again? Don't just say "I don't know;" try to think of any specific events or circumstances that are concurrent to the rumor's reemergence. Did you get into a fight with someone? Are you working with someone that has shown disdain or otherwise has expressed dislike for you? Was there a recent change in management and/or policy? It's important that you identify the impetus for this vicious behavior. it started some time around 2011 -2012 it was part of campaign trying to get me to quit but i did know about it until 2014-2015 i dont know why it got started back up yet Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted September 17, 2019 Share Posted September 17, 2019 2 minutes ago, ghostrek said: it started some time around 2011 -2012 it was part of campaign trying to get me to quit but i did know about it until 2014-2015 i dont know why it got started back up yet I just told you "Don't say 'I don't know.'" What was going on at the time when the rumor returned? 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted September 17, 2019 Share Posted September 17, 2019 Just now, ghostrek said: it started some time around 2011 -2012 it was part of campaign trying to get me to quit but i did know about it until 2014-2015 i dont know why it got started back up yet Don't let a bullshit rumor be the reason you get fired. If in fact it is just a rumor.... Why are you asking for legal help if you are going to refuse us the details. You expect us to remember shit from years ago that you probably didn't even type out coherently anyway??? That's not how things work sorry Ghostrek. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tsar4 Posted September 17, 2019 Share Posted September 17, 2019 This is obviously the "go to" place for legal advice.... Otter: Point of parliamentary procedure! Hoover: Don't screw around, they're serious this time! Otter: Take it easy, I'm pre-law. Boon: I thought you were pre-med. Otter: What's the difference? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted September 17, 2019 Author Share Posted September 17, 2019 1 minute ago, scoobdog said: I just told you "Don't say 'I don't know.'" What was going on at the time when the rumor returned? i was told that was talking about how get stress outed at times some one told about the rumor Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted September 17, 2019 Author Share Posted September 17, 2019 13 minutes ago, PhilosipherStoned said: Don't let a bullshit rumor be the reason you get fired. If in fact it is just a rumor.... Why are you asking for legal help if you are going to refuse us the details. You expect us to remember shit from years ago that you probably didn't even type out coherently anyway??? That's not how things work sorry Ghostrek. i am not geting fired Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted September 17, 2019 Share Posted September 17, 2019 yet... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted September 17, 2019 Author Share Posted September 17, 2019 Just now, PhilosipherStoned said: yet... trust me i am not Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted September 17, 2019 Share Posted September 17, 2019 Ghostrek focus my man. Idk I'm about done it doesn't sound like you are taking this shit seriously maybe you don't need legal advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted September 17, 2019 Share Posted September 17, 2019 1 minute ago, ghostrek said: trust me i am not If you're that sure, then why do you care so much about these rumors? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted September 17, 2019 Author Share Posted September 17, 2019 1 minute ago, PhilosipherStoned said: Ghostrek focus my man. Idk I'm about done it doesn't sound like you are taking this shit seriously maybe you don't need legal advice. i do need legal help Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted September 17, 2019 Share Posted September 17, 2019 1 minute ago, ghostrek said: i do need legal help EXPLAIN WHY YOU NEED LEGAL HELP THEN. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted September 17, 2019 Author Share Posted September 17, 2019 Just now, scoobdog said: If you're that sure, then why do you care so much about these rumors? i want to stop plus it was part of campaign to get me fired or quit under the frist cleaning company i work for Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted September 17, 2019 Author Share Posted September 17, 2019 Just now, PhilosipherStoned said: EXPLAIN WHY YOU NEED LEGAL HELP THEN. i want to know what rigths are can sue some one or some company or companes for this Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted September 17, 2019 Share Posted September 17, 2019 (edited) Sounds bigger than you are making it out to be then if this shit is spanning from two different jobs and riling you up.. Edited September 17, 2019 by PhilosipherStoned Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted September 17, 2019 Share Posted September 17, 2019 1 minute ago, ghostrek said: i want to know what rigths are can sue some one or some company or companes for this Bro.. If you can't even get your story straight you arent suing anybody let alone a business.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted September 17, 2019 Author Share Posted September 17, 2019 1 minute ago, PhilosipherStoned said: Sounds bigger than you are making out to be then if this shit is spanning from two different jobs and riling you up.. not really i worked at frist company they lost contracted for building we clean and i got grandfathered for the current company i was not only one that got grandfathered in to the current company Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted September 17, 2019 Share Posted September 17, 2019 I understand.. Just because they are different companies does not mean anything though Ghostrek.. Especially if the company you are now working for hired a bunch of people from the old company along with you. 😑 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted September 17, 2019 Share Posted September 17, 2019 Ok so you are not getting fired.. You are still scared of some kind of sexual misconduct 'rumor' growing again. Why is that Ghostrek? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted September 17, 2019 Author Share Posted September 17, 2019 1 minute ago, PhilosipherStoned said: I understand.. Just because they are different companies does not mean anything though Ghostrek.. Especially if the company you are now working for hired a bunch of people from the old company along with you. 😑 well few of us is left but newer employes are talking about this now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted September 17, 2019 Share Posted September 17, 2019 (edited) 2 minutes ago, ghostrek said: well few of us is left but newer employes are talking about this now Why are they talking about it? You can't say 'I don't know' and expect me or scoob or anybody here to be able to help you at all.. Also a professional lawyer can't help you either so that's why we are saying this. Edited September 17, 2019 by PhilosipherStoned Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted September 17, 2019 Share Posted September 17, 2019 Either you have to tell the lawyer what the rumors are about. Or tell us... or drop it dude. idk. PM me if you are uncomfortable with the rumor I would say...but idk. This must be a pretty bad rumor since you are so uncomfortable giving us the details. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted September 17, 2019 Author Share Posted September 17, 2019 Just now, PhilosipherStoned said: Ok so you are not getting fired.. You are still scared of some kind of sexual misconduct 'rumor' growing again. Why is that Ghostrek? not missconduct 2 minutes ago, PhilosipherStoned said: Why are they talking about it? You can't say 'I don't know' and expect me or scoob or anybody here to be able to help you at all.. Also a professional lawyer can't help you either so that's why we are saying this. it just poped up few days ago that what was told ok i will pm you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted September 18, 2019 Share Posted September 18, 2019 😩 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted September 18, 2019 Share Posted September 18, 2019 Wow... I feel like a prison Co again all around thanks Ghostrek/ I really can't release the info it doesnt feel right. Don't worry about it though Ghostrek just try to find coworkers and people that can vouch for your credibility on that... because if someone from the opposite sex was able to use this against you and they think their story will be taken more credibly than any defense you come up with they might try. You should be able to defend yourself if you get accused. I'm just saying that you should be ready and cognizant. 😥 Stupid... outside of the prison system I don't think a good case can be made against you for that even if it is true. They should have acted when it happened if they wanted you to get legal consequences anyway. Idk I hope people don't put two and two together from this, just wow... Nothing substantial in this crazy world we live in if you ask me. Carry on. Just know ghostrek that even though there was no one else involved....X The p.m. should've said that... You could be charged of a crime if someone was able to testify that you did infact do that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted September 18, 2019 Author Share Posted September 18, 2019 32 minutes ago, PhilosipherStoned said: Wow... I feel like a prison Co again all around thanks Ghostrek/ I really can't release the info it doesnt feel right. Don't worry about it though Ghostrek just try to find coworkers and people that can vouch for your credibility on that... because if someone from the opposite sex was able to use this against you and they think their story will be taken more credibly than any defense you come up with they might try. You should be able to defend yourself if you get accused. I'm just saying that you should be ready and cognizant. 😥 Stupid... outside of the prison system I don't think a good case can be made against you for that even if it is true. They should have acted when it happened if they wanted you to get legal consequences anyway. Idk I hope people don't put two and two together from this, just wow... Nothing substantial in this crazy world we live in if you ask me. Carry on. Just know ghostrek that even though there was no one else involved....X The p.m. should've said that... You could be charged of a crime if someone was able to testify that you did infact do that. ok thanks for advice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stilgar Posted September 18, 2019 Share Posted September 18, 2019 Plead guilty. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted September 18, 2019 Author Share Posted September 18, 2019 4 minutes ago, stilgar said: Plead guilty. fuck off fuck off fuck off fuck off 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vamped Posted September 18, 2019 Share Posted September 18, 2019 ..... if its just some office gossip who cares. Do your fucking job and go home. Fuck them work hoes and getcha money. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stilgar Posted September 18, 2019 Share Posted September 18, 2019 26 minutes ago, ghostrek said: fuck off fuck off fuck off fuck off Show us that dick and I will. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostrek Posted September 18, 2019 Author Share Posted September 18, 2019 2 minutes ago, Vamped said: ..... if its just some office gossip who cares. Do your fucking job and go home. Fuck them work hoes and getcha money. thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vamped Posted September 18, 2019 Share Posted September 18, 2019 3 minutes ago, stilgar said: Show us that dick and I will. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DragonSinger Posted September 18, 2019 Share Posted September 18, 2019 1 hour ago, PhilosipherStoned said: Wow... I feel like a prison Co again all around thanks Ghostrek/ I really can't release the info it doesnt feel right. Don't worry about it though Ghostrek just try to find coworkers and people that can vouch for your credibility on that... because if someone from the opposite sex was able to use this against you and they think their story will be taken more credibly than any defense you come up with they might try. You should be able to defend yourself if you get accused. I'm just saying that you should be ready and cognizant. 😥 Stupid... outside of the prison system I don't think a good case can be made against you for that even if it is true. They should have acted when it happened if they wanted you to get legal consequences anyway. Idk I hope people don't put two and two together from this, just wow... Nothing substantial in this crazy world we live in if you ask me. Carry on. Just know ghostrek that even though there was no one else involved....X The p.m. should've said that... You could be charged of a crime if someone was able to testify that you did infact do that. 👀 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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SwimModSponges Posted September 18, 2019 Share Posted September 18, 2019 4 hours ago, scoobdog said: I just told you "Don't say 'I don't know.'" What was going on at the time when the rumor returned? *swings at low hanging fruit* He was in the broom closet for an extended period. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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