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porn freaks me out at a certain point  

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  1. 1. porn freaks me out at a certain point



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I also want to mention that the porn idusty intentionally presses the limit of every niche fetish to the point if you're not in some

way affected, beyond sexual desire, there probably is creepy reason, or a complete lack of attention to detail.

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1 hour ago, CactusLove said:

theres sort of a gut feeling I've turned into a sleezy creepo after a while

If you start mainly thinking of women in sexual terms or start primarily thinking of women as a means of sexual gratification, you should probably take a step back from porn. Also, if you start harboring resentment against women who aren't interested in you (or women in general), or you start thinking of sex mainly as something that women use to control men, then you should probably take a step back from porn. Thoughts like these are rather toxic and will set you down the path to creep-dom if left unchecked.

Note: I'm not saying this because I think porn causes these kinds of thoughts or anything. What I am saying is that harboring thoughts like the ones listed above is a sign that you have some unresolved baggage when it comes to both sex and women, and that if you opt to continue consuming erotic media without working on that baggage you run the risk of reinforcing it instead (And that will lead you down the path to creep-dom).

TL;DR: Media doesn't really cause destructive thoughts or behaviors, but it certainly can exacerbate destructive thoughts or behaviors you already have.

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  • 2 months later...

I'm pretty vanilla, so I'll be watching things and there will be times it crosses a line and bothers me and I have to stop jerking off.

Also this reminds me of the most hilarious porn clip I've ever seen.  Young asian star bent over on a bed while pale white dude with shoulder length greasy black hair is goin to town on her.  She's saying all the right things, the "oh yeah, give it to me" and all that, but the look on her face was just one of complete disinterest, like she's there to collect a check.  Meanwhile camera pans up and zooms in on dude's face, and he just looks straight into the camera and lets out this metal roar like he's the frontman for an indy deathcore band.  I could not stop laughing.

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On 6/5/2019 at 12:35 AM, Poof said:

I have to say yes bc of that disturbing trend of faux snuff films of hot girls starting to really take off in the darker corners of the web

I think that's an unfair conflation of porn with murder. It's not like your average porn site is throwing violence at you on the first page

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7 minutes ago, Opium said:

I think that's an unfair conflation of porn with murder. It's not like your average porn site is throwing violence at you on the first page

I wouldn't call it unfair.  The problem is how porn sites categorize and equate things and then recommend new videos to you.  You watch one video where a girl has her hands tied behind her, and then the site suggests you watch "TIED WOMAN GANG RAPED BY 37 MASSIVE COCKS" and you have to close the browser.

Like, it's really one degree of separation for stuff that crosses the line in a lot of cases.

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22 minutes ago, GuyBeardmane said:

I wouldn't call it unfair.  The problem is how porn sites categorize and equate things and then recommend new videos to you.  You watch one video where a girl has her hands tied behind her, and then the site suggests you watch "TIED WOMAN GANG RAPED BY 37 MASSIVE COCKS" and you have to close the browser.

Like, it's really one degree of separation for stuff that crosses the line in a lot of cases.

I dunno about that one, chief. Most of the time the porn titles aren't even accurate to the video -- most notable examples (and one that I find to be a more compelling case of being a reason to be skeeved by porn) is incest fantasy. Most of those videos don't even follow the narrative of the title. Same with videos purporting to be a Tinder hookup. Actual violence and staged violence are very clearly different, which is why I think it's unfair. An actual snuff film versus a girl getting tied up and gangbanged and still breathing and getting paid after are too different to be conflated like that.

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