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  On 1/10/2017 at 1:37 AM, Zintar said:

Maybe you should consider moving to an area that is more in tune with what you are looking for. Here where I live, Portland, you would have no problem meeting like-minded

people, going to regular events, joining different groups or clubs, etc.  This city is quite gay-friendly, as are many other cities. Good luck finding what you are looking for!

from what I understand a lot of the "Gay" areas of MD are also kind of overpriced to live in

 

or at least having been in a couple Gay neighborhoods they were full of newly renovated buildings and filled with overpriced restauraunts and coffee shops, kind of excessively Hipstery and gentrified

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  On 1/10/2017 at 1:47 AM, mochi said:

from what I understand a lot of the "Gay" areas of MD are also kind of overpriced to live in

 

or at least having been in a couple Gay neighborhoods they were full of newly renovated buildings and filled with overpriced restauraunts and coffee shops, kind of excessively Hipstery and gentrified

 

I understand that, it's the same way here. Still, there are areas that are affordable out here and probably over there too. If you REALLY want something you can make it happen. It may take a lot of hard work and some sacrifices, but you can make it happen. Again, I wish you the best of luck. I'm gonna assume you are still pretty young (I may be wrong here), now is the time to take big risks. Like say a big move. To another city. On the opposite side of the country.  I (although I am not gay) took chances like that years ago. Moved to a few cities where I knew nobody. The third time worked out quite well.

Don't give up man.

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  On 1/10/2017 at 1:47 AM, mochi said:

from what I understand a lot of the "Gay" areas of MD are also kind of overpriced to live in

 

or at least having been in a couple Gay neighborhoods they were full of newly renovated buildings and filled with overpriced restauraunts and coffee shops, kind of excessively Hipstery and gentrified

you dont have to stay like right across the street from the club

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  On 1/10/2017 at 5:03 AM, Vamped said:

you dont have to stay like right across the street from the club

 

Right... most of the people that are walking the streets of the Gayborhood in Philly do NOT live there. That shit is downtown... way too expensive :D

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  On 1/10/2017 at 5:10 AM, Rogue_Alphonse said:

Right... most of the people that are walking the streets of the Gayborhood in Philly do NOT live there. That shit is downtown... way too expensive :D

I've never understood the stereotype that Gay people are all Loaded, nor why all Gayborhoods are in rich snob neighborhoods

 

I'm gay and I'm poor as fuck

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  On 1/10/2017 at 5:28 AM, Vercaties said:

Are there any nude beaches in your area?

Or nude events will do.

anything nude will guarantee get you not single, I promise.

pinky promise!

I'm too self concious about my man tits to let anyone who isn't already willing to get intimate with me see me naked

 

also I don't know if nude beaches are a thing in Maryland

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  On 1/10/2017 at 5:03 AM, Vamped said:

you dont have to stay like right across the street from the club

that's basically my point, I can go to a Gayborhood without living in that neighborhood

 

I can't afford a luxury apartment downtown (like Rogue said, none of the people there even actually live there)

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  On 1/10/2017 at 5:41 AM, Distortedreasoning said:

get a job at a trendy bar as a bartender  O0

This actually is a good idea... plus if you do a good enough job at a gay bar as a bartender you make more money in tips ;)

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i wasnt thinking about a gay bar but that might work out even better for him.

i mean what other places can you go out to socialize like that? i guess you could check out any local events for any sort of congregations they might have.

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I actually do have a few users from here who have said they'd be willing to come down here for an asmb meet up and take me to a gay bar this spring so that's almost definitely going to be one of the things I do this year to find a boyfriend

 

 

I'm becoming the new you Rogue

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  On 1/10/2017 at 6:28 AM, mochi said:

I actually do have a few users from here who have said they'd be willing to come down here for an asmb meet up and take me to a gay bar this spring so that's almost definitely going to be one of the things I do this year to find a boyfriend

 

 

I'm becoming the new you Rogue

 

no, you have to get a hard on for cars before you can say that. not just any cars either  >:D

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  On 1/10/2017 at 6:40 AM, Distortedreasoning said:

no, you have to get a hard on for cars before you can say that. not just any cars either  >:D

well, I mean in the "inviting asmbers over to my place to party" sense not in the "works on and restores cars sense"
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  On 1/10/2017 at 5:41 AM, Distortedreasoning said:

get a job at a trendy bar as a bartender  O0

I suppose I could, assuming I can get a bartending license
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  On 1/10/2017 at 6:47 AM, mochi said:

well, I mean in the "inviting asmbers over to my place to party" sense not in the "works on and restores cars sense"

 

i know what you meant, still fucking with you  ;D

 

but yeah going out with fellow board members on a crazy night could be what you need  O0

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  On 1/10/2017 at 6:28 AM, mochi said:

I actually do have a few users from here who have said they'd be willing to come down here for an asmb meet up and take me to a gay bar this spring so that's almost definitely going to be one of the things I do this year to find a boyfriend

 

 

I'm becoming the new you Rogue

 

Just have to meet 43 people from the [asmb] or these boards and you're good :D

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  On 1/10/2017 at 7:02 AM, Rogue_Alphonse said:

Just have to meet 43 people from the [asmb] or these boards and you're good :D

 

It's crazy you've met so many :D

I haven't met a single one yet..... though I also took like a 5 year break.... :D

mochi Monster Mutant

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  On 1/10/2017 at 10:11 PM, Naraku4656 said:

let me know when #4656 comes up

wait does that mean you're open to the idea of visiting ASMBers now?
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  On 1/11/2017 at 1:24 AM, Naraku4656 said:

since we can't verify it against old IB, i'm pretty sure we do know

 

Well the list started out as IBers, but it had become just "board members"

 

So again, you never know. ;)

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  On 1/11/2017 at 3:00 AM, Rogue_Alphonse said:

Well the list started out as IBers, but it had become just "board members"

 

So again, you never know. ;)

i'll only count IBers. you can meet 4656 people, but unless they slummed it with the rest of us losers they're lame

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  On 1/11/2017 at 3:13 AM, Naraku4656 said:

i'll only count IBers. you can meet 4656 people, but unless they slummed it with the rest of us losers they're lame

 

I know all of them from posting in IB, just some had more posts elsewhere.

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  On 1/11/2017 at 3:22 AM, Rogue_Alphonse said:

I know all of them from posting in IB, just some had more posts elsewhere.

that counts then. but stillWE'LL NEVER MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEET cus i dun meet internet folks. nothing personal

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  On 1/11/2017 at 4:02 AM, Naraku4656 said:

idk if it counts if one of the people don't want to be there.

 

Fullmetal_Eva_Pilot was a complete accident... we just happened to ride the schoolbus together

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  On 1/11/2017 at 4:06 AM, Rogue_Alphonse said:

Fullmetal_Eva_Pilot was a complete accident... we just happened to ride the schoolbus together

idk, you do what you want i guess. i just won't be happy about it

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  On 1/11/2017 at 4:43 AM, Rogue_Alphonse said:

You never are :)

i will be less not happy never meeting any of you. except for Bouvre[/member], i'd be ok with that as long as he doesn't make me watch anime Clockwork Orange style

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  On 1/11/2017 at 4:48 AM, Naraku4656 said:

i will be less not happy never meeting any of you.

 

lies, you wanna meet me and you know et

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  On 1/11/2017 at 4:52 AM, Naraku4656 said:

nah. you'll have me here though

 

prolly a good idea, I hate people in real life and don't really talk.

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Step 1....Stop being #thatguy.

 

And no, this has nothing to do with your sexual preference.....Every sexual lifestyle has a #thatguy, and no one likes him.

 

There's another #thatguy here.....We call him Ghostrek.

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