I was going to recommend beating up on fuggs, but she beat me to it with her stupid.
Unfortunately, the only way to get over someone is convincing yourself that you don't need them anymore. In theory, it shouldn't have to be said that a confident, intelligent woman doesn't need any man to make her worthwhile, but sometimes old gender stereotypes and meddling friends (who mostly mean well) obscure the fact. Things will turn around for you once you get your new job and you start working in the field you trained for. People will see you for the valuable person that you are, and you'll feel better about yourself.