jackiemarie90 Posted January 13, 2021 Share Posted January 13, 2021 Here's the thing guys, I live in a co-op. I live with these guys I'm crushing on! I see them the next day, confessing my feelings makes me feel like shit with the people I live with. And I don't want to do it again. Cause I did like hanging out with this guy, but I don't want to be embarrassed around him again. I asked him to go on a walk, and pretty early on the walk, I admitted that I liked him. And he basically said, I don't like you back. And I kinda freaked out. He was being sweet by saying nice things, one of the things he tried to say to relate to me, was him talking about how a guy had come out to him, and he had to deal with that, to which I replied: "Wow you chad nerd, so tell me? Do just a lot of your friends just confess your feelings to you?" To which he replies quite a few, to which I say, "Wow must be nice" Then he immediately felt like shit realizing he was just flexing how popular he was around to me, lol. My bitch ass did ask why he didn't like me, he said he just didn't feel anything. ahahahafjuafhagi;osefohrgz>riaog;h 5ent.ho5'eyrntmlh zjdj ea kiill mee pls He tried that bitch shit like, "Oh well I'll glad you told me" and I was like, "WELL I AIN'T!" I feel so mortified, I don't feel comfortable around the house anymore. I wish I had never told anyone I ever felt anything. I said is there anything about me you don't like or that scares you, and he said it was my brutal honesty and different perspective of me. But said he also feel he needs that in life as a privileged ph.d student who is far removed from the world. Can some one kill me pls. 😐 I am currently drinking, smoking, and hiding in my room 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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cyberbully Posted January 13, 2021 Share Posted January 13, 2021 Ok, I want you to read that post but remove you from it. Just put someone else in there... Should that person be as self conscious about their action when they found out the person they liked were a piece of shit. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vamped Posted January 13, 2021 Share Posted January 13, 2021 Theres better dudes out here. He's probably giving out trash dick anyway. 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doom Metal Alchemist Posted January 13, 2021 Share Posted January 13, 2021 I am really proud of you for going for it, it's definitely a hard thing to do when you don't have much experience doing it (assuming you don't) and rejection does hurt but all I can say is all you can do is get back on that horse and not let it discourage you from trying again in the future. However I'm not sure how common it is for women to ask out men these days, but on the other hand some of us men (like me) are so scared to death of being rejected that we might not make a move on a woman we really like. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlackNoir Posted January 13, 2021 Share Posted January 13, 2021 7 minutes ago, Doom Metal Alchemist said: I am really proud of you for going for it, it's definitely a hard thing to do when you don't have much experience doing it (assuming you don't) and rejection does hurt but all I can say is all you can do is get back on that horse and not let it discourage you from trying again in the future. However I'm not sure how common it is for women to ask out men these days, but on the other hand some of us men (like me) are so scared to death of being rejected that we might not make a move on a woman we really like. So this give you new hope of never having to shoot your shot, because there are socially awkward girls out there being coached by childish adults. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bnmjy Posted January 13, 2021 Share Posted January 13, 2021 10 minutes ago, BlackNoir said: So this give you new hope of never having to shoot your shot, because there are socially awkward girls out there being coached by childish adults. You said you'll fuck fuggs one day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doom Metal Alchemist Posted January 13, 2021 Share Posted January 13, 2021 18 minutes ago, BlackNoir said: So this give you new hope of never having to shoot your shot, because there are socially awkward girls out there being coached by childish adults. Nope. I have never once in my 37 years of life on this planet been asked out by a woman. I'm not super hot or some prize in status or wealth either, so no super motivation for a woman to make the first move on me even she is interested. Plus that whole "waited too long to make a move" thing has happened to me multiple times. I never count on the woman to make the first move, regardless of how hard it is for me to do it, and this doesn't change things. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doom Metal Alchemist Posted January 13, 2021 Share Posted January 13, 2021 Also buddy I'm kinda miffed you think what I said stems out of hope for me not having to shoot my shot rather than a place of real empathy for jackie. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlackNoir Posted January 13, 2021 Share Posted January 13, 2021 6 minutes ago, Doom Metal Alchemist said: Nope. I have never once in my 37 years of life on this planet been asked out by a woman. I'm not super hot or some prize in status or wealth either, so no super motivation for a woman to make the first move on me even she is interested. Plus that whole "waited too long to make a move" thing has happened to me multiple times. I never count on the woman to make the first move, regardless of how hard it is for me to do it, and this doesn't change things. Dude, I'm not hot, I'm in my 40s, and I don't even pretend to be "hard" anymore...I'm a daddy dude...That's it, and somehow I still have women approach me simply because I'm hilarious and I'm not shy (which this isn't me saying "dude, stop being shy"...You are who you are)....Despite my recents jabs at you, you have the talent of charisma on your side as well...use it. Or don't...I mean, I guess at the end of the day, I can't want it for you. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlackNoir Posted January 13, 2021 Share Posted January 13, 2021 6 minutes ago, Doom Metal Alchemist said: Also buddy I'm kinda miffed you think what I said stems out of hope for me not having to shoot my shot rather than a place of real empathy for jackie. Everyone has an agenda...Prove me wrong. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Poof Posted January 13, 2021 Share Posted January 13, 2021 (edited) @jackiemarie90 i'm telling you show butthole. W/lots of guys you have to use your feminine techniques on them. They dont like following thru some planned out relationship thing. Don't even talk about feelings. Be physical. If you like a guy, act like all u want is to hook up and have sex. After that he will be more vulnerable to relationship status. Guys are resistant to being tied down. Especially in college. So dont make it a big thing like telling ppl how you feel. No big confessional conversations. Start with sex. Then slowly become more affectionate over time. Then before u know it hes your bf. If it still doesnt work out at least u got some dick and more experience to use on your next crush. But this is how u gotta do it. Its not a anime highschool this is real life college fuckfest. People pretty much never have more options than they do in college. Its the easiest place in the world to approach the opposite sex and hook up. Just try and hook up as much as possible w/the guy u like to make him get attached to you. And flex on him after the first time act like youre *not* looking for something exclusive. The less clingy and emotional you are the more theyll want to cling to you. Thats just how guys tend to work Just try and have as much sex and fun as possible w/your crush. Make him want to be your boyfriend. Edited January 13, 2021 by Poof 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted January 13, 2021 Author Share Posted January 13, 2021 4 hours ago, cyberbully said: Ok, I want you to read that post but remove you from it. Just put someone else in there... Should that person be as self conscious about their action when they found out the person they liked were a piece of shit. Maybe a little >__> Maybe you're right <__< That actually did make me feel better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted January 13, 2021 Author Share Posted January 13, 2021 4 hours ago, Vamped said: Theres better dudes out here. He's probably giving out trash dick anyway. I feel dumb. lol At least I have my own room. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted January 13, 2021 Share Posted January 13, 2021 9 minutes ago, jackiemarie90 said: I feel dumb. lol At least I have my own room. You're not dumb. And you did it. You told a dude how your feel! That's a big deal. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted January 13, 2021 Author Share Posted January 13, 2021 1 hour ago, Doom Metal Alchemist said: I am really proud of you for going for it, it's definitely a hard thing to do when you don't have much experience doing it (assuming you don't) and rejection does hurt but all I can say is all you can do is get back on that horse and not let it discourage you from trying again in the future. However I'm not sure how common it is for women to ask out men these days, but on the other hand some of us men (like me) are so scared to death of being rejected that we might not make a move on a woman we really like. Meh, I take responsibilities for my feels, and just gonna hide for awhile. lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted January 13, 2021 Author Share Posted January 13, 2021 2 hours ago, Poof said: @jackiemarie90 i'm telling you show butthole. W/lots of guys you have to use your feminine techniques on them. They dont like following thru some planned out relationship thing. Don't even talk about feelings. Be physical. If you like a guy, act like all u want is to hook up and have sex. After that he will be more vulnerable to relationship status. Guys are resistant to being tied down. Especially in college. So dont make it a big thing like telling ppl how you feel. No big confessional conversations. Start with sex. Then slowly become more affectionate over time. Then before u know it hes your bf. If it still doesnt work out at least u got some dick and more experience to use on your next crush. But this is how u gotta do it. Its not a anime highschool this is real life college fuckfest. People pretty much never have more options than they do in college. Its the easiest place in the world to approach the opposite sex and hook up. Just try and hook up as much as possible w/the guy u like to make him get attached to you. And flex on him after the first time act like youre *not* looking for something exclusive. The less clingy and emotional you are the more theyll want to cling to you. Thats just how guys tend to work Just try and have as much sex and fun as possible w/your crush. Make him want to be your boyfriend. I have panic attacks on zoom internships. Some people just aren't made to be that confident or free. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doom Metal Alchemist Posted January 13, 2021 Share Posted January 13, 2021 7 hours ago, BlackNoir said: Everyone has an agenda...Prove me wrong. ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doom Metal Alchemist Posted January 13, 2021 Share Posted January 13, 2021 7 hours ago, BlackNoir said: Dude, I'm not hot, I'm in my 40s, and I don't even pretend to be "hard" anymore...I'm a daddy dude...That's it, and somehow I still have women approach me simply because I'm hilarious and I'm not shy (which this isn't me saying "dude, stop being shy"...You are who you are)....Despite my recents jabs at you, you have the talent of charisma on your side as well...use it. Or don't...I mean, I guess at the end of the day, I can't want it for you. I'm not even sure what it is you're trying to encourage me to do here... get a woman to ask me out? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doom Metal Alchemist Posted January 13, 2021 Share Posted January 13, 2021 4 hours ago, jackiemarie90 said: I have panic attacks on zoom internships. Some people just aren't made to be that confident or free. I don't know if you're 100% serious about calling them panic attacks or if you're using hyperbole. If serious, do you have health insurance? Therapy and medication can do wonders for panic attacks, I know first hand. If hyperbole, the more you immerse yourself in these situations, the easier it gets and the less nervous you'll be. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skiles Posted January 13, 2021 Share Posted January 13, 2021 Fuck that guy. He sounds like a douchebag anyway. You'll find the right dude eventually. Keep your head up. 👌 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cyberbully Posted January 13, 2021 Share Posted January 13, 2021 5 hours ago, Doom Metal Alchemist said: I'm not even sure what it is you're trying to encourage me to do here... get a woman to ask me out? No, I guess I shifted gears and want you to use the charisma stat to woo some nice leggy, boobie blonde....i think thats what you're into...i forget 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Poof Posted January 13, 2021 Share Posted January 13, 2021 13 hours ago, jackiemarie90 said: I have panic attacks on zoom internships. Some people just aren't made to be that confident or free. I'm probably only confident bc I've done more stupid embarrassing things than anyone who is less confident so I no longer fear the embarrassment. Just imagine how free you'll feel once you've sent me your butt pics 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sawdamizer Posted January 13, 2021 Share Posted January 13, 2021 20 hours ago, Vamped said: Theres better dudes out here. He's probably giving out trash dick anyway. I think this is some of the most under appreciated shit in this thread 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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