jackiemarie90 Posted March 8, 2020 Posted March 8, 2020 Apparently, everyone else knew this about me too. >__> Why ya'll didn't say anything? That I think too much about shit and tend to ruin things cause of this. It's not just friends, my psychiatrist was saying this. Knowing doesn't make it better tho. -__-
Gyaos Posted March 8, 2020 Posted March 8, 2020 Tbh, I edit most of my posts every time I think I worded something wrong or went into too much detail. I can relate to this easily. 1
cyberbully Posted March 8, 2020 Posted March 8, 2020 I overthink shit but I'm just egotistical enough to say that's YOUR (not you personally) problem....Not mine. 1 2
molarbear Posted March 8, 2020 Posted March 8, 2020 1 hour ago, jackiemarie90 said: Apparently, everyone else knew this about me too. >__> Why ya'll didn't say anything? Bruh, I've told you this like 400 times over 2
lupin_bebop Posted March 8, 2020 Posted March 8, 2020 1 hour ago, jackiemarie90 said: Apparently, everyone else knew this about me too. >__> Why ya'll didn't say anything? 2
lupin_bebop Posted March 8, 2020 Posted March 8, 2020 1 hour ago, jackiemarie90 said: Apparently, everyone else knew this about me too. >__> Why ya'll didn't say anything? We ALL have said it one way or another. LITERALLY ALL OF US YOU TALKED TO. 1
Vamped Posted March 8, 2020 Posted March 8, 2020 Its okay. Now that you're aware that you do, you can work on trying not to overthink so hard 2 1
cyberbully Posted March 8, 2020 Posted March 8, 2020 5 minutes ago, Vamped said: Its okay. Now that you're aware that you do, you can work on trying not to overthink so hard *overthinks not overthinking* 2
Vamped Posted March 8, 2020 Posted March 8, 2020 13 minutes ago, cyberbully said: *overthinks not overthinking* Well ... then you get tired of thinking and just end up like FUCK IT! IM DOING IT! IM GONNA CALL THAT WEEB AND TELL HIM DBZ IS FOR BABIES AND HANG UP I feel like this is excellent advice 1 3
cyberbully Posted March 8, 2020 Posted March 8, 2020 Just now, Vamped said: FUCK IT! IM DOING IT! IM GONNA CALL THAT WEEB AND TELL HIM DBZ IS FOR BABIES AND HANG UP Motherfucker, I have never felt so attacked at 7am on a Sunday before ever in my life. 5
Vamped Posted March 8, 2020 Posted March 8, 2020 1 minute ago, cyberbully said: Motherfucker, I have never felt so attacked at 7am on a Sunday before ever in my life. The truth hurts sometimes my dude 1
Seight Posted March 8, 2020 Posted March 8, 2020 Do you know how many more posts I'd have if I didn't clear out some of the things I type but don't post? I don't either, but know that the number is more than I could count on my hands. 1
jackiemarie90 Posted March 8, 2020 Author Posted March 8, 2020 14 hours ago, Doom Metal Alchemist said: I do that too. I'm gonna try an work on myself to be better. lol 1
jackiemarie90 Posted March 8, 2020 Author Posted March 8, 2020 14 hours ago, Gyaos said: Tbh, I edit most of my posts every time I think I worded something wrong or went into too much detail. I can relate to this easily. I guess I feel like I don't need to prove my intelligence through grammar, which is why I leave so many mistakes on my posts alone. I just don't care anymore. lol 1
jackiemarie90 Posted March 8, 2020 Author Posted March 8, 2020 13 hours ago, cyberbully said: I overthink shit but I'm just egotistical enough to say that's YOUR (not you personally) problem....Not mine. Since I tend to sabotage man relationships in my life by doing this, I'm gonna try to work to be better. XD
jackiemarie90 Posted March 8, 2020 Author Posted March 8, 2020 13 hours ago, molarbear said: Bruh, I've told you this like 400 times over Well thank you for trying. 🙂
jackiemarie90 Posted March 8, 2020 Author Posted March 8, 2020 13 hours ago, lupin_bebop said: We ALL have said it one way or another. LITERALLY ALL OF US YOU TALKED TO. I know, I guess it's was hard to separate the fact that overthinking helps me in school alot, but tends to sabotage my social life. 1
jackiemarie90 Posted March 8, 2020 Author Posted March 8, 2020 11 hours ago, Vamped said: Its okay. Now that you're aware that you do, you can work on trying not to overthink so hard Yeah, for awhile I would isolate myself in my room all the time because I was afraid that everyone would hate me. It would get ridiculous where instead of cooking a meal in the communal kitchen I would just waste money on delivery so I wouldn't see people. XD I felt like that again this morning, and was close to turning around when I got to the kitchen and saw a lot of people there, but then I saw a flippin mess of dishes, and ask to pick up the workshift hours to wash them myself. And everyone was grateful about it. XD 2
jackiemarie90 Posted March 8, 2020 Author Posted March 8, 2020 10 hours ago, Seight said: Do you know how many more posts I'd have if I didn't clear out some of the things I type but don't post? I don't either, but know that the number is more than I could count on my hands. It's interesting how many people are worried about their posts. Although I'd say it's a valid thing to worry about since old posts are ruining peoples careers lately. lmao
Seight Posted March 8, 2020 Posted March 8, 2020 10 minutes ago, jackiemarie90 said: It's interesting how many people are worried about their posts. Although I'd say it's a valid thing to worry about since old posts are ruining peoples careers lately. lmao With me its more "I thought this was funny/smart but seeing it in the editor, this reads mean or stupid." And realize a fair amount of what I post is stupid or (in DF) mean so yeah. 2
Vamped Posted March 8, 2020 Posted March 8, 2020 47 minutes ago, jackiemarie90 said: Yeah, for awhile I would isolate myself in my room all the time because I was afraid that everyone would hate me. It would get ridiculous where instead of cooking a meal in the communal kitchen I would just waste money on delivery so I wouldn't see people. XD I felt like that again this morning, and was close to turning around when I got to the kitchen and saw a lot of people there, but then I saw a flippin mess of dishes, and ask to pick up the workshift hours to wash them myself. And everyone was grateful about it. XD Its nothing wrong with wanting to be alone and have your own space sometimes. But .... I dunno about doing dishes. Thats one chore I hate. I will do almost anything else but the dishes. 1
tsar4 Posted March 8, 2020 Posted March 8, 2020 15 hours ago, jackiemarie90 said: Apparently, everyone else knew this about me too. >__> Why ya'll didn't say anything? That I think too much about shit and tend to ruin things cause of this. It's not just friends, my psychiatrist was saying this. Knowing doesn't make it better tho. -__- Didn't a few of us tell you to talk to "camo guy" instead of initally fretting about the whole relationship thing? 1
jackiemarie90 Posted March 8, 2020 Author Posted March 8, 2020 7 minutes ago, Vamped said: Its nothing wrong with wanting to be alone and have your own space sometimes. But .... I dunno about doing dishes. Thats one chore I hate. I will do almost anything else but the dishes. I've done dishes by hand I feel like my whole life cause I've never had a dishwasher. XD So to me it doesn't feel like a big deal. lol But I really did it cause I wanted to cook some french toast for myself for breakfast, but there was literally no clean dishes at all. Plus I'm living in a student co-op right now, and we all have to put in at least 5 hours of workshifts a week to keep the rent low. And today was fine day if we were behind in hours. And that 1 hour I think prevents me from getting fined. >__> 1
jackiemarie90 Posted March 8, 2020 Author Posted March 8, 2020 2 minutes ago, tsar4 said: Didn't a few of us tell you to talk to "camo guy" instead of initally fretting about the whole relationship thing? I actually did talk to him recently. We basically are just friends in the same class right now. But I'm starting to see that he is really, really right winged. >__> Like he is obsessed with watching right opinion youtube videos and always on the conservative page on reddit. I kinda feel bad that he prefers this echo chamber because it doesn't make him happy, it just makes me him want to be angry at something new everyday. But it's his life and I've been having fun on the bumble dating app. XD 1
cyberbully Posted March 9, 2020 Posted March 9, 2020 (edited) 1 hour ago, jackiemarie90 said: Since I tend to sabotage man relationships in my life by doing this, I'm gonna try to work to be better. XD Ohhhhhhh, you're trying NOT to sabotage shit....Well, I'm out of idea Like literally 1 idea. Edited March 9, 2020 by cyberbully 3
scoobdog Posted March 11, 2020 Posted March 11, 2020 I just kind of assumed you were aware that you were overthinking before. Overthinking things isn't exactly a problem unless it stops you from pursuing a meaningful interaction. If you hadn't "overthought" Camo dude, you might have been wrapped up in a really toxic relationship. 1
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