See, you're not really getting it. Talking about foreplay when you don't really know much about it is seriously off-putting. It's, like gpcat says, skeezy and it is a form of molestation when you're talking about foreplay with a woman you're not intimate with. You can defend it all you like, but how other people interpret what you say is as important as what you mean: if a woman thinks what you're saying is sneezy and molesty, you should probably take her at her word.