i've said it before to you, i will say it again. see a female apothecary.
i'm not the biggest advocate for alternative medicine, in fact i think many who are, are usually fucking crazy people. i just know that since i hit rock bottom in dealing with the mental and emotional effects pms was having on me, i had one make me a couple tinctures for it and that shit worked. after a couple of years, all it took was one last desperate attempt and i've been almost 100% free from any of that bullshit since july.
not saying it will definitely help you, just saying that despite my great amount of skepticism, it definitely helped me.