I don't have any lip gloss but might buy some at some point.
I've also had people tell me that in the year since I started transitioning, my facial features have softened. I didn't start with, say, a square jaw, though. The features I started with were pretty androgynous; I've had people tell me I look younger than I really am. My mom, grandparents, aunts, and therapists have noticed the most changes to my face.