Heshi Posted August 26, 2023 Share Posted August 26, 2023 So for trans women, when does it go from being shirtless to being topless? Meow... 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mix Posted August 26, 2023 Share Posted August 26, 2023 I...don't think you're allowed to ask that question. At the very least, i'm not allowed to answer it. This feels like a trap. A booby trap. I'm in trouble, aren't I? 1 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lynnrael Posted August 26, 2023 Share Posted August 26, 2023 i already feel pretty weird about being topless around others and, well, i just thought of it as topless so i guess I'm already there. for me it started as soon as my boobs started getting really tender and i could feel them growing. that tenderness made it so much more real, i guess. it's one thing to know you'll have boobs but it's a whole different thing to feel them growing. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vela Posted August 26, 2023 Share Posted August 26, 2023 35 minutes ago, Lynnrael said: i already feel pretty weird about being topless around others and, well, i just thought of it as topless so i guess I'm already there. for me it started as soon as my boobs started getting really tender and i could feel them growing. that tenderness made it so much more real, i guess. it's one thing to know you'll have boobs but it's a whole different thing to feel them growing. I think this is a good answer. It becomes topless when you become self-aware *nods*. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heshi Posted August 26, 2023 Author Share Posted August 26, 2023 7 hours ago, Mix said: I...don't think you're allowed to ask that question. At the very least, i'm not allowed to answer it. This feels like a trap. A booby trap. I'm in trouble, aren't I? I've been on estrogen for a month so it seems like a decent enough question meow 🤪 also teeheehee booby Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heshi Posted August 26, 2023 Author Share Posted August 26, 2023 7 hours ago, Lynnrael said: i already feel pretty weird about being topless around others and, well, i just thought of it as topless so i guess I'm already there. for me it started as soon as my boobs started getting really tender and i could feel them growing. that tenderness made it so much more real, i guess. it's one thing to know you'll have boobs but it's a whole different thing to feel them growing. I had gynecomastia before I started my transition, so I always had some boobs meow but they have reshaped so much in the last month it's crazy. But yeah feeling them grow is definitely an experience. I always wore a shirt to the pool and beach, cause being a teen "boy" with boobs is really awkward... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lynnrael Posted August 26, 2023 Share Posted August 26, 2023 4 hours ago, Heshi said: I had gynecomastia before I started my transition, so I always had some boobs meow but they have reshaped so much in the last month it's crazy. But yeah feeling them grow is definitely an experience. I always wore a shirt to the pool and beach, cause being a teen "boy" with boobs is really awkward... same here, i was always chubby as a teen and had gynecomastia too, so i kinda never wanted to take my shirt off around others in the first place either. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heshi Posted August 26, 2023 Author Share Posted August 26, 2023 1 hour ago, Lynnrael said: same here, i was always chubby as a teen and had gynecomastia too, so i kinda never wanted to take my shirt off around others in the first place either. I'm probably close to a C cup so not wearing a bra just seems wrong meow. But it's like a billion degrees and I'm so emotional right now so ahhhh woo girl power 🙃 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lynnrael Posted August 26, 2023 Share Posted August 26, 2023 1 hour ago, Heshi said: I'm probably close to a C cup so not wearing a bra just seems wrong meow. But it's like a billion degrees and I'm so emotional right now so ahhhh woo girl power 🙃 i only have the one sports bra for the gym, i need more but they cost money and the process of finding one that fits is not fun. i definitely need to buy more because it's kinda obvious even though i pretty much always boy mode at work. the emotional changes are fun. honestly i love how often i can make myself cry happy tears after trying not to feel anything for so long. it can be rough though, i had to grieve a lot of things i thought i was done grieving because all the feelings are so much harder to ignore. its a good thing, but still difficult at times. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heshi Posted August 27, 2023 Author Share Posted August 27, 2023 2 hours ago, Lynnrael said: i only have the one sports bra for the gym, i need more but they cost money and the process of finding one that fits is not fun. i definitely need to buy more because it's kinda obvious even though i pretty much always boy mode at work. the emotional changes are fun. honestly i love how often i can make myself cry happy tears after trying not to feel anything for so long. it can be rough though, i had to grieve a lot of things i thought i was done grieving because all the feelings are so much harder to ignore. its a good thing, but still difficult at times. Aww sorry meow, I actually got a bunch of hand me down bras from my mom 😮 I always wore my emotions on my sleeve but wow are they getting way more intense. That sounds rough 🥺 Indeed meow. I bought some bras while I was enlisted and I'm getting pretty close to being small enough to wear them, they're C cups so if I can get the bands latched soon then yay ... I think I lost track of what I was talking about somewhere back there, hopefully it doesn't get hit by traffic... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doom Metal Alchemist Posted August 27, 2023 Share Posted August 27, 2023 I don't know if anyone wants the opinion of a cis-het man such as myself, but..... IMO, they day you openly declared yourself a woman, that's when it changed from shirtless to topless. Also, if you are around other people with your boobs out, how are they going to interpret that? ("She's showing me her boobs.... does she want me?") 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1pooh4u Posted August 27, 2023 Share Posted August 27, 2023 Idk all I do know is there shouldn’t be a difference. my breasts are no more sexual an object than that of any man. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted August 27, 2023 Share Posted August 27, 2023 9 hours ago, Doom Metal Alchemist said: I don't know if anyone wants the opinion of a cis-het man such as myself, but..... IMO, they day you openly declared yourself a woman, that's when it changed from shirtless to topless. Also, if you are around other people with your boobs out, how are they going to interpret that? ("She's showing me her boobs.... does she want me?") Hopefully that’s not a widespread cis het male opinion. Guys do sexualize female breasts, but it’s supposed to be in context of intimacy. It should be no different than sexualizing her neck - an exposed body part is not an invitation to sexualize it (edit: on its own). In an intimate encounter, sexualizing a body part is an extension of the overall appreciation of and desire for the human being it’s connected to. So, Doomy, if you see a pair of tits, you should interpret that as she doesn’t want her tits crushed inside a bra. And don’t stare while you’re thinking about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
André Toulon Posted August 27, 2023 Share Posted August 27, 2023 (edited) I'm glad you took the helm for this because I think doomer is mostly innocent in this but he's presenting it in a very odd way... After the baby thing, I'm just thinking he just kinda says things without thinking about how he comes off when he says it despite it coming from a completely innocent place. Edited August 27, 2023 by André Toulon 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heshi Posted August 27, 2023 Author Share Posted August 27, 2023 Skynd is about the only band I feel bad about liking, the whole serial killer based lyrics aren't exactly in the best taste meow, but dammit the songs are neat... yeah awkward thoughts not just thought... the og one though it probably doesn't even matter as I never went around without a shirt in public, though in basic training I tied the towel above my boobs after those awkward group showers... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
[classic swim] Posted August 27, 2023 Share Posted August 27, 2023 The thread title is missing a ‘meow’ at the end! 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heshi Posted August 27, 2023 Author Share Posted August 27, 2023 1 hour ago, [classic swim] said: The thread title is missing a ‘meow’ at the end! Or I could have made it painful for all and said meowkward🤪 meow 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1pooh4u Posted August 27, 2023 Share Posted August 27, 2023 (edited) 13 hours ago, Doom Metal Alchemist said: I don't know if anyone wants the opinion of a cis-het man such as myself, but..... IMO, they day you openly declared yourself a woman, that's when it changed from shirtless to topless. Also, if you are around other people with your boobs out, how are they going to interpret that? ("She's showing me her boobs.... does she want me?") Jfc wow this is why people don’t want the cis het male opinion cuz they say stuff like this anyway it’s the nipple that’s magically makes women bad you can have your tits out but cover them nips or else! 🫠 Edited August 27, 2023 by 1pooh4u 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heshi Posted August 27, 2023 Author Share Posted August 27, 2023 1 hour ago, 1pooh4u said: Jfc wow this is why people don’t want the cis het male opinion cuz they say stuff like this anyway it’s the nipple that’s magically makes women bad you can have your tits out but cover them nips or else! 🫠 Uh oh meow I don't have any nipple paisties 😮 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
discolé monade Posted August 27, 2023 Share Posted August 27, 2023 1 hour ago, 1pooh4u said: Jfc wow this is why people don’t want the cis het male opinion cuz they say stuff like this anyway it’s the nipple that’s magically makes women bad you can have your tits out but cover them nips or else! 🫠 the lingerie bar i worked at, made us wear bandaids. because lingerie should show NO NIPPLES. side boob, fine. side boob with a nip poke. GTFO! 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1pooh4u Posted August 28, 2023 Share Posted August 28, 2023 3 hours ago, discolé monade said: the lingerie bar i worked at, made us wear bandaids. because lingerie should show NO NIPPLES. side boob, fine. side boob with a nip poke. GTFO! You can walk naked on Times Square wearing body paint but don’t cover a nipple, miss a little with the paint? You’re getting hit with an indecent exposure charge although I think in NYS women might be able to be topless on beaches I gotta look into that 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1pooh4u Posted August 28, 2023 Share Posted August 28, 2023 3 hours ago, Heshi said: Uh oh meow I don't have any nipple paisties 😮 Uh oh you better get some or band aides or you can use your hair if it’s long enough 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1pooh4u Posted August 28, 2023 Share Posted August 28, 2023 Yes we can DeBlasio tried going after the desnudas and learned he couldn’t do nothing https://www.npr.org/sections/thetwo-way/2015/08/24/434315957/topless-in-new-york-the-legal-case-that-makes-going-top-free-legal-ish 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heshi Posted August 28, 2023 Author Share Posted August 28, 2023 38 minutes ago, 1pooh4u said: Uh oh you better get some or band aides or you can use your hair if it’s long enough My hair is rather long meow, wow that was close ... 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1pooh4u Posted August 28, 2023 Share Posted August 28, 2023 30 minutes ago, Heshi said: My hair is rather long meow, wow that was close ... You’re so friggin adorable I think you’re the cutest person to never get on my nerves. idk cute people usually annoy me, but never you 😅 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heshi Posted August 28, 2023 Author Share Posted August 28, 2023 Awwz meow make a girl blush, My old font probably annoyed most of the ASMB 😄 3 minutes ago, 1pooh4u said: You’re so friggin adorable I think you’re the cutest person to never get on my nerves. idk cute people usually annoy me, but never you 😅 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heshi Posted August 28, 2023 Author Share Posted August 28, 2023 Just now, Heshi said: Awwz meow make a girl blush, My old font probably annoyed most of the ASMB 😄 I actually use my old ASMB font on the transgender pulse forum meow... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1pooh4u Posted August 28, 2023 Share Posted August 28, 2023 28 minutes ago, Heshi said: I actually use my old ASMB font on the transgender pulse forum meow... Was that the green cursive or the red? or maybe I’m thinking of someone else completely but you’re pretty rememberable Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heshi Posted August 28, 2023 Author Share Posted August 28, 2023 1 hour ago, 1pooh4u said: Was that the green cursive or the red? or maybe I’m thinking of someone else completely but you’re pretty rememberable teh heshi font is Bold Comic Sans in FF0066 (kinda raspberry) and how I miss it for here meow Thanks Meow, I was probably the "loudest" of the trans girls 🤪🤪 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doom Metal Alchemist Posted August 28, 2023 Share Posted August 28, 2023 16 hours ago, 1pooh4u said: Jfc wow this is why people don’t want the cis het male opinion cuz they say stuff like this anyway it’s the nipple that’s magically makes women bad you can have your tits out but cover them nips or else! 🫠 ROFL I can't believe I'm being chastised for describing society's expectations. I never said they were right, that's just what they are. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
André Toulon Posted August 28, 2023 Share Posted August 28, 2023 (edited) 28 minutes ago, Doom Metal Alchemist said: ROFL I can't believe I'm being chastised for describing society's expectations. I never said they were right, that's just what they are. Well, I'm cis and hetero and if I saw a woman with her tits out my first thoughts would be she's hot AF (from the temperature...I hate i needed to come back and edit this in lest we go further), or she's tweaking...but we've led very different lives....at no point would I think she wants me to ravage her.....Unless we were in an intimate setting, and not even at her house, drinking a beer is an intimate setting unless we are dating. It's just odd that you automatically go there but it's whatever with me...I'm used to it now Edited August 28, 2023 by André Toulon 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doom Metal Alchemist Posted August 28, 2023 Share Posted August 28, 2023 (edited) 16 minutes ago, André Toulon said: Well, I'm cis and hetero and if I saw a woman with her tits out my first thoughts would be she's hot AF, or she's tweaking...but we've led very different lives....at no point would I think she wants me to ravage her.....Unless we were in an intimate setting, and not even at her house, drinking a beer is an intimate setting unless we are dating. It's just odd that you automatically go there but it's whatever with me...I'm used to it now Just in case there's a misunderstanding here: I'm not saying MY reaction would be "does she want me?" It just seems like a reaction a lot of men could have. Secondly, I never stated the interpreted signal would be for her to get ravished... More like heavy flirting.... Edited August 28, 2023 by Doom Metal Alchemist Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1pooh4u Posted August 28, 2023 Share Posted August 28, 2023 49 minutes ago, Doom Metal Alchemist said: ROFL I can't believe I'm being chastised for describing society's expectations. I never said they were right, that's just what they are. No you spoke YOUR opinion stop trying to shift the goal posts. IYO as soon as someone declares their womanhood it goes from shirtless to topless and then spit out the grossest take as though that’s what all guys think, including yourself, so please 🙄 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doom Metal Alchemist Posted August 28, 2023 Share Posted August 28, 2023 2 minutes ago, 1pooh4u said: No you spoke YOUR opinion stop trying to shift the goal posts. IYO as soon as someone declares their womanhood it goes from shirtless to topless and then spit out the grossest take as though that’s what all guys think, including yourself, so please 🙄 IMO, society would dictate.... And I never said all guys would think that way, it was just an example. 17 hours ago, 1pooh4u said: anyway it’s the nipple that’s magically makes women bad you can have your tits out but cover them nips or else! I literally never said this, you just shoved words into my mouth. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
André Toulon Posted August 28, 2023 Share Posted August 28, 2023 22 minutes ago, Doom Metal Alchemist said: I literally never said this, you just shoved words into my mouth. That was an after thought...I don't think that was directed at you. But doomer, you add these global intentions to rather benign acts. Did you know it actually legal to go tits out in Oklahoma...totally fucking legal. They do it quite often at the lake here but usually after dark and in the parts of the park that stay open after dark because of kids, but if you go out there and tell a woman she might want to cover up or some man might think she's coming on to him, I guarantee the rednecks will tattoo your ass for it. I'm not trying to vilify you here....but you seriously might wanna get out more. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
discolé monade Posted August 28, 2023 Share Posted August 28, 2023 13 hours ago, 1pooh4u said: You’re so friggin adorable I think you’re the cutest person to never get on my nerves. idk cute people usually annoy me, but never you 😅 the jury is still out. BUT, i'm not mad mad. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heshi Posted August 28, 2023 Author Share Posted August 28, 2023 Welp teh heshi done went and caused shit to get started meow... I like boobies... 🙃 Meow 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
André Toulon Posted August 28, 2023 Share Posted August 28, 2023 1 hour ago, Heshi said: Welp teh heshi done went and caused shit to get started meow... I like boobies... 🙃 Meow Pooh or katt can splice it out when they have time if you ask. I'll take the fall for this one...I can never let shit go. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heshi Posted August 28, 2023 Author Share Posted August 28, 2023 14 minutes ago, André Toulon said: Pooh or katt can splice it out when they have time if you ask. I'll take the fall for this one...I can never let shit go. Constipation is bad mkay meow... 🤪 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1pooh4u Posted August 28, 2023 Share Posted August 28, 2023 4 hours ago, Doom Metal Alchemist said: IMO, society would dictate.... And I never said all guys would think that way, it was just an example. I literally never said this, you just shoved words into my mouth. I literally didn’t say you said that nor did I “put words in your mouth” “anyway” indicates an aside or afterthought the rest is solely on you 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1pooh4u Posted August 28, 2023 Share Posted August 28, 2023 14 hours ago, Heshi said: teh heshi font is Bold Comic Sans in FF0066 (kinda raspberry) and how I miss it for here meow Thanks Meow, I was probably the "loudest" of the trans girls 🤪🤪 I always thought you were a cat-girl 😅 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heshi Posted August 28, 2023 Author Share Posted August 28, 2023 50 minutes ago, 1pooh4u said: I always thought you were a cat-girl 😅 Teeheehee meow I'll take it as a compliment meow 😄 would you believe I don't actually own any cat ears 😮 But I meow all the time even off the internet, I actually have to remind myself not to do it with Veterans Affairs correspondence meow 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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1pooh4u Posted August 28, 2023 Share Posted August 28, 2023 1 hour ago, Heshi said: Teeheehee meow I'll take it as a compliment meow 😄 would you believe I don't actually own any cat ears 😮 But I meow all the time even off the internet, I actually have to remind myself not to do it with Veterans Affairs correspondence meow I actually don’t believe you don’t own cat ears 😆 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1pooh4u Posted August 28, 2023 Share Posted August 28, 2023 36 minutes ago, discolé monade said: : | I take it that’s your “I had enough face” or perhaps “get off my lawn” face 😆 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heshi Posted August 28, 2023 Author Share Posted August 28, 2023 51 minutes ago, 1pooh4u said: I actually don’t believe you don’t own cat ears 😆 Teeheehee I can't think of any meow 😮 My sister has fox ears I think... ( I don't think disco mona lieks me) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
discolé monade Posted August 28, 2023 Share Posted August 28, 2023 1 hour ago, 1pooh4u said: I take it that’s your “I had enough face” or perhaps “get off my lawn” face 😆 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heshi Posted August 28, 2023 Author Share Posted August 28, 2023 1 hour ago, discolé monade said: Smoke a bowl, that sounds weird meow. Aren't bowls normally for food 🥺 oh water duh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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