PhilosipherStoned Posted May 1, 2020 Share Posted May 1, 2020 Apparently because I'm not practically throwing myself at her like she is me she thinks I'm not even interested. I mean I am but christ we just met in person for the first time a few days ago. I am interested, but what she doesn't understand is baggage or no baggage or whether or not shes a 1 or a 10.999 on the scale that's just not me. I have to be honest though I don't even know how to relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vamped Posted May 1, 2020 Share Posted May 1, 2020 Ive showed you my pregnant belly, pls respond 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted May 1, 2020 Author Share Posted May 1, 2020 I guess were ok now, but she actually had me feeling like a jerk half the morning.. She even made a spill saying "I know I'm pregnant, but that doesn't mean I can't be the best girlfriend you ever had.. or something to that effect. She apologized for all that just now and said she's really impatient when it comes to getting things she wants.. Red Flags.. Sadly I've probably dated women with way more idk. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted May 1, 2020 Author Share Posted May 1, 2020 5 minutes ago, Vamped said: Ive showed you my pregnant belly, pls respond Welp you found it. My uncontrollable kink. Plz flood my inbox. Spoiler Jk. For the love of...just don't I know someone might actually do it or something. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Distortedreasoning Posted May 1, 2020 Share Posted May 1, 2020 run away and never come back. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
molarbear Posted May 1, 2020 Share Posted May 1, 2020 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cyberbully Posted May 1, 2020 Share Posted May 1, 2020 Dude, she's tryin' to fuck and you over here being all Ross and shit. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted May 2, 2020 Author Share Posted May 2, 2020 (edited) 28 minutes ago, cyberbully said: Dude, she's tryin' to fuck and you over here being all Ross and shit. Yeah I honestly think you're right. Pretty sure she wants to fuck tonight. Here's one thing though.. If a woman walks up to me up and tells me hey you're getting me hot are you dtf? That thits differently than when someone you've never even met once and who has only talked to you on social media about how much they're crushin' over you wonders why you don't want to fuck them on the first encounter when they've been hinting at wanting a relationship together.. Especially taking into consideration all the shit she's got going on.. Those messages she sent me this morning were apparently triggered by the fact I said "and we still pretty much don't know shit about each other yet." Again like I said.. If she told me she just wanted to fuck and didn't even want a relationship I probably wouldn't even worry about it. Guess I'll just keep my running shows laced up for now. Edited May 2, 2020 by PhilosipherStoned Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cyberbully Posted May 2, 2020 Share Posted May 2, 2020 Girl: Look, if we're not gonna fuck, I'll just leave you alone Phil Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vamped Posted May 2, 2020 Share Posted May 2, 2020 6 minutes ago, PhilosipherStoned said: Yeah I honestly think you're right. Pretty sure she wants to fuck tonight. Here's one thing though.. If a women walks up to me up and tells me hey your getting me hot are you dtf? That thits differently than when someone you've never even met once and only talked on social media wonders why you don't want to fuck them on the first encounter.. Especially taking into consideration all the shit sh'es got going on.. Wait ... are you saying you're more comfortable if a strange woman in the middle of Whole Foods comes up to you for sex vs a social media stranger? ... I'd feel like they're the same amount of danger... they both could potentially be murderers Or men Well ... if thats not what you're into Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted May 2, 2020 Author Share Posted May 2, 2020 (edited) 13 minutes ago, Vamped said: Wait ... are you saying you're more comfortable if a strange woman in the middle of Whole Foods comes up to you for sex vs a social media stranger? ... I'd feel like they're the same amount of danger... they both could potentially be murderers Or men Well ... if thats not what you're into Whole Foods? God no. I kind of had in mind the typical social settings for casual sex when I made that statement. Even then no I'm not going to bang them in the restroom or my car wham bam thank you mam I'm going to try to get to know as much as I can about them with small talk, and if the shit checks out at the end of the night then why not? She had to work in the morning last time she came over or I would've done more than kiss her maybe. I can tell she's bent on getting down and dirty now so I'm going to see how the chemistry is I guess. Not sure what the problem is anyway I thought we all agreed I'm stupid as fuck in the first place for hooking up with this chick anyway. Edited May 2, 2020 by PhilosipherStoned Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted May 2, 2020 Author Share Posted May 2, 2020 23 minutes ago, cyberbully said: Girl: Look, if we're not gonna fuck, I'll just leave you alone Phil I mean I already pretty much told her im single and dtf.. It's all the other shit I'm really ffie on, but I'm not sweating it too much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
discolé monade Posted May 2, 2020 Share Posted May 2, 2020 so...you want to date her, date her. and she wants to......not date. fwb? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vamped Posted May 2, 2020 Share Posted May 2, 2020 30 minutes ago, PhilosipherStoned said: Whole Foods? God no. I kind of had in mind the typical social settings for casual sex when I made that statement. Even then no I'm not going to bang them in the restroom or my car wham bam thank you mam I'm going to try to get to know as much as I can about them with small talk, and if the shit checks out at the end of the night then why not? She had to work in the morning last time she came over or I would've done more than kiss her maybe. I can tell she's bent on getting down and dirty now so I'm going to see how the chemistry is I guess. Not sure what the problem is anyway I thought we all agreed I'm stupid as fuck in the first place for hooking up with this chick anyway. So are you saying nobody else gets hot and bothered at Whole Foods and Furniture Stores? Just me?!?! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted May 2, 2020 Author Share Posted May 2, 2020 (edited) 23 minutes ago, discolemonade said: so...you want to date her, date her. and she wants to......not date. fwb? I'm not sure she knows wtf she wants atm. She says what she wants is me.. as in a relationship I'm just not convinced lol. To me women that are overly sprung and physical in the beginning of a relationship while not knowing much ANYTHING about the other person just kind of add to that suspicion, but I get that could just be her. I made this thread originally because she wants us to have a relationship and kind of seemed triggered when I said "maybe, but we still don't know anything about each other don't you think it's a bit early for that?" Then I guess it turned into me scoffing at free unsolicited sex. Edited May 2, 2020 by PhilosipherStoned Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted May 2, 2020 Author Share Posted May 2, 2020 9 minutes ago, Vamped said: So are you saying nobody else gets hot and bothered at Whole Foods and Furniture Stores? Just me?!?! I mean not whole foods.. Furniture does kind of turn me on a bit I guess. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
discolé monade Posted May 2, 2020 Share Posted May 2, 2020 and you want monogamy? or.... i get what your saying. so what i'm saying is, if all you want to start is dtf/fwb then say that to her. if you're holding out to see what's up...and still want to sex it up, tell her that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted May 2, 2020 Author Share Posted May 2, 2020 Who knows maybe we can mesh.. I'm not going to loose any more sleep over it. She just seemed unreasonably upset by me saying "Idk we really don't know anything about each other "yet". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sawdamizer Posted May 2, 2020 Share Posted May 2, 2020 1 minute ago, PhilosipherStoned said: Who knows maybe we can mesh.. I'm not going to loose any more sleep over it. She just seemed unreasonably upset by me saying "Idk we really don't know anything about each other "yet". Have her send you a dick pic 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted May 2, 2020 Author Share Posted May 2, 2020 1 minute ago, Sawdamizer said: Have her send you a dick pic She said I just left her hot and bothered when I made out with her before she left the other night.. Which was pretty much her idea. I told her she could come over if she wanted to when she got off work. We may not need pics tonight..The prego part is still kind of bothering me.. Not so much that she's pregnant and it's not mine or some vain shit.. Just like I said I've never dated a pregnant chick.. and she is def pregnant and horny. I'm trying not to provide too many details, but this shit is wild. I want to take everything she says at face value and give her the benefit of the doubt, but I would be lying if part of me didn't want to make a poll thread about whether or not she's over me in a few weeks, or she's putting some baby daddy insurance on me.. or if she really is somehow crazy as f about me.. lol at that last one. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cyberbully Posted May 2, 2020 Share Posted May 2, 2020 2 hours ago, PhilosipherStoned said: She said I just left her hot and bothered when I made out with her before she left the other night.. Which was pretty much her idea. I told her she could come over if she wanted to when she got off work. We may not need pics tonight..The prego part is still kind of bothering me.. Not so much that she's pregnant and it's not mine or some vain shit.. Just like I said I've never dated a pregnant chick.. and she is def pregnant and horny. I'm trying not to provide too many details, but this shit is wild. All of this .....lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted May 2, 2020 Author Share Posted May 2, 2020 (edited) 29 minutes ago, cyberbully said: All of this .....lol I can't even buy the shit honestly.. I can't fault you for laughing. A term I probably picked up from you anyway "morbid curiousity" is all thats keeping me going with this I believe. I think now that she's realized just because she acts sprung and hot and bothered I'm not trying to pledge my allegiance to her... She's fucking 26+ and all the hot and horny shit I've been hearing from her still sounds like high school crush bullshit. If it is though she def. no longer is the shy and unconfident person she says she was when she was first crushing on me in high school. I understand this is why you are supposed to leave your hometown after high school now though. Feel free to point Nelson fingers and laugh. I'm not trying to shut this chick down though really I think a lot of it has been real.. I'm just annoyed at the fact she doesn't seem to understand I hated high school crushes... I'd be lying if I said I've never had one, or even 20 of them every fuckin school year.. That's all they are though are crushes. Aptly named supposingly.. I think she decideded not to fuck with me tonight though. Probably a good call. She had to work today and I've just been chilling.. cataloging much more of the situation I'm trying to bring here.. Edited May 2, 2020 by PhilosipherStoned Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted May 2, 2020 Author Share Posted May 2, 2020 (edited) I'm not bothered by any of this of course and I feel a relationship with her is possible, I just don't hold my breath for the bullshit. Also red flags are red flags.. Right now I'm just leaving all of those hanging. As long as you can see them there's no need to collect them. Edited May 2, 2020 by PhilosipherStoned Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cyberbully Posted May 2, 2020 Share Posted May 2, 2020 Ok, I'm kinda baked so what I was laughing at was when you said "we might not need pics tonight" after Sawdy told you to tell her to send a dick pic....You were so nonchalant about it like "I don't need pics, I'm getting that D tonight".....Confidence was spilling ove the brim. But childish jokes aside, I really have no idea what's actually going on here except it SOUNDS like you're scared to smash because you don't want your feelings hurt, and trust me....I'm not laughing at that. You keep using the word relationship and from what I can gather, you don't want to put yourself out there if it's not reciprocated. I miss that aspect of courtship (digging into the 1920s lexicon for terms now) My world is basically get naked or get lost.....I'm jaded af. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gina Szanboti Posted May 2, 2020 Share Posted May 2, 2020 4 hours ago, PhilosipherStoned said: she's putting some baby daddy insurance on me Feels like this to me. I'm wondering what she's afraid you'll find out if you wait to know her better first. I dunno, I'm getting all kinds of set-up vibes here, but that's just going off what you've said, which makes me think you feel that on some level too. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vamped Posted May 2, 2020 Share Posted May 2, 2020 5 hours ago, PhilosipherStoned said: I'm not bothered by any of this of course and I feel a relationship with her is possible, I just don't hold my breath for the bullshit. Also red flags are red flags.. Right now I'm just leaving all of those hanging. As long as you can see them there's no need to collect them. I mean ... usually you wouldn't want to be collecting red flags as you ponder a relationship Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bnmjy Posted May 2, 2020 Share Posted May 2, 2020 Not something I'd ever do, but if you have it in you . . . hit it and quit it. Then you can say you fucked a pregnant chick with a child that wasn't yours. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lupin_bebop Posted May 2, 2020 Share Posted May 2, 2020 She’s pregnant and hormonal as fuck. You're going to have to get used to this shit for more months before she levels out. Then, prepare to be ignored, as baby will come, and that’s all that will matter. Then, prepare for “you can’t do this right, so how can I expect you to take care of me/family” bullshit. Then, after that, if you haven’t killed yourself, left, or died, she sounds like an emotionally high maintenance person, so constantly having to prove yourself to her will get stale and annoying. All this to say, GTFO, man. You’re not ready for that time bomb yet. TL;DR: Lace up those running shoes and make like Usain Bolt. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhilosipherStoned Posted May 2, 2020 Author Share Posted May 2, 2020 3 hours ago, lupin_bebop said: She’s pregnant and hormonal as fuck. You're going to have to get used to this shit for more months before she levels out. Then, prepare to be ignored, as baby will come, and that’s all that will matter. Then, prepare for “you can’t do this right, so how can I expect you to take care of me/family” bullshit. Then, after that, if you haven’t killed yourself, left, or died, she sounds like an emotionally high maintenance person, so constantly having to prove yourself to her will get stale and annoying. All this to say, GTFO, man. You’re not ready for that time bomb yet. TL;DR: Lace up those running shoes and make like Usain Bolt. sound reasoning bro. 😪 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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