jackiemarie90 Posted February 23, 2020 Share Posted February 23, 2020 Lets just say on Vday, we were hanging out, a fight broke out, and I got him to admit that he doesn't care about me. And this has been bothering me for awhile, so much so, that I left at 2am to walk home from his place cause I just hate hanging out with people who don't like me. Anyways, mentioned it to him today, and of course he got upset, started texting his roommate all these bad things about me, so now she hates me. lmaooooooo I mean I saw that one coming a mile away, I knew she liked him even though she already has a partner. But today I asked him if he wanted to work on the project in my room, to which he said he didn't think he could not concentrate in my room. Now, I had 4 wisdom teeth removed Wednesday, kinda in some extreme pain, thought, "hey if a friend cares, they would make the walk". Instead of me ALWAYS walking back and forward from his place, especially at night. Well, we he said he didn't want to, I kinda snapped, and tried to explain myself but now everyone hates me like always. So we are in a place not so new, thinking of switching around my classes, cause honestly it just hurts how little I mean to people. Especially when they get to know me. lmaoooo 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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jackiemarie90 Posted February 23, 2020 Author Share Posted February 23, 2020 1 minute ago, Kudasai said: Hopefully these vibes are for the long run, cause I don't feel much down here right now. lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katt_goddess Posted February 23, 2020 Share Posted February 23, 2020 Camo guy is a dink. He'll eventually turn on his roommate too. Don't let that clown get you down. Chances are you were the real brains on the projects and his stuff will start to tank without you. So just you keep being the smart you we all already know you are and let him drown. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted February 23, 2020 Author Share Posted February 23, 2020 3 minutes ago, katt_goddess said: Camo guy is a dink. He'll eventually turn on his roommate too. Don't let that clown get you down. Chances are you were the real brains on the projects and his stuff will start to tank without you. So just you keep being the smart you we all already know you are and let him drown. I wish that was the case, but he knows how to write code better, he gets multiple cS tutors, his roommate is one, and I’m alone with this shit like everything in life. Lol The only thing I am, is mentally stronger than his weak ass. I’ve always had to be. I’m used to people treating me like shit, everyone ganging up on me. It’s the same story since middle school and high school. But today, I felt some strength thinking, “Remember how helpless you were as child when everyone hated you, remember that sad, abused little girl Jackie? You are so much stronger than back then, and you owe it to her to fight back this time. You already made it at this school, now fight for her sake” I know it sounds lame, but I can’t repeat the mistakes of my past, and someone has to stand up for me, even if it’s me. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DragonSinger Posted February 23, 2020 Share Posted February 23, 2020 50 minutes ago, jackiemarie90 said: Lets just say on Vday, we were hanging out, a fight broke out, and I got him to admit that he doesn't care about me. And this has been bothering me for awhile, so much so, that I left at 2am to walk home from his place cause I just hate hanging out with people who don't like me. Anyways, mentioned it to him today, and of course he got upset, started texting his roommate all these bad things about me, so now she hates me. lmaooooooo I mean I saw that one coming a mile away, I knew she liked him even though she already has a partner. But today I asked him if he wanted to work on the project in my room, to which he said he didn't think he could not concentrate in my room. Now, I had 4 wisdom teeth removed Wednesday, kinda in some extreme pain, thought, "hey if a friend cares, they would make the walk". Instead of me ALWAYS walking back and forward from his place, especially at night. Well, we he said he didn't want to, I kinda snapped, and tried to explain myself but now everyone hates me like always. So we are in a place not so new, thinking of switching around my classes, cause honestly it just hurts how little I mean to people. Especially when they get to know me. lmaoooo This is why fuckbois and group projects suck. I know you're yearning for human company, but being forced to walk home at 2 a.m. ain't worth that shit. Please start putting your feelings above others because we want you to be safe. Is there a convenient area close to your dorm that you can work from? If dude whines about it, be insistent about your safety. Also, is there anyone to talk to at your school about this? 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted February 23, 2020 Author Share Posted February 23, 2020 1 minute ago, DragonSinger said: This is why fuckbois and group projects suck. I know you're yearning for human company, but being forced to walk home at 2 a.m. ain't worth that shit. Please start putting your feelings above others because we want you to be safe. Is there a convenient area close to your dorm that you can work from? If dude whines about it, be insistent about your safety. Also, is there anyone to talk to at your school about this? That’s the worse part. We met at system impacted prep class where all of us had some kind trauma in life and had to overcome a lot to get into this school. I would love to tell the instructor about this guy, but they are close friends, this guy is a mentor for other students in class. Saying something could ruin his life, and I don’t want that. But I also think he shouldn’t be around other women. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
discolé monade Posted February 23, 2020 Share Posted February 23, 2020 please don't ever think you're not worth it. fuck that dude. i'm sorry, i don't have any other words. i hope that you don't ever find yourself having to walk home. alone. at 0200. it's just not safe. if it means anything...like at all, sending you all the good vibes, and hope that you can get over this hurdle as well. 3 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted February 23, 2020 Author Share Posted February 23, 2020 7 minutes ago, discolemonade said: please don't ever think you're not worth it. fuck that dude. i'm sorry, i don't have any other words. i hope that you don't ever find yourself having to walk home. alone. at 0200. it's just not safe. if it means anything...like at all, sending you all the good vibes, and hope that you can get over this hurdle as well. I appreciate any well wishes or prayers from people. Even if I don't fully believe in it, I also know that I don't know shit about the universe so who am I to say what helps and what doesn't? lol Thank you ❤️ 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DragonSinger Posted February 23, 2020 Share Posted February 23, 2020 15 minutes ago, jackiemarie90 said: That’s the worse part. We met at system impacted prep class where all of us had some kind trauma in life and had to overcome a lot to get into this school. I would love to tell the instructor about this guy, but they are close friends, this guy is a mentor for other students in class. Saying something could ruin his life, and I don’t want that. But I also think he shouldn’t be around other women. I know you don't want to do it, but fuck him and his friends. Your safety is the priority. I wish I could hug you and let you absorb some of my bitchiness because there's plenty. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted February 23, 2020 Author Share Posted February 23, 2020 5 minutes ago, DragonSinger said: I know you don't want to do it, but fuck him and his friends. Your safety is the priority. I wish I could hug you and let you absorb some of my bitchiness because there's plenty. I mean, I be tripping sometimes too, I guess I wouldn't want someone to out me because I made them feel a certain way. Idk, I'm always in the mind of others. I need to be focused on caring for myself. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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jackiemarie90 Posted February 23, 2020 Author Share Posted February 23, 2020 1 minute ago, Vamped said: For real! I keep telling myself this but it's hard work. lol Thinking about buying that book, "The art of not giving a fuck" cause I really have trouble in that area. 😂 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vamped Posted February 23, 2020 Share Posted February 23, 2020 9 minutes ago, DragonSinger said: I know you don't want to do it, but fuck him and his friends. Your safety is the priority. I wish I could hug you and let you absorb some of my bitchiness because there's plenty. Girl same. Nothing turns me into a bitch faster than people fucking with my peeps. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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jackiemarie90 Posted February 23, 2020 Author Share Posted February 23, 2020 44 minutes ago, Mix said: I’m so happy I did not sleep him. I thank whoever, I never made that mistake. 😂 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lupin_bebop Posted February 23, 2020 Share Posted February 23, 2020 (edited) Don't even need to read this. Didn't bother to. I already know what happened. Found out he was in it for the ass. You think he doesn't care. He kinda doesn't, because of ass getting. Now, you can't work on projects with him, even though he is classmate. You think you have small place in universe, because we are all small in universe. Dick. Pedestal. Pot. Kettle. Pot. I win. Edited February 23, 2020 by lupin_bebop Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sawdamizer Posted February 23, 2020 Share Posted February 23, 2020 1 hour ago, lupin_bebop said: Don't even need to read this. Didn't bother to. I already know what happened. Found out he was in it for the ass. You think he doesn't care. He kinda doesn't, because of ass getting. Now, you can't work on projects with him, even though he is classmate. You think you have small place in universe, because we are all small in universe. Dick. Pedestal. Pot. Kettle. Pot. I win. So... yah clearly you didnt read it... because.... she never fucked him 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted February 23, 2020 Author Share Posted February 23, 2020 (edited) 1 hour ago, lupin_bebop said: Don't even need to read this. Didn't bother to. I already know what happened. Found out he was in it for the ass. You think he doesn't care. He kinda doesn't, because of ass getting. Now, you can't work on projects with him, even though he is classmate. You think you have small place in universe, because we are all small in universe. Dick. Pedestal. Pot. Kettle. Pot. I win. What is with your incessant need to be right in a situation that doesn't need anyone to be right about anything? It kinda shows your insecurities in your arguments, actually, it was a different story. Also remember how I said I knew it was about ass for awhile? He meant that he doesn't care as a friend, or at all. And his roommate, who is also a friend and classmate hates me too. Your arguing style reminds me a lot of Ben Shapiro and camo guy. >__> Edited February 23, 2020 by jackiemarie90 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katt_goddess Posted February 23, 2020 Share Posted February 23, 2020 19 hours ago, jackiemarie90 said: For real! I keep telling myself this but it's hard work. lol Thinking about buying that book, "The art of not giving a fuck" cause I really have trouble in that area. 😂 Booook. Book GOOOOOOD. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lupin_bebop Posted February 24, 2020 Share Posted February 24, 2020 (edited) 5 hours ago, jackiemarie90 said: What is with your incessant need to be right in a situation that doesn't need anyone to be right about anything? It kinda shows your insecurities in your arguments, actually, it was a different story. Also remember how I said I knew it was about ass for awhile? He meant that he doesn't care as a friend, or at all. And his roommate, who is also a friend and classmate hates me too. Your arguing style reminds me a lot of Ben Shapiro and camo guy. >__> . All of this........summed up here. All same answer: Alcohol. Also, don't need to be right. If you keep proving me right, then so be it. I don't care, either way. Just trying to get you to come to the "Not giving a fuck" side of the world. There's plenty of room. Join us. We have LOTS of booze, weed, fun, and strippers. Edited February 24, 2020 by lupin_bebop Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted February 24, 2020 Author Share Posted February 24, 2020 3 minutes ago, lupin_bebop said: . All of this........summed up here. All same answer: Alcohol. Also, don't need to be right. If you keep proving me right, then so be it. I don't care, either way. Just trying to get you to come to the "Not giving a fuck" side of the world. There's plenty of room. Join us. We have LOTS of booze, weed, fun, and strippers. Yes, you really do brah. We all need wins, but constantly declaring yourself right in a situation you know very little about kinda reminds me of Dunning Kruger effect. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lupin_bebop Posted February 24, 2020 Share Posted February 24, 2020 (edited) 15 minutes ago, jackiemarie90 said: Yes, you really do brah. We all need wins, but constantly declaring yourself right in a situation you know very little about kinda reminds me of Dunning Kruger effect. You're more referring to the "Reductio ad absurdum" effect. Your counterpoint is proving/disproving via fallacy. You equated me to 2 people based upon incorrect information. Not just compared, but made the most absurd one, as they are BOTH on the opposite side of the spectrum as me.... I decided to, instead of continuing with my dogged argument that was proven, deflect with my classic non sequitur style. I'm not even really taking it seriously. I never really do very often. I COULD just quote you some song lyrics and leave it there. I at least gave you a little respect and answered the thread. I didn't have to. Edited February 24, 2020 by lupin_bebop Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jackiemarie90 Posted February 24, 2020 Author Share Posted February 24, 2020 (edited) 1 hour ago, lupin_bebop said: You're more referring to the "Reductio ad absurdum" effect. Your counterpoint is proving/disproving via fallacy. You equated me to 2 people based upon incorrect information. Not just compared, but made the most absurd one, as they are BOTH on the opposite side of the spectrum as me.... I decided to, instead of continuing with my dogged argument that was proven, deflect with my classic non sequitur style. I'm not even really taking it seriously. I never really do very often. I COULD just quote you some song lyrics and leave it there. I at least gave you a little respect and answered the thread. I didn't have to. I'm not taking this seriously either. I just the same post of "I win" after every argument that you post, it's kinda ridiculous after the billionth time. And notice how I said kinda in my post as in not an accurate or equal representation, just "kinda". But when I think of those arguers, it isn't about getting to the facts, it's always about winning them. Sophists if you will. Also, I didn't demand responses from specific people, it's the boards on teh internet, that's why I'm talking about my drama, it doesn't matter to much online but more what I do about it later. Edited February 24, 2020 by jackiemarie90 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted February 24, 2020 Share Posted February 24, 2020 That sounds really messy. It seems like a dangerous situation tbh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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