🍬Candy🍬 Posted June 18, 2019 Share Posted June 18, 2019 So i can see how they act Lol But ive been in the closet for so long i have no idea how to say it Tips? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naraku4656 Posted June 18, 2019 Share Posted June 18, 2019 Don't Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bnmjy Posted June 18, 2019 Share Posted June 18, 2019 Flash your hooha and walk out of the job. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
🍬Candy🍬 Posted June 18, 2019 Author Share Posted June 18, 2019 13 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said: Don't I am. Its a throwaway job i only need until September Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted June 18, 2019 Share Posted June 18, 2019 That's a dumb thing to experiment with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
🍬Candy🍬 Posted June 18, 2019 Author Share Posted June 18, 2019 1 hour ago, scoobdog said: That's a dumb thing to experiment with. Why Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
🍬Candy🍬 Posted June 18, 2019 Author Share Posted June 18, 2019 My hypothesis: people will not understand in anyway Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naraku4656 Posted June 18, 2019 Share Posted June 18, 2019 What is there to gain by doing this besides causing strife 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
🍬Candy🍬 Posted June 18, 2019 Author Share Posted June 18, 2019 3 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said: What is there to gain by doing this besides causing strife Prove me right for not telling people i guess Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naraku4656 Posted June 18, 2019 Share Posted June 18, 2019 15 minutes ago, 🍬Candy🍬 said: Prove me right for not telling people i guess Idk I'm of the opinion that the less my co-workers know about me the better. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
🍬Candy🍬 Posted June 18, 2019 Author Share Posted June 18, 2019 4 minutes ago, Naraku4656 said: Idk I'm of the opinion that the less my co-workers know about me the better. There's not much to kno tho...not an insult...just the truth Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
discolé monade Posted June 18, 2019 Share Posted June 18, 2019 so...using your mental 'illness' as a trump card, for...sympathy? what a tool. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
midnight Posted June 18, 2019 Share Posted June 18, 2019 Why do you want to lie to those people about an illness you don't have? As you have said, they make minimum wage. They don't give a shit about you one way or the other. Pretty much how everyone else feels about you. No one fucking cares, shit nugget. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted June 18, 2019 Share Posted June 18, 2019 2 hours ago, 🍬Candy🍬 said: Why Well.... 2 hours ago, 🍬Candy🍬 said: My hypothesis: people will not understand in anyway Which begs the question.... 2 hours ago, Naraku4656 said: What is there to gain by doing this besides causing strife ...and exposing yourself to abuse, all so you can.... 2 hours ago, 🍬Candy🍬 said: Prove me right for not telling people i guess Right? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
discolé monade Posted June 18, 2019 Share Posted June 18, 2019 1 hour ago, midnight said: Why do you want to lie to those people about an illness you don't have? As you have said, they make minimum wage. They don't give a shit about you one way or the other. Pretty much how everyone else feels about you. No one fucking cares, shit nugget. well, hold on skeeter. there IS something wrong with her...just not sure what. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
midnight Posted June 18, 2019 Share Posted June 18, 2019 37 minutes ago, discolemonade said: well, hold on skeeter. there IS something wrong with her...just not sure what. I wouldn't waste one single brain cell giving a shit what's wrong with her. Or damn near anyone else for that matter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mthor Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 Beyond saying "Look at meeeeee!" what's the point? People with other health conditions don't usually make general announcements regarding them. It's usually on a need to know basis I told my supervisors and the providers and other nurses I worked with that I was bipolar because (and I was pretty blunt about it) I can't always tell when I'm starting to cycle, and I wanted them to be able to say "Hey, you're getting really wound up. Do something about it." It was a safety issue; I was responsible for people's health, and the people I discussed it with were professionals with some appreciation of mental illness. I've never told anybody at the library. Why would I? If I get a little hypomanic and scattered, there's not a whole lot of damage I can do there. Unless I need to take a mental health related leave, there's really no reason they need to know. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
midnight Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 7 minutes ago, mthor said: Beyond saying "Look at meeeeee!" what's the point? People with other health conditions don't usually make general announcements regarding them. It's usually on a need to know basis I told my supervisors and the providers and other nurses I worked with that I was bipolar because (and I was pretty blunt about it) I can't always tell when I'm starting to cycle, and I wanted them to be able to say "Hey, you're getting really wound up. Do something about it." It was a safety issue; I was responsible for people's health, and the people I discussed it with were professionals with some appreciation of mental illness. I've never told anybody at the library. Why would I? If I get a little hypomanic and scattered, there's not a whole lot of damage I can do there. Unless I need to take a mental health related leave, there's really no reason they need to know. “Look at me”pretty much sums it up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zombieninjakitten Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 More Borderline Personality Disorder type behavior. Not meant as judgment just through observing posts and threads on the boards. Bipolar and BPD are commonly comorbid but very different. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mthor Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 20 minutes ago, zombieninjakitten said: More Borderline Personality Disorder type behavior. Not meant as judgment just through observing posts and threads on the boards. Bipolar and BPD are commonly comorbid but very different. Yeah. I've read that bipolar and cluster b often go hand in hand. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
discolé monade Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 i was going to say it resembles more of bpd...but really REALLY exaggerated, to the point that it seems fake. *i have someone very close to me that has been diagnosed with bpd* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rogue_Alphonse Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 Oh my GAAAWWWDDDD shut the fuck UP! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zombieninjakitten Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 1 hour ago, 𝙍𝙤𝙜𝙪𝙚𝘼𝙡𝙥𝙝𝙤𝙣𝙨𝙚 said: Oh my GAAAWWWDDDD shut the fuck UP! Sorry, psychology is a field of interest of mine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rogue_Alphonse Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 44 minutes ago, zombieninjakitten said: Sorry, psychology is a field of interest of mine. Oh no, you're fine. This thread is nothing more than an attention grab. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
🍬Candy🍬 Posted June 19, 2019 Author Share Posted June 19, 2019 10 hours ago, zombieninjakitten said: More Borderline Personality Disorder type behavior. Not meant as judgment just through observing posts and threads on the boards. Bipolar and BPD are commonly comorbid but very different. No cuz i dont cut and i dont have major abuse or trauma in my history Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mthor Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 37 minutes ago, 🍬Candy🍬 said: No cuz i dont cut and i dont have major abuse or trauma in my history But you have talked about abuse. And cutting isn't the only form of self-harm out there. Besides, bpd isn't the only cluster b diagnosis. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
🍬Candy🍬 Posted June 19, 2019 Author Share Posted June 19, 2019 3 minutes ago, mthor said: But you have talked about abuse. And cutting isn't the only form of self-harm out there. Besides, bpd isn't the only cluster b diagnosis. i have no MAJOR abuse that would affect me in that way. im close to someone with borderline and she has all the symptoms and im nothing like her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
🍬Candy🍬 Posted June 19, 2019 Author Share Posted June 19, 2019 she was sexually abused Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doom Metal Alchemist Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 I would advise instead of making some kind of announcement, just don't conceal you are bipolar if the issue arises. Like someone wants to know why you are acting a certain way, or you had to take a mental health day, the topic of you being on meds causing your weight gain, I don't know, something like that. I'm not at all afraid to tell people I'm bipolar, but 99.9999999% I do it's because someone's pressuring me to drink alcohol. I tell them I don't drink, they ask why, I tell them I take medication that I'm not supposed to drink while I'm taking it, they ask what it's for, I tell them it's for bipolar disorder. IMO there's nothing really to hide, but it's not something to make an announcement about either. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
🍬Candy🍬 Posted June 19, 2019 Author Share Posted June 19, 2019 48 minutes ago, Doom Metal Alchemist said: I would advise instead of making some kind of announcement, just don't conceal you are bipolar if the issue arises. Like someone wants to know why you are acting a certain way, or you had to take a mental health day, the topic of you being on meds causing your weight gain, I don't know, something like that. I'm not at all afraid to tell people I'm bipolar, but 99.9999999% I do it's because someone's pressuring me to drink alcohol. I tell them I don't drink, they ask why, I tell them I take medication that I'm not supposed to drink while I'm taking it, they ask what it's for, I tell them it's for bipolar disorder. IMO there's nothing really to hide, but it's not something to make an announcement about either. Who said anything abt going about it in such a ridiculous way? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bnmjy Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 50 minutes ago, Doom Metal Alchemist said: I would advise instead of making some kind of announcement, just don't conceal you are bipolar if the issue arises. Like someone wants to know why you are acting a certain way, or you had to take a mental health day, the topic of you being on meds causing your weight gain, I don't know, something like that. I'm not at all afraid to tell people I'm bipolar, but 99.9999999% I do it's because someone's pressuring me to drink alcohol. I tell them I don't drink, they ask why, I tell them I take medication that I'm not supposed to drink while I'm taking it, they ask what it's for, I tell them it's for bipolar disorder. IMO there's nothing really to hide, but it's not something to make an announcement about either. You can just say an antidepressant, and if they press further, say Prozac. I think there's less stigma to mere depression. Unless, of course, you'd rather not lie like this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doom Metal Alchemist Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 1 minute ago, 🍬Candy🍬 said: Who said anything abt going about it in such a ridiculous way? I didn't literally mean you barging into a room shouting, "LISTEN UP EVERYONE, I HAVE AN ANNOUNCEMENT TO MAKE!" The way you worded the OP made it sound like you plan on bringing it up out of nowhere and that is all I am advising against. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doom Metal Alchemist Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 Just now, bnmjy said: You can just say an antidepressant, and if they press further, say Prozac. I think there's less stigma to mere depression. Unless, of course, you'd rather not lie like this. I'm not even ashamed, man. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
🍬Candy🍬 Posted June 19, 2019 Author Share Posted June 19, 2019 (edited) 34 minutes ago, Doom Metal Alchemist said: I didn't literally mean you barging into a room shouting, "LISTEN UP EVERYONE, I HAVE AN ANNOUNCEMENT TO MAKE!" The way you worded the OP made it sound like you plan on bringing it up out of nowhere and that is all I am advising against. what youre insinuating is still stupid. i m not an idiot like most of the people here. do not insult my intelligence. Edited June 19, 2019 by 🍬Candy🍬 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doom Metal Alchemist Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 Just now, 🍬Candy🍬 said: what youre insinuating is still stupid. i m not an idiot like most of the people here. do not insult my intelligence. Get up on the wrong side of the bed today? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
🍬Candy🍬 Posted June 19, 2019 Author Share Posted June 19, 2019 2 minutes ago, Doom Metal Alchemist said: Get up on the wrong side of the bed today? im tired of the stupidity of this place Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
discolé monade Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 1 hour ago, Doom Metal Alchemist said: I didn't literally mean you barging into a room shouting, "LISTEN UP EVERYONE, I HAVE AN ANNOUNCEMENT TO MAKE!" The way you worded the OP made it sound like you plan on bringing it up out of nowhere and that is all I am advising against. no...you got it right. she doesn't know how to convey her thoughts like a big girl. becuase..i'm pretty sure everyone read this the same way. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zombieninjakitten Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 4 hours ago, 🍬Candy🍬 said: No cuz i dont cut and i dont have major abuse or trauma in my history Not everyone with bpd meets those two criteria. I’m actually bipolar with bpd and ptsd. *shrug* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
midnight Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 1 hour ago, 🍬Candy🍬 said: what youre insinuating is still stupid. i m not an idiot like most of the people here. do not insult my intelligence. You are a fucking idiot. Tell them you are bipolar and suck dick as a hobby. Call a fucking hotline and keep your mental bullshit out of here. No one cares about your ''illness.'' Just run into your minimum wage job, and yell that you are bipolar and see how many fucks are given. Not nearly as many as you are hoping for. Then you can run back here and cry about how those people are assholes because they didn't suck your flabby titties when you said you were fucked up. Jesus, you need a new shtick. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 3 hours ago, 🍬Candy🍬 said: i have no MAJOR abuse that would affect me in that way. You were raped. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mthor Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 1 minute ago, scoobdog said: You were raped. Actually, that would speak more to PTSD. Personality disorders begin forming in very early childhood. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 3 minutes ago, mthor said: Actually, that would speak more to PTSD. Personality disorders begin forming in very early childhood. The nature with which she denies something she's admitted before in concert with other factors suggests that many of her coping behaviors were predisposed. Obviously, none of us is actually trying to diagnose her as much as parse behavior into an framework that makes it decipherable, but certain recountings of her high school life offer a similar collection of behaviors. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
🍬Candy🍬 Posted June 19, 2019 Author Share Posted June 19, 2019 (edited) 51 minutes ago, zombieninjakitten said: Not everyone with bpd meets those two criteria. I’m actually bipolar with bpd and ptsd. *shrug* Fine FINE heres paperwork from my doctor describing me. Everyone can shut up now...or youll yave to cux anyone calling me a fake after this gets ignored Edited June 19, 2019 by 🍬Candy🍬 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
🍬Candy🍬 Posted June 19, 2019 Author Share Posted June 19, 2019 25 minutes ago, scoobdog said: You were raped. Date raped Age 28 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
🍬Candy🍬 Posted June 19, 2019 Author Share Posted June 19, 2019 30 minutes ago, midnight said: You are a fucking idiot. Tell them you are bipolar and suck dick as a hobby. Call a fucking hotline and keep your mental bullshit out of here. No one cares about your ''illness.'' Just run into your minimum wage job, and yell that you are bipolar and see how many fucks are given. Not nearly as many as you are hoping for. Then you can run back here and cry about how those people are assholes because they didn't suck your flabby titties when you said you were fucked up. Jesus, you need a new shtick. Youre hilarious Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 2 minutes ago, 🍬Candy🍬 said: Date raped Age 28 Like I said, you were raped, an that would be the most major trauma you could possibly experience. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoobdog Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 5 minutes ago, 🍬Candy🍬 said: Fine FINE heres paperwork from my doctor describing me. Everyone can shut up now...or youll yave to cux anyone calling me a fake after this gets ignored Please edit your post. We all know your name, but you do not need to have it plastered all over a form that also describes your psychological profile. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
🍬Candy🍬 Posted June 19, 2019 Author Share Posted June 19, 2019 5 minutes ago, scoobdog said: Please edit your post. We all know your name, but you do not need to have it plastered all over a form that also describes your psychological profile. well yall can stop embracing idiocy now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mthor Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 9 minutes ago, 🍬Candy🍬 said: Fine FINE heres paperwork from my doctor describing me. Everyone can shut up now...or youll yave to cux anyone calling me a fake after this gets ignored Just back away from the keyboard. Go do whatever you're actually supposed to be doing, or get a drink of water, or go for a walk. You are winding yourself up, and the kindest thing that you can do for yourself right now is to disengage. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rogue_Alphonse Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 3 hours ago, 🍬Candy🍬 said: what youre insinuating is still stupid. i m not an idiot like most of the people here. do not insult my intelligence. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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