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I just can't ever feel online "dating" and I've tried it many times. Even Tinder turns me off because it the internet.......PEOPLE LIE A LOT.  And when you do find one that's not lying, she batshit bonkers.  I'm far more comfortable face to face in initial interactions.  I hate passive disappointment but still having to follow through after finally meeting someone you've chatted with online.

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I just can't ever feel online "dating" and I've tried it many times. Even Tinder turns me off because it the internet.......PEOPLE LIE A LOT.  And when you do find one that's not lying, she batshit bonkers.  I'm far more comfortable face to face in initial interactions.  I hate passive disappointment but still having to follow through after finally meeting someone you've chatted with online.

 

I started using OKCupid heavily the past couple of months. Problem is get dozens of new messages everyday and I try to answer everyone that put effort into sending a message but it's draining especially since by the time I answer everyone I have a bunch of replies and new messages again cause it took nearly an hour to sift through and properly respond to everybody.

 

Went on four dates this past week, each with a different guy. Was hard enough working it down to people I wanted to talk to and could schedule something with since I'm so busy. Even after all that, one of them took me on a lousy date that lasted like 15 minutes. Another was good but no sparks, maybe friend material. The other two had their pros and cons but ultimately I'm back at square one and there's already 60 new people talking to me again on top of what was there before.

 

It's absolutely exhausting.

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I just can't ever feel online "dating" and I've tried it many times. Even Tinder turns me off because it the internet.......PEOPLE LIE A LOT.  And when you do find one that's not lying, she batshit bonkers.  I'm far more comfortable face to face in initial interactions.  I hate passive disappointment but still having to follow through after finally meeting someone you've chatted with online.

the fun part is that i'm also batshit bonkers. also i'm bored

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I started using OKCupid heavily the past couple of months. Problem is get dozens of new messages everyday and I try to answer everyone that put effort into sending a message but it's draining especially since by the time I answer everyone I have a bunch of replies and new messages again cause it took nearly an hour to sift through and properly respond to everybody.

 

Went on four dates this past week, each with a different guy. Was hard enough working it down to people I wanted to talk to and could schedule something with since I'm so busy. Even after all that, one of them took me on a lousy date that lasted like 15 minutes. Another was good but no sparks, maybe friend material. The other two had their pros and cons but ultimately I'm back at square one and there's already 60 new people talking to me again on top of what was there before.

 

It's absolutely exhausting.

hey wanna do something sexy like not go anywhere near each other and eat popcorn

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hey wanna do something sexy like not go anywhere near each other and eat popcorn

 

Better than my date last Wednesday. We met up at the big mall out here so we could pick a restaurant to get dinner at. Instead he picks the Panda Express in the food court and gets me one of the meals. We don't even finish eating and he gets us bags and says "Let's go to GameStop." So we walk over there, he buys two Pokemon games for his DS and is like "Well it was fun, let's do this again sometime" and he just walks off. Whole thing was over in 15 mins and I ended up walking around the mall myself. Maybe he was nervous, cause he texted me later about playing PUBG and I just ignored him. As heartless as it sounds, I have too many options to try and salvage every interaction.

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Better than my date last Wednesday. We met up at the big mall out here so we could pick a restaurant to get dinner at. Instead he picks the Panda Express in the food court and gets me one of the meals. We don't even finish eating and he gets us bags and says "Let's go to GameStop." So we walk over there, he buys two Pokemon games for his DS and is like "Well it was fun, let's do this again sometime" and he just walks off. Whole thing was over in 15 mins and I ended up walking around the mall myself. Maybe he was nervous, cause he texted me later about playing PUBG and I just ignored him. As heartless as it sounds, I have too many options to try and salvage every interaction.

man having any option would be nice. here i am doing everything i can HOLDING ON TO WHAT I AM. PRETENDING I'M A SUPERMAN

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It's absolutely exhausting.

 

Well that comes with being a woman.  You have the luxury of picking and choosing.

 

I do like to check my Tinder, OKC, and PoF just to see if anyone ran across me and sent a message, and I'll usually find 2-3 but you can usually tell the chick is crazy.  Sadly, messaging men first reeks of desperation, and when your profile says "seeking marriage" it's an automatic NOPE.  I figure that's the type of thing you bring up later......Not even why seeking marriage is an option.

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Well that comes with being a woman.  You have the luxury of picking and choosing.

 

I do like to check my Tinder, OKC, and PoF just to see if anyone ran across me and sent a message, and I'll usually find 2-3 but you can usually tell the chick is crazy.  Sadly, messaging men first reeks of desperation, and when your profile says "seeking marriage" it's an automatic NOPE.  I figure that's the type of thing you bring up later......Not even why seeking marriage is an option.

i just want a girl who is willing to put up with my shit.

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Well that comes with being a woman.  You have the luxury of picking and choosing.

 

I do like to check my Tinder, OKC, and PoF just to see if anyone ran across me and sent a message, and I'll usually find 2-3 but you can usually tell the chick is crazy.  Sadly, messaging men first reeks of desperation, and when your profile says "seeking marriage" it's an automatic NOPE.  I figure that's the type of thing you bring up later......Not even why seeking marriage is an option.

 

I actually prefer dating women but online lesbian dating is a literal dumpster fire. All the ladies expect the make a profile and just wait for the messages to start rolling in. But when it's all women, virtually no messages go out and everyone sits there until someone proactive comes in and tries to write a message. But most of the time the few messages anyone receives are ignored for trivial reasons and appearance reigns supreme.

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update: she stopped talking to me after I dissed Tom Brady. I CAN'T HELP IT, IT'S IN MY GENES. oh well

 

what!?

 

dude, I seriously considered being a practicing christian just for the slimmest of chances at André Toulon[/member] 's clearly adopted sister and you won't lie about a sports team...

 

I'm beginning to doubt your dedication to this getting laid thing...

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what!?

 

dude, I seriously considered being a practicing christian just for the slimmest of chances at André Toulon[/member] 's clearly adopted sister and you won't lie about a sports team...

 

I'm beginning to doubt your dedication to this getting laid thing...

 

You wound me deeply, but while she is adopted, she's my first cousin, she's still blood.....Just half Korean.

 

See you in the pew

 

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