You know Doom, I don't think you're helping your cause all that much.
I'm not speaking for gpcat here. The way you talk about fetishizing a woman's body, even though you're not necessarily entertaining perverted thoughts, is disconnected. By definition, foreplay is supposed to be enjoyable for both parties, and talking about it only in terms of how you enjoy it is a serious red flag. At the very least, you're coming across as obtuse to women when you discuss fetishizing one without having any other contact with her. At worse, you're playing into all the fears women legitimately have about being objectified and, consequently, abused.