actually it's the smoke, and the fire, and the exploding dishes and melting plastic and silicone breast pump equipment, and having to go 6 months without a stove during the early pandemic
I think the key difference is that unlike human engineering, nature has had two billion years of indifferently throwing shit at the wall to progressively get this far
I get the housing cost issue, but maybe don't move in with new pants guy unless you're willing to first entertain each positive and negative outcome this could result in. Like do you even know this guy really?