that life is totally not for me, but i guess i can understand it. i have a couple friends who are 30+ virgins. at some point, they just kinda give up on trying (and yes, sometimes they even actively avoid it out of whatever irrational fear), and focus on themselves. honestly, it would probably be a lot simpler life if i never found my way into anyone's panties. a lot less fun, but simpler. both these dudes seem pretty happy with their lives, have decent-paying jobs and all the toys a grown person should be allowed, and have lived on their own for several years. maybe they actually cry themselves to sleep every night, who knows.