Vixen_catgirl Posted December 5, 2017 Posted December 5, 2017 And i have agreed to visit my mother and sister. Why have i done this? I dont fucking know. Bought the plane ticket, so now i can't back out of this.
Distortedreasoning Posted December 5, 2017 Posted December 5, 2017 what about your family online, its been years since weve seen you but seriously, why so distant with your irl family? thats a long time without seeing them.
Phillies Posted December 5, 2017 Posted December 5, 2017 Didn't you dun used to post here back say 2010
Vixen_catgirl Posted December 5, 2017 Author Posted December 5, 2017 37 minutes ago, The Hound said: Were the only family you need. Part of the ship. Part of the crew.
Vixen_catgirl Posted December 5, 2017 Author Posted December 5, 2017 29 minutes ago, Distortedreasoning said: what about your family online, its been years since weve seen you but seriously, why so distant with your irl family? thats a long time without seeing them. I do feel as though i have neglected my IB family. Teh shame I bailed as a teenager, the whole thing was really quite a mess. My family is.. a level of dysfunction I prefer not to deal with.
Vixen_catgirl Posted December 5, 2017 Author Posted December 5, 2017 28 minutes ago, Phillies said: Didn't you dun used to post here back say 2010 Yes ^.^ i was on IB as early as 2004. Much younger than i should have been being on those boards.
Phillies Posted December 5, 2017 Posted December 5, 2017 Just now, Vixen_catgirl said: Yes ^.^ i was on IB as early as 2004. Much younger than i should have been being on those boards. Yeah I remember you. Welcome back!!
Ginguy Posted December 5, 2017 Posted December 5, 2017 49 minutes ago, Vixen_catgirl said: And i have agreed to visit my mother and sister. Why have i done this? I dont fucking know. Bought the plane ticket, so now i can't back out of this. It is possible that you want some kind of closure, or that you want to see them in order to reconcile and begin anew. You are in a good place, which is important, and you are trying to reach out to your family, which is a good thing. Best of luck with this.
Ric Posted December 5, 2017 Posted December 5, 2017 Well I definitely wouldn't not go after spending money on a plane ticket. Who knows, maybe it will go better than you think. Or it could worse, but hey then you tried and it's a good excuse to not go back again.
Vixen_catgirl Posted December 5, 2017 Author Posted December 5, 2017 (edited) 28 minutes ago, Phillies said: Yeah I remember you. Welcome back!! Thank you Very few people remember me so its nice when someone does Edited December 5, 2017 by Vixen_catgirl
Vixen_catgirl Posted December 5, 2017 Author Posted December 5, 2017 28 minutes ago, Ginguy said: It is possible that you want some kind of closure, or that you want to see them in order to reconcile and begin anew. You are in a good place, which is important, and you are trying to reach out to your family, which is a good thing. Best of luck with this. I mean, i feel pretty bad for my younger sister. So there is definitely some guilt there and she has this dickbag of a boyfriend that i used to sell to way back when, bleh just thinking about it all, the dread is building 9 minutes ago, Cau said: You fool! Fuck! I know. Its a horrible trap.
Vixen_catgirl Posted December 5, 2017 Author Posted December 5, 2017 5 minutes ago, Ric said: Well I definitely wouldn't not go after spending money on a plane ticket. Who knows, maybe it will go better than you think. Or it could worse, but hey then you tried and it's a good excuse to not go back again. Silver linings lol
Cau Posted December 5, 2017 Posted December 5, 2017 Yeah, I made that mistake after cutting my dad out of my life for 5 years. Feels bad, grrrrrrrrrrrl
death_by_motorboat Posted December 5, 2017 Posted December 5, 2017 (edited) 1 hour ago, Vixen_catgirl said: And i have agreed to visit my mother and sister. Why have i done this? I dont fucking know. Bought the plane ticket, so now i can't back out of this. how did you manage to get them out of your life for years? Edited December 5, 2017 by mumbojummie13
Distortedreasoning Posted December 5, 2017 Posted December 5, 2017 49 minutes ago, Vixen_catgirl said: I do feel as though i have neglected my IB family. Teh shame I bailed as a teenager, the whole thing was really quite a mess. My family is.. a level of dysfunction I prefer not to deal with. shammmeee! you could try to see if they changed? idk i love my family and would hate to have a gap between us like that but i got pretty lucky.
CAC Posted December 5, 2017 Posted December 5, 2017 1 hour ago, The Hound said: Were the only family you need.
Ginguy Posted December 5, 2017 Posted December 5, 2017 38 minutes ago, Vixen_catgirl said: I mean, i feel pretty bad for my younger sister. So there is definitely some guilt there and she has this dickbag of a boyfriend that i used to sell to way back when, bleh just thinking about it all, the dread is building Fuck! I know. Its a horrible trap. Perhaps you can reach out to your sister and show her by example of your life that she doesnn't have to stay in a dysfunnctional house with a dickbag bf.
Vixen_catgirl Posted December 6, 2017 Author Posted December 6, 2017 1 hour ago, Cau said: Yeah, I made that mistake after cutting my dad out of my life for 5 years. Feels bad, grrrrrrrrrrrl And then how bad you feel about it makes it even harder to talk to them 1 hour ago, StarPanda said: Go say hi and then leave Yeah, i dont intend to stay there for long
Vixen_catgirl Posted December 6, 2017 Author Posted December 6, 2017 1 hour ago, mumbojummie13 said: how did you manage to get them out of your life for years? I ran off at 15 and tried to get emancipated, it failed, i moved to a different big city to hide till 18, got my ged and moved to NYC. It sounds terrible, but i didnt really think much of it, not talking to them i mean.
Vixen_catgirl Posted December 6, 2017 Author Posted December 6, 2017 1 hour ago, Distortedreasoning said: shammmeee! you could try to see if they changed? idk i love my family and would hate to have a gap between us like that but i got pretty lucky. I know they have changed a bit, my mom is a little but more sober now. But she forces american culture down my throat this time of year and it drives me nuts. The guy she married is a piece of shit, i highly doubt that has changed.
Vixen_catgirl Posted December 6, 2017 Author Posted December 6, 2017 1 hour ago, Ginguy said: Perhaps you can reach out to your sister and show her by example of your life that she doesnn't have to stay in a dysfunnctional house with a dickbag bf. Yeah, i owe her that much in the least. I have tried staying in contact with her more over the past few months.
Mix Posted December 6, 2017 Posted December 6, 2017 3 hours ago, Vixen_catgirl said: And i have agreed to visit my mother and sister. Why have i done this? I dont fucking know. Bought the plane ticket, so now i can't back out of this.
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